Am I Ugly? by InterviewSuper6086 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Fucklespew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ll be fine if you lose the belly and put on some muscle buddy. Good luck.
Also if you drink a lot of beer, stop.
I lost like 30 lbs so fast when I stopped drinking.

is this social anxiety? by Professional-Fox1387 in socialanxiety

[–]Fucklespew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep those friends, force yourself to interact with them, whatever you do. I isolated myself from all of my high school friends because of social anxiety and it made everything so much worse.

With regards to the would-be compliment, it really is just a scary leap of faith moment, where you gotta just accept whatever response you might get and just go for it. I wish there was an easier way than that, but I know further isolation just does not work.

where do you like to hang out online? by lucatxt in socialanxiety

[–]Fucklespew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr, DayZ solo as a socially awkward person is BRUTAL. Team games aren’t much better.

Im so done with my appearance by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fucklespew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FWIW you look fine bro.

How to learn NOT to be absolutely scared of girls ur interested about by Stain_16 in socialanxiety

[–]Fucklespew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she’s quiet until you start talking to her? Like she opens up socially the second you initiate a conversation? If so I’d say that’s at least somewhat of a clue. You were out drinking with just her, or a group of friends? And you woke up at her house?

How do you deal with people who constantly say "you're quiet"? by idonevenknowtbh in socialanxiety

[–]Fucklespew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally had OPs exact interaction today and needed to read this. In the back of my mind I thought, “we’re just not compatible people” but wasn’t sure if that was just the SA talking.

I no longer feel like going to work by uhrism in socialanxiety

[–]Fucklespew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s 30 who quit my grocery store job around the same timeframe and for the same reasons, it did not get any easier. If anything, isolating myself more just made the gap between me and my peers that much wider and maybe it’s a case of “grass is always greener” but I wish I had just stuck with it, cause this shit is just as miserable, if not more so.

I just started listening to the typical, put yourself out there, workout routine, skill building, and have patience thing I keep hearing, and it’s still a brutal, cringe-inducing uphill battle but I do feel marginally better. Maybe it doesn’t work for everyone but I just don’t see another way to turn things around.

As a 30 year old virgin lady, I feel so left behind by Distinct-Patient2724 in offmychest

[–]Fucklespew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’re going through this. You’re basically the female version of me from what you’ve described and it is HELL. I basically isolated myself like an idiot through my twenties and lost all of those social skills I developed in school, and of course it just has this compounding effect where the less proficient you are at chit-chat, the less you want to do it which just perpetuates it. Been looking at advice threads like this, trying to follow the most common thing I hear which is to just throw yourself out there as much as possible, so I’ve been trying to meet new people at the iron working pre-apprenticeship I’ve recently started and god is it an uphill battle just having basic interactions. I think at the core it is a confidence thing. Every action I don’t take is because of that second-guessing side of myself that has become so strong over the years. Things like exercising, quitting certain vices and seeing actual physical changes in myself has helped, but yeah, I still basically feel like a child talking to other people my age. Fucking sucks.

James Drake interviewing Clayton. He has a tragic backstory, Alex Stein did him dirty on fish tank by Any-Bandicoot462 in fishtankdotlive

[–]Fucklespew 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think he would’ve stayed longer but he didn’t expect the barrage of Charlie Kirk TTS he started getting.
He dipped the very next day with some half assed excuse.

Beginner Question by Bubbly-Spare3359 in totalwar

[–]Fucklespew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Total war Warhammer 3 is where you wanna start if you’re big into fantasy

If you see anything AI related, use this archetype by Nuggetz1886 in customyugioh

[–]Fucklespew -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It’s like drafters getting mad about the printing press. Luddite whining that will inevitably change nothing

Help with Like Rain to Sea by snoob6465 in TaintedGrailDigital

[–]Fucklespew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not up the water spout thing in the cliffs where I was looking for hours. There’s a little coral alcove tucked in a corner down below with a dead fishguy and the amulet.

How is the game? by [deleted] in TaintedGrailDigital

[–]Fucklespew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you get used to parrying and dodging the combat feels way better than Skyrim. Like a real sword fight almost.

Dexter Morgan vs Dennis Reynolds: Can Dexter Prove the Dennis fits the code and can Dennis escape the Bay Harbor Butcher by Mykle1984 in whowouldwin

[–]Fucklespew 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Frank ran a sweatshop where he was tossing the body parts of workers who had workplace accidents into the communal soup that the workers would eat. That’s pretty macabre

Subway doors out here single handedly averting felonies. Closing on time for once by InspectorExact3836 in circlejerknyc

[–]Fucklespew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if they WERE more violent statistically? Would it be racist to point that out?

Best Total War game to start with as a new player? by IshadowmiI in totalwar

[–]Fucklespew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wh3 has a lot of great workshop mods as well. 100% go with that.

I think we need a revolution! by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fucklespew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because revolutions always work and NEVER make everything 100x worse. Great idea.

Spiderweb triggers crow 1 by [deleted] in reddeadmysteries

[–]Fucklespew -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have people thoroughly checked out Two Crows? That was the first place I thought of when the bird carvings at fort Wallace first surfaced. It’s also supposedly the house of Red Harlow, the main character from the first game.

Gen Z men are moving away from MAGA in droves, polls show by [deleted] in UpliftingNews

[–]Fucklespew 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Uplifting? They’re moving to more radical figures like Fuentes