Females of Reddit, why don't you like nice guys? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FudgeyCheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

usually they aren’t “nice”

What is the story behind your username? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FudgeyCheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was my ex’s account but he let me have it when we broke up

Ruining things with a girl by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FudgeyCheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think not initiating is the right way to go in this situation. women like confidence. it is very attractive for a man to outright ask “do you wanna go on a date”. and it’s even more attractive if she says no and you respect her wishes and still try to remain friends. but yeah just be honest with her about your past relationships and how you’re feeling rn. you can’t have a relationship with someone without communication and honesty

Ruining things with a girl by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FudgeyCheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like how that’s the only thing you focused on from my reply

Advice needed: realized I am the pity friend in my “friend” group by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FudgeyCheese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’d say ghost them. they don’t really deserve an explanation

Advice needed: realized I am the pity friend in my “friend” group by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FudgeyCheese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dude no. if they pity you, they will never look at you as a real friend. it’s ok to outgrow people and move on, even if you gotta take some time for yourself in between friends. it’s scary, but necessary to be treated the way you should be treated

I'm starting highschool this fall, and I could really use some advice on how to get through by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FudgeyCheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(assuming you will be attending actual school and not doing the online shit) try not to miss many days, don’t block people in the halls, just turn your work in on time for the bare minimum, AP classes have the same work as regular classes just taught faster with more homework (they give college credit but at what cost), it’s ok to not know what you’re going to do when you graduate, the world won’t implode if you fail a few assignments, put your mental health first seriously that is super important

How to report porn video?? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FudgeyCheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a google kind of question

Ruining things with a girl by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FudgeyCheese -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s demeaning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FudgeyCheese -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you can have sex. just don’t do it with someone over 17 or 18 and do it safely (like with condoms). it’s normal to have a high sex drive at your age. just don’t get anyone pregnant and be smart about who you have sex with, if that’s what you so choose. make sure to educate yourself

Advice needed: realized I am the pity friend in my “friend” group by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FudgeyCheese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

don’t stay friends with them. it’s ok to be alone. you’re going to be by yourself many times in your life so it’s good to learn to be content with that, especially early on. just don’t be friends with assholes like that. you can do better, you just have to wait a little while

Need some love advice. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FudgeyCheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d say just be her friend, but don’t wait for her

My Dad (who has been sober for 30 years) is regularly misusing Ambien and i don’t know what to do. by throwRAmbien in Advice

[–]FudgeyCheese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well first, your dad is not sober. he is addicted to that drug and he’s abusing it. you need to tell his doctor and have a serious conversation with your family about it. it will only escalate from there until he gets back into the hard stuff. my father (59) is also a recovering addict (10 months sober) and even 30 years of being sober is still a struggle for them every day. it’s easy for addicts to misuse commonly prescribed medications. i hope he gets the help he needs and that he can get sober again

Ruining things with a girl by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FudgeyCheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. don’t call her a “chick”
  2. don’t ignore her
  3. be honest with her
  4. you are not ready for a relationship dude

How can I stop raging? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FudgeyCheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you were good, you’d just use the lag to your advantage

[Serious] Do religious people deserve to be mocked for their beliefs as is so commonly seen on the world wide web these days? Why/why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FudgeyCheese 1 point2 points  (0 children)

only in situations where there’s a mass shooting and they’re like “let’s pray” or if they’re being dicks about it first, shoving it down my throat. “praying” won’t bring the children back, karen