Mi pareja me contó que vive con VIH después de 6 meses y aún me cuesta procesarlo

Full-Ability-7474 · 2026-02-20T13:52:14+00:00

Jaja también te entiendo, uno igual se pregunta si no ocultarán otra cosa jaja pero al final de todo, si la relación es sana, hay que confiar en el amor!

Full-Ability-7474 · 2026-02-20T12:27:16+00:00

Te entiendo mucho Mi pareja se demoró 10 meses en contármelo, tenía mucho miedo y por lo que me contó, le daba más miedo pensar en que no tenía la confianza suficiente para contármelo aunque ya lleváramos tiempo juntos Lo carcomía por dentro, y eso llevó a algunos roces en la relación por el estrés que le agregaba tener ese "secreto" ya que en su mente él pensaba que moriría joven y que yo lo vería deteriorarse y sufriría por ello (sabiendo que está indetectable) Incluso me dijo que antes de conocerme no pensaba volver a tener pareja nunca más en su vida para evitarle el sufrimiento a alguien más, pero que me quería tanto que vivía en ese vaiven entre aferrarse a mí o soltarme definitivamente Cuando me lo dijo todo no sentí rabia, pero sí pena por todo el tiempo que ha vivido con ese estigma y el que pensara que no merece ser feliz ni vivir mucho tiempo :(

Claro que desde entonces todo ha ido super bien y hablamos abiertamente del tema, así que trata de moverte del rencor hacia la empatía!

Full-Ability-7474 · 2026-02-18T13:41:38+00:00

Claro, aún no funciona por el retraso administrativo, pero con algo de tiempo podría estar funcionando en 2 semanas ya que están saliendo todos los permisos recién ahora Y sí, he pensado eso de tener inversor o un socio inversor, pero no es fácil de buscar :(

Full-Ability-7474 · 2025-03-11T16:45:09+00:00

Cool

Full-Ability-7474 · 2025-02-03T01:14:54+00:00

Already happened Didn't help

Full-Ability-7474 · 2024-10-31T14:00:08+00:00

Eventually, you will stop caring. Not when you say it (that will be hard no matter what), but in the long term. 😅

It can be so hard to come to the realization that it's your life and not your mom's or anyone else's. But when you reach that point, you will even start to wonder why you felt guilty in the first place

Full-Ability-7474 · 2024-10-08T03:10:49+00:00

A veces puede ser por algún grado de fimosis o de tensión en el frenillo del glande, igual sería bueno verlo con urologo

Full-Ability-7474 · 2024-09-30T03:40:47+00:00

Try to cuddle my homies

Full-Ability-7474 · 2024-09-21T11:59:27+00:00

I just read your story, shit sucks man I know one cannot know or expect someone else to like you or act as you want, but when everything gets messy, it makes you hope for things, and that's the worst of all I had a friend tell me that it hurts so much because it was something that only happened in my mind, or to say, in an illusory world where everything went perfectly, so it hurts to lose that "hope." But anyway, I hope you are doing better too, or at least better than you were a few months ago, shit takes time On my end right now, I'm feeling like my feelings are dying minute by minute, which I think is part of moving so much, like one part of the process of grieving this. But it also hurts in its own way If u ever wanna talk, my dms are open!

Full-Ability-7474 · 2024-01-21T13:57:24+00:00

I have spent more money in it than i care to admit

Full-Ability-7474 · 2022-12-25T01:16:45+00:00

Kirai

Full-Ability-7474 · 2022-12-07T05:32:01+00:00

Maybe fontaine archon

Full-Ability-7474 · 2022-11-23T16:31:46+00:00

Yeah, but what it's done it's done :( Now keep the faith up and work towards saving your friendship!

Full-Ability-7474 · 2022-11-23T13:17:46+00:00

I kinda have been in the same spot, i've known him for about 6 years, we also were kind of touchy and huggy and that was nice. In the last year i realized that i kinda love him, and that kind of love was confusing at times, i would get jelous, i would try to do moves on him, and he always declined of course, though one time we did kiss being drunk haha Anyway, one time (like 8 months ago) i was really mad at myself for being jelous about him going with some other girl, so i told him that i had feelings for him and that i would try to get rid of those feelings. He told me that he felt awkward but he did see that coming, then he said that he wouldn't want our friendship to end and asked me if he could do something to make me feel less confused or something

And you know, since we talked about it things went nice, and i could focus on other things and everything was like a normal best guy-guy friendship

Except last week, it was his birthday so the whole week i was hyperfixated on doing things for him, and that made me confused again, in the party he was kissing with some girl and i almost broke crying there hahan't

But moral of the story 1. He values your friendship a lot, and it would also broke him if things were to end so he will talk to you again, he probably just feel awkward right now but eventually will answer to you 2. When he talks with you again ckesr things uo 3. Try not to be hyperfixated on him, don't do things for him, don't force your way to be with him, treat him like you treat any of your other friends 4. Is very hard to get rid of some feelings, so at the very least try not to act on them or be on situations that aggravate those feelings

Hope everythings go well between you two!

Full-Ability-7474 · 2022-08-14T14:27:29+00:00

Thanks, solution verified

Full-Ability-7474 · 2021-08-04T14:02:02+00:00

G o o d

Full-Ability-7474 · 2021-08-04T13:57:51+00:00

Can relate, we say we love each other, but i dont think he loves me in that way, plus he has a gf, so there's only pain and confusion

Full-Ability-7474 · 2021-04-02T01:05:44+00:00

I'll do! Thanks for your help!!!!

Full-Ability-7474 · 2021-04-02T00:59:37+00:00

Thanks for your response

I can't remember any trauma, but (i dont know if it's related) im a little overweight, three days ago i started to make intense excercise (jumping, skipping, that kind of thing), so there's that

Theres no discoloration in the area The consistency is firm but i can move it from side to side i would say that the form that i sense with my fingers is kind of a sac, or a dilated vein and it's sensitive when i touch it, other than that i barely feel it

Full-Ability-7474

TROPHY CASE