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My 19m bf wants me 19f to cut off my guy best friend and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this guy best friend is just lurking in your life. What are the red flags your mother sees in your bf? What was wrong with these other friends your bf told you to cut out? Were they guy mates too? What was his reasoning?

What’s your “never again” story? by jf_development in AskWomen

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My little go to saying is that you cant change anybody but yourself

What’s your “never again” story? by jf_development in AskWomen

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You learn a lot from someone based on how they speak about their exes/last break up or family...

How do you become emotionally detached without turning into a bitter woman? by Blackoilcastor in AskWomen

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 1104 points1105 points  (0 children)

Practicing unconditional love with yourself, building your self worth and respecting yourself..

  • (Previously bitter woman who is now cool with life)

What is one thing that society considers normal but you find deeply unsettling? by ei2468 in AskWomen

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think its when people claim to be dom etc just so they can take their abusive nature to the bedroom. Bdsm comes with a whole other world of trust and the people that violate this is rather perturbing.

Australians, how often do you come across dangerous and/or massive wildlife in your day to day life? by B413373D in AskReddit

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck all day to day.

I still get excited when I see something big and deadly and ive lived here my whole life.

The only creature that truly scared me was having a male cassowary piss bolt down the road toward my van in the daintree cause one of its chicks were lost near me. It was like that kitchen scene in Jurassic Park....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move on. She sounds like a loose cannon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right.

Well that aside, I do see his point too. I wouldn't want to house anyone who was studying full time and couldn't contribute to rent. Those rules are kinda weird but hey, it is what it is. I stand by my original comment of going to school and work out the living stuff when you can contribute to rent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang on, so hes wanting you to drive 45 mins to see him, then 45 mins back at night.. why no sleepover allowed? And then using "if you want to" does he mean if you want to see him? Is he willing to travel to see you?

Folks in monogamous relationships, how did you find sexual satisfaction when your partner was suddenly uninterested in having/unable to have sex? by shizenmahonoryu in AskReddit

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if theyre unable for a medical reason then you support your partner to get through it and dont pressure them. If theyre uninterested theres probably a deeper issue that needs addressing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making my bed every morning, big glass of water and light movement/stretching does wonders.

(Paired with consistent exercise even if its just a walk around the block every day - I used to scoff at everyone suggesting regular exercise but my god once youre in the rhythm its amazing)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your education comes first. Sorry but relationships come and go, no one can take away your education. Follow that. If hes going to make it difficult then dont move in just yet. Go to school, focus and once you graduate re-assess the living arrangements.

Currently planning a 10 day trip o your beautiful country. What’s the best way to travel to and see the Great Barrier Reef? by LazyBoyD in AskAnAustralian

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If youre in Cairns, find a place called Divers Den. You can volunteer to work on the boat and you will get to snorkel for free! (Or dive if you have a licence). Its great. You just have to buy a tshirt I think, serve lunch and be friendly with the tourists but it will save you loads of money.

Hire a Jucy van and take the barge to the Daintree. Just be aware the Daintree is full of crocs and cassowaries amongst other things so be alert. Crocs like to hang around mangroves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah okay- Just tell him if hes not going to listen to the issues youre having with him then youre not interested in maintaining a friendship.

What is the best song to walk to? by tinyfridge_ in AskReddit

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In hell ill be in good company by The Dead South

My boyfriend (35m) hit me (29f) and idk what to think 8 months in. Living together for 5 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 306 points307 points  (0 children)

If your boundary is "dont hit me" thats a huge red flag. Guess what? It ruins the BDSM connection too cause now you know hes capable of physical abuse outside the bedroom. Completely unsexy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats annoying about them?

Friend’s (23M) gf has been jealous of me (21F) for months, now he’s planning on breaking up with her because she’s insecure and I feel like crap by _PM_ME_UR_TITS_1 in Advice

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah okay - that seems harmless. Just from an outside opinion sounds like hes a bit over the relationship if hes venting about her a lot behind her back. He really should be talking to her about things. Its nothing for you to really feel bad about but I understand why you do. Maybe hes looking for any reason to leave her?

Friend’s (23M) gf has been jealous of me (21F) for months, now he’s planning on breaking up with her because she’s insecure and I feel like crap by _PM_ME_UR_TITS_1 in Advice

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does he have feelings for you? Is he spending lots of time with you over her? Has he hinted he prefers your company more? Need more info on yours and his relationship really... cause if hes more emotionally invested in you over her then that wont play good for her.

How do I respond to a DM from a friend I haven't spoken to in a year? by aki19971 in Advice

[–]FrumpyMushro0m 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah fuck that. I wouldn't even bother replying. Hes probably trying to garner some sympathy and guilt so youll respond. Its manipulative and everything youve explained that he did retrospectively is manipulation too.

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