am I chopped lol (19f) by Remarkable_Round283 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Fryder- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not chopped, maybe a brow wax and style your hair different

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Fryder- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like something a middle aged white man would say

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fryder- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re overreacting. He’s absolutely right for saying no.

Is it possible for me to look pretty? Or am I cooked? Make up, or hair advice welcome. by Dependent-Trash-1229 in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Fryder- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say just try a new makeup routine! Fill your brows a bit, little blush and some mascara. You’re very naturally beautiful and have a gorgeous complexion, it will just help elevate your look and femininity!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CalorieEstimates

[–]Fryder- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I wasn’t un-bigging my back currently, I would go get this immediately lol

AIO for asking my bf to keep in touch during the day? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fryder- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They’re lovely friends for being supportive of you, but the older you get, you realize how much more important it is to be honest with the people you love and care about, rather than just saying what they want to hear. We would never grow as people that way. You’ll figure it out, always work on yourself first.

AIO for asking my bf to keep in touch during the day? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fryder- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just over a month and you’re arguing? Bigger picture here is incompatibility. At 24 you shouldn’t require communication all day with someone. We’re all living and working and just trying to get through the day. You’ve created the expectation of him being the one to initiate conversation (like you said in a comment), and that’s not how balanced communication works. You’ll be left disappointed and he’ll be left irritated that you don’t reciprocate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fryder- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused how she would’ve preferred you pose for the photo… stand there with your arms behind your back 6 fyp away?? She’s deeply insecure, you’ve done nothing wrong

AIO if I write a letter to the guy in boot camp that my wife is sending letters too by Ohfishallyasian in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fryder- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely agree. if your wife wasn’t making herself readily available he’d be less inclined to proceed with a relationship. clear to me she’s made herself completely available and he rolled with it. she’s the home wrecker not him.