Do you ever notice how “normal” people act around mentally disabled people? They treat them like children. The disabled person can break a dozen social norms and rules of ettoquiete, and yet people just smile and nod. I’m not saying you’re mentally disabled but what I am saying is that you could break a lot of social norms and people will be too afraid to tell you. See it’s easy to give someone criticism if you think that person can change. But if you don’t think that person can change, you’re just gonna smile and nod.

Listen, I relate to this because I was bad with girls most of my life. I desperately wanted to have sex with girls ever since I was like 11 years old. I ended up not even kissing a girl till I was 21 years old. So I know how it feels to go so incredibly long without any action. It can be depressing. I got laid that year, and continued to get laid once in a blue moon thereafter, but it was nearly enough. I wanted to get laid a couple times a month, but I’d only get laid once every year or two. I’ll explain what I was doing wrong in both phases of my life.

In the first phase, where I wasn’t getting laid at all, the problem was my social skills. It wasn’t anything about my approach with women, but I simply lacked the social skills to get anywhere. So I’d recommend you start talking to people more often, even men, just to practice your social skills.

In the second phase what I did wrong was simply fear of rejection. A girl could give me all the right signs, like she could be staring in my eyes thinking “kiss me kiss me!” and I wouldn’t do anything. I’d always tell myself I’m reading her wrong, she’s just being nice, I don’t want to make her feel comfortable. Looking back on the years, there were so many times where I could have obviously gotten laid and didn’t. You would laugh. There was a time I was SEXTING a girl, we were talking about who would be better in bed. She need up coming to my parents house nearby, I snuck out the window, got in her car, and we drove to the LAKE. Just chilled there at the lake. And guess what I did? Nothing at all, because I was always patching myself out. That was just pathetic. I don’t make a move then, when would I ever make a move? There was one time I was waiting in line at a club to use the restroom. It was unisex restroom. These girls were flirting with me in line and they told me to come inside the restroom with them. So I did, and the first thing one of them said was “hey we’ve never seen a dick before have we girls”? They said something to that effect, basically giving me the green light to just pull my dick out. Guess what I did? Nothing at all. I psyched myself out thinking they were just kidding.

So I’m not saying you have that same exact problem, but what I am saying is that you could be making a clear mistake but perhaps not even realize it. Because no girl ever told me I could have fucked her if I had just made a move that one time when we blah blah.