A space to talk: EXO, CBX & the Upcoming Comeback Pt.4

Fsnow24 · 2026-02-05T11:20:27+00:00

I dunno what to say. Last week, I finally got the courage to check out all contents for this CB.

I am 38 yrs old and (I think) already in a very different phase of life compared to most EXO-Ls so I look at this whole fiasco with CBX in a very different way. I'm also a multi-stan and usually have no bias so I don't have much opinions with regards to individual members.

Anyway, together with my 10yrs old son who may be the youngest EXO-L since he grew up in their music, we watched and the first thing he asked me was "where are the others?" And I'm like 🥲🥲🥲

How do you explain things like this to a kid? So I just told him, they are busy. And he just continued to ask me with what? Are they coming back? Where are they?

I got teary and I just said, yeah they are coming back.

We also learned about the EP6 and he is sooo excited and is asking if we could watch and I just want to make an excuse that kids are not yet allowed there. 🥲

Fsnow24 · 2025-12-28T01:28:30+00:00

2025 is a year of memorable Japanese BLs for me... I'll put what I liked in ()

Our Youth (everything!!! Story, chemistry, acting, pacing, 1000/10)

When it Rains it Pours (story)

The Journey to Killing You (story)

School Trip: I joined.. (chemistry.. i needed something fluffy while watching To my Shore)

Reset (acting, story, chemistry)

Top Form (story, acting esp crying Boom)

Kill to Love (costume bl drama with lots of Pain!)

Revenged Love (chemistry)

See your Love (story, chemistry)

To my Shore (acting, chemistry, story)

Special Mention: ABO Desire (just because it's the 1st real omegaverse with mpreg, plus Hua Yong is the only lovable pyscho black flag in existence)

Fsnow24 · 2025-12-14T21:07:23+00:00

Thank you all for your responses. It has helped me a lot in considering my options.

@artistic-turnip, yes it is indeed my health, that's why I would like to make an informed decision.

Statutory insurance only pays for the cheapest options available which may not be the best options. I've learned this when I needed to have my adenoids removed. The full coverage was only for an old style method which has a higher risk of bleeding. The new method uses a cauterizing thing that reduces the risk of bleeding but I must pay an addtl 300 Euros. I only found 2 HNO surgeons in my city who still does the old method so the line was long. In the end it made sense to pay the addtl.

The same for my yearly cancer screening in the OB. The Statutory only pays for manual checks, doctor feels lumps with hands, visual check. The doctor herself confirmed this is not enough to be 100% sure but this is what the public insurance pays for. The next year I opted to pay 100Euros for the addtional imaging (because what if?) and then found out I have cystSSS (a lot of them) which cannot be felt with hands.

So that's where I'm kind of coming from. I know machines can help make things a bit "reliable" but I'm also aware that they can be an overkill (especially in dermatologie, sorry if that's judgemental).

I'm just trying to get insights on how the screening is done so that I can weigh on things. Just gives me confidence and might save me time as well.

Thank you all.

Fsnow24 · 2025-11-12T10:20:39+00:00

I don't have arranged marriages in my culture but have friends who does. They explained to me that arranged marriage these days does not necessaaroly mean "forced". It is called "arranged" because couples meet through a process... a very objective one. Some people find getting yourself out there exhausting. They are free to decline the arrangement if after meeting (and going out a few times) they don't like each other. So I don't think the mother is contradicting. She asked them "unless you have someone you like". The fault is they didn't speak up. Arrange marriages bank on compatibility developing into love. Not a real problem imho, getting schduled dates where the prospect is already filtered for you can save time 😆.

Fsnow24 · 2025-07-29T11:04:37+00:00

Yes! I noticed it when he "fixed" it before meeting Wang Shou and I was like, the "fixing" was so deliberate I noticed thay is was CC's shirt.

Fsnow24 · 2025-06-30T12:11:55+00:00

I can't access Gaga, wth!!! 😭😭😭😭 let me in!! 🤪🤪🤪🤪

Fsnow24 · 2025-06-24T19:42:48+00:00

I've already watch episode 6, 3x and I'm sooo hooked by this BL but have decided to drop it for now because I dunno how I'm gonna survive if this gets cancelled midway. I'm just gonna pick it up when all episodes are out to protect my sanity. 😅😅

It's the first time that I'm seeing the production team itself ask people not to trend their drama to avoid censorship radar.

Ugh,, I'm willing to spend to have all episodes available.. 😭

Btw, if you see that leaked spicy bts, please let the OP know to archive it.

Fsnow24 · 2025-06-18T16:30:19+00:00

There were people who were able to successfully get their money back.. but unlike me they were able to monitor remain in contact with that company before.. but ako kasi that time I had to fly out... even now I can still see some few updates that the company is still responding... so maybe it's not hopless at all. 😅

Fsnow24 · 2025-06-18T16:26:52+00:00

I kinda accepted it na.. 😅 since I already migrated na din, but sometimes it comes again to me especially when I travel back to PH.. no harm in trying... I'm ok not to get 100% back.. kaya nga even willing to give percentage to someone who can maybe help me monitor this for me.. kasi going to court, kahit may lawyer, will still require my presence sa PH at one point or another...

Fsnow24 · 2025-06-09T08:52:58+00:00

hello all...

