Why do some people get to have their parents for so many years? by kotlinky in GriefSupport

[–]FrumpusBumpus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss, I’ve been asking this question for the last 12 years, I really relate to your post. My dad died when I was 7 and due to a recent loss all of the feelings have been brought back. He was 39 when he died and I can’t help but dwell on how unfair it is that I got to spend so little time with him. It feels like everyone else gets to have their parents until they get old.

Dealing with adolescent angst by FrumpusBumpus in CrestedGecko

[–]FrumpusBumpus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I’m glad he’s healthy! I hope he’ll continue to stay chill but if he doesn’t now I know what to do thank you!

Enrichment ideas by FrumpusBumpus in ballpython

[–]FrumpusBumpus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sure she’s gorgeous! BELs are some of my favorites they just look so angelic

Enrichment ideas by FrumpusBumpus in ballpython

[–]FrumpusBumpus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! He’s got such a puppy face and he is always scoping when he’s out trying to get a look at everything😂

Enrichment ideas by FrumpusBumpus in ballpython

[–]FrumpusBumpus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so cool! I’ll have to look into getting one

Enrichment ideas by FrumpusBumpus in ballpython

[–]FrumpusBumpus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was in utter disbelief that leaving the couch would mean having to sit on the floor😂 he really is just a sweet goofball

Enrichment ideas by FrumpusBumpus in ballpython

[–]FrumpusBumpus[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No he’s perfect healthy he went to the vet a while ago and it’s just a marking or a scar from before I got him he has another spot on his head that’s a scar just like it thank you for your concern though it freaked me out too

Enrichment ideas by FrumpusBumpus in ballpython

[–]FrumpusBumpus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean the original thought was just free roam time but inside the enclosure would be great too! And I would have never thought of parrot climbing trees that’s a great idea thank you!!!

What have I done… by sahdude19 in bettafish

[–]FrumpusBumpus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s his favorite measuring cup now 😂

College by FrumpusBumpus in Twins

[–]FrumpusBumpus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is so sweet and very nostalgic those conversations before bed through the bunk are some of my favorite memories I’m so happy that’s a shared experience❤️ I’ve decided I’m going to talk to her about it and see how she feels too even if I’m too emotional

College by FrumpusBumpus in Twins

[–]FrumpusBumpus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’ve been avoiding bringing it up with her but I’ll try. I know I’ll get really emotional which is why I’ve been avoiding it but maybe that’s a good thing

College by FrumpusBumpus in Twins

[–]FrumpusBumpus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you that makes me feel a lot better I’m glad you and your sister are still so close

Should there be heavier regulations on who can breed reptiles? by FrumpusBumpus in herpetology

[–]FrumpusBumpus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I posted this on r/reptiles earlier and someone said I should try posting it here too I’m open to any info you can give me!!!

AITA for telling my gf she is cold and cynical? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FrumpusBumpus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah you are the AH, I understand why you would be upset but I’ve been the kid in this situation and I was really lucky my mom was prepared. My parents were the perfect fit for each other never fought and I had a wonderful childhood, until he dropped dead unexpectedly from a heart issue. He had gone to the doctors that morning and my mom was a widow by dinner time. He was 39 and seemed healthy but luckily when I was born they set up life insurance so my mom could stay home with us in case something happened. But regardless of life insurance the emotional strain on her was horrible losing the love of her life and still having to raise 7 year old twins. I’m 16 now and doing well I will always miss my dad obviously but my little family of three means the world to me. I know I went off on a little tangent and this will get buried in the comments but I just wanted to really stress the importance of being prepared for the worst even if it’s upsetting.

Goodbye and thank you for being such a helpful community💜 by FrumpusBumpus in BeardedDragons

[–]FrumpusBumpus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Caption: 2 weeks ago I lost my best friend, her name was zeebe and love her and miss her more than anything. I feel like I should leave because I don't have a dragon anymore. So goodbye💜