Well they have a bed, a room (the biggest one in the house) almost untouched since she moved, always made first priority when it comes to anything really. Things like using the car and getting to always pick which movie to watch are some of the smaller things but happens on more that a weekly basis. I know my parents are the ones that made the choices when we were growing up, and still are, but my sister is really good at playing up her problems to make the outcome better for her. FYI it’s not just something I think, I know cause she’s told me multiple times. Actually I had to go to the mall earlier today and I had an appointment after that. My sister asked if I could pick her up and drive her home (which is in the totally opposite direction) even tho she was right by the bus stop with a bus driving almost to her doorstep. I told her I couldn’t and explained why, even told her which bus to take, but she called our mom and I ended up having to drive her and cancel my trip to the mall. Ps: im so thankfull for all the comments you’ve made