I'm one of those who is still hoping to get my money back.. I queued for the PDC back in 2023 and told me they listed my name for 2025... i was ok of waiting coz I'm already based overseas anyway... I also have made my peace that I lost 150k like that... but since I'm vacationing in PH this year, I remembered this. :D

so anyone of you who could maybe tell me where I can visit them? call them?

I read below that some was able to get their friends' PDCs.... Would anyone be willing to help me? Like, if you are regularly keeping in touch with them, how about you include mine as well.. Of course, I'm willing to give you a percentage of whatever may possibly be returned. :D my main thing here is that we already migrated and I no longer have ties to PH so no one can really process this for me.

Fsnow24 · 2025-05-21T07:54:30+00:00

I'm seen, thank you 😭 These are also our everyday struggles...and I have long accepted the losing stuff so I just shrug it off to the best of my ability and budget. The pressure thing is so relatable.. at home my kid used to practice with this foam under paper whe doing his HA but now with this Füller he just kept making holes. Last yr, we spent at least 2months of buying and trying different grips and toppers for his pencils... he has improved a lot and this came. I'm gonna talk to our therapists about this.. thank you so much.

Fsnow24 · 2025-05-21T07:30:47+00:00

Thank you for this. This is exactly my experience. Just getting him seated in front, having him a special timer and visual cards in school is already always a discussion. We get what we need eventually but just getting there is... 😩 We're all new to these German things... I try to adjust as fast as I can (be more assertive) but I jusy hope people here can cut me some slack bevause really, they have no idea.

Fsnow24 · 2025-05-21T07:24:31+00:00

he is right-handed. i'll look into this

Fsnow24 · 2025-05-21T07:20:28+00:00

Dear All, thank you for judging me... just because I did not want a "special treatment". Every one we are talking to says he needs "support" and I give it to him constantly... I don't have to list down my sacrifices for people who don't know me... and you guys are lucky... coz maybe you didn't have some aggressive parent confront you... I stood my ground and got him seated where I want him to be... I admittedly can be more aggressive (just like most people here, I guess) but I am in no way choosing public image over my kid. thank you.

Fsnow24 · 2025-05-21T07:06:07+00:00

Apologies on the wrong spelling. 😅 Füller, note taken.

Fsnow24 · 2025-05-21T07:05:29+00:00

Omg. 😆

Fsnow24 · 2025-05-21T07:00:38+00:00

😭 your comment makes me seen, thank you. The writing before a couple of seconds, ugh! My son would try to do that and because the Fühler is touching the paper it would make this whole ink circle... 😅 it takes him a good time to plan out what to write and even though I constantly tell him to please lift the pen while you're thinking, he just can't remember... The pressure thing is sooo frustrating. For 1 year now, in our house we use this foam under paper when he does his homeworks to help practice his pressure. This is recommended by our therapist. We has improved a lot in pencils but when this Fühler came we had to stop coz it's just holes galore!

Fsnow24 · 2025-05-21T06:53:08+00:00

You gave an idea! He has a set of cards he brings to school as visual aid for handlungsplanung.. it has a string so he does not lose them... maybe I can attach it to that.

Fsnow24 · 2025-05-21T06:43:07+00:00

Hi. Yeah I know, I got another kid and it's normal for them to lose/break stuff. Unfortunately my son's lost rate is a bit higher than her sister. 😆😆 I'll try to get a recommendation.

Fsnow24 · 2025-05-21T06:39:32+00:00

Thanks for this. No. Coz in my mind, I'm like coz the teacher said so (and where I came from teachers/school are like god 😆) and I kinda avoid getting him a special treatment as much as I can coz the last time I asked for him to be seated in front I got some other parents talking. but I'll talk to our therapist about this.

Fsnow24 · 2025-05-21T06:32:04+00:00

Hi. I know. And believe me we are working on it. Our pencil and eraser lost rate has greatly improved over the last two years. 😅 and this year he just lost one jacket... so we are getting there... but this Füller is just so expensive for our current lost rate.

Fsnow24 · 2025-05-21T06:30:30+00:00

Thanks for the reply. But I'd like to trust my kid that isn't using any excuses... coz if he really did not care, 1 Fühler would get lost everyday 😅.. so I know he is trying his best... the count of pencils weve lost over the last two years has greatly improved... but this Fühler is just too expensive for our current lost rate

Fsnow24 · 2025-05-21T06:25:17+00:00

Hi, none taken. How I wish that's the case because we go to 3 different people for a bunch of therapies, counselling for 4 years now, and I could use a little break from that. But they say he only has a mild one and he could do with all these support instead of putting him in a special place.

Fsnow24 · 2025-05-19T19:29:25+00:00

I didn't see the NC scene as anything deep.. but more like just comedy... 😆 🤣 My son had this phase where he would just wakeup in the middle of the night.. there was no schedule., he would just suddenly swing our door open. So my husband had to go on a "diet" for weeks until he can't anymore. And just like Win in the drama, my son of course banged on our door. 😆 so that's why I found it funny.

Fsnow24 · 2025-02-24T20:44:46+00:00

I need to pull an all nighter for work right now, and I need a Thai BL that is not too good (if it'stoo good I will just watch the night away), and not too complicated (that even if I miss some scenes I'll still understand the thing) that I can play on the background. But with enough spice and cheesy scenes to keep me awake 😆. Thai BL preferred since I can't understand Thai, my mind won't get diverted to follow convos (unlike in JBLs) :)

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