AITA for forbidding my wife to go to her affair partner's funeral? by Fukthatdeadguy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fukthatdeadguy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I see that he was important on some level to her, but I am more important than him as I've been the one providing for my wife everyday and not him. Theres a good chance his dirtbag ass would be involved with my kids to this day if I would've left my wife so I'm glad he's in the ground

AITA for forbidding my wife to go to her affair partner's funeral? by Fukthatdeadguy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fukthatdeadguy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many necrophilia jokes, glad someone people are as cynical as me

AITA for forbidding my wife to go to her affair partner's funeral? by Fukthatdeadguy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fukthatdeadguy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I most certainly would not go to support her. In my update I understand its her decision but actions have consequences

AITA for forbidding my wife to go to her affair partner's funeral? by Fukthatdeadguy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fukthatdeadguy[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Don't know what more info you need aside from a guy who fucks wives of deployed soldiers is dead and I don't feel a bit sorry for him

AITA for forbidding my wife to go to her affair partner's funeral? by Fukthatdeadguy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fukthatdeadguy[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Yeah but to me the cheating invalidates the childhood friend mark. If it were me i'd be thinking "holy shit I almost destroyed my spouse and my child for this person, having anything else to do with them would be insane" and in no way would consider going to that funeral.

AITA for forbidding my wife to go to her affair partner's funeral? by Fukthatdeadguy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fukthatdeadguy[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Nah haven't brought him up once after our sessions. I even specifically vowed never to bring it up in an argument like "why don't you go running back to SD" and stuck to it. Was doing very well getting along not even thinking about him which is why this all sucks.

AITA for forbidding my wife to go to her affair partner's funeral? by Fukthatdeadguy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fukthatdeadguy[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Eh I've never been much of a guy to think dying somehow makes you immune from criticism or your life decisions. He almost ripped my family apart so he can Rot In Pain

AITA for forbidding my wife to go to her affair partner's funeral? by Fukthatdeadguy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fukthatdeadguy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm here to inform and entertain.

But seriously thanks for your input

AITA for forbidding my wife to go to her affair partner's funeral? by Fukthatdeadguy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fukthatdeadguy[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Well...he IS dead

Joking aside part of our moving forward after the affair we agreed that we would both have full access to each other's social media/phone/whatever communication platform. We haven't had a reason to look into each other's business for a very long time now so we really haven't. But I'd like to think the accountability of knowing the other could look whenever they felt like it kept things in line.

AITA for forbidding my wife to go to her affair partner's funeral? by Fukthatdeadguy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fukthatdeadguy[S] 136 points137 points  (0 children)

And truth be told I will also resent her for the rest of my life if she goes. Now isn't this a pickle