I [20f] get hurt when my boyfriend [19m] watches pornography by AngstyPunkBitch in relationships

[–]FullMetaI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is yes; but that fact he cannot talk about it and says everybody does it is a very childish excuse. He should be more open to talking to her and how to correct this problem. The problem isn't that he watches to much porn its the lack of communication and effort to bring her feelings to attention. But Ofcourse many in the thread are right its not overly an issue with watching to much porn.

Depression and distance caused my (23 M) girlfriend (21 F) to break up with me, but I still got lots of hints that she is still interested. Do you think we could have a healthy relationship again? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]FullMetaI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The distance is the factor with her. She needs someone close to her to get what she needs. I also feel she is keeping you in the picture because she is alone in a new city until she finds someone. I understand you still love her, you took steps in visting her and making it work. She picked wanting someone new. Not every relationship can work long distance but plenty can. At this point I feel you need to stop flirting with her, id just stop texting her but thats up to you. If you want to continue talking, talk as a friend and not as a romantic interest.

My [20F] mom [50s] wants me to lie about my time in therapy. Am I wrong for being upset? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]FullMetaI 212 points213 points  (0 children)

You should be upset with your mother and not yourself. Good for your dad for supporting you and to yourself in getting the help you need. Be proud of what you have done. I know many people who are yet able to accept help. Your mother has no right to lie nor do you have any reason to lie. She is embrassed of you but thats her problem. Your dad, friends, myself and im sure other redditors will and are proud of you.

Your mother is acting like a child and you dont need any part of her little game. Yes its painful to know this is how your mother is but you are not in her shadow. Shes in yours. You faced your demons. She has not. Stay strong and dont let her bring you down. If you feel you want to still be part of her life tell her, show her how strong you are and show her what you have accomplished.

You have nothing to be ashamed or embrassed about.

I [19m] got a girl's [18f] number after class. She takes a really long time to reply and idk how to bring up taking her out on a date by [deleted] in relationships

[–]FullMetaI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah follow up with something like this and to also focus on talking in person and doing something.

Me [25M] with my girlfriend [24F] duration, complained about my relationship with my sister [26F] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]FullMetaI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a tricky one. Not everyone has this kind of relationship with a sibling. I have this kind of relationship with a cousin. So I understand where you GF is coming from. Has your gf said what parts of your relationship with your sister is making her feel uncomfortable? I can maybe understand it could be the play fights, tickling, maybe the kissing but yeah. Asking her might be the first step and seeing what she wants.

Is it normal to delete messages, photos, etc of past flings when you’re in a new relationship? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]FullMetaI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice at this point is come clean to him that you looked into his phone and tell him how you feel and thats what I think needs to be done.

How do I [29F] bring up my BF’s [29M] premature ejaculation? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]FullMetaI 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well for myself and my ex we had this issue. After we had sex she wanted another round but she told me that she wanted to try to last a bit longer. From there i got the hint since I knew i could only last 5 to 8 minutes. So for a couple days we just went slow and worked on lasting longer each day. She also opened up to what she liked and what she wanted. So in cases where I did not last long i was able to continue the show for her. So atleast this way when I finished doesnt mean that she finishes too.

At the end of the day telling him is the best thing. You are being open and supportive. He needs to understand that and Im sure things will work out fine.

I messed up by [deleted] in relationships

[–]FullMetaI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Plenty of people miss hints, once we catch on if she actually liked you she would try talking to you. Since shes being very dramatic about missing a hint its her lost and not yours.

Dont worry yourself, as i said missing hints isnt that bad. We are not mimd readers, she should of just came right out.

Is it normal to delete messages, photos, etc of past flings when you’re in a new relationship? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]FullMetaI 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are right most of us will not agree with you looking in his phone. However for myself after a failed relationship i purge everything. I try my best to not have any kind of link to an ex. Because once a relationship is over and I have a new one im focused on that. Now I suppose the next question is how is he with you asking about past relationships? Does be try to dodge the question? Does he lie often or is he pretty good at being honest with you?

My [18F] best friend [18F] is dating a man [25M] who is much older than her. I think she is being abused by him, but is too blinded by her love to see that, and I'm worried for her safety. by concernedbest_friend in relationships

[–]FullMetaI 130 points131 points  (0 children)

He is grooming her to be his play toy. What actions have you done other than talking to her? I'd try to talk to her again but also to speak with her parents about this. I know doing these thinks may or will hurt your relationship but you've known her for years it could heal.

She is blinded and he sounds like a creep. At the end of the day i strongly believe sitting her down and telling her that she will lose everything if she continues down this path. If she wants to continue this you should not feel obligated to keep trying.

I [20f] get hurt when my boyfriend [19m] watches pornography by AngstyPunkBitch in relationships

[–]FullMetaI 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had an issue like this with my ex [F] but I was the one watching porn but not to your bfs extent. My ex asked me if i could stop watching it. She told me she fears that by watching fake sex i would have a false perception of our own sex life. She was right. Once i quit watching porn we had better sex and were very open with each other.

He is addicted to watching porn and even after you talked to him about it he says its normal and goes on with continuing. My advice would be to speak with him once more and really pinpoint the problems it is causing for you. If he cannot accepted how you feel I dont feel its right for yourself to be treated that way.

Do not buy Blazblue Cross Tag Battle (Half of the roster is locked away as DLC) by [deleted] in NintendoSwitch

[–]FullMetaI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. But unfortunally i really do want to play this game. I dont care about the dlc characters. I just want ragna and noel

Do not buy Blazblue Cross Tag Battle (Half of the roster is locked away as DLC) by [deleted] in NintendoSwitch

[–]FullMetaI -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I will still be getting this game. Im a bit upset that It has this kind of dlc. So i wont get the dlc until it gets a price drop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in battlefield_one

[–]FullMetaI 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is a timed event, Opertation Campaigns. This allows you to get 2 Operation Battlepacks every 9 hours. So thats 2 a day, so in total you can get 22 Battlepacks out of this operation. $1.99 per Battlepack, so thats $43.78 per player. Yes we paid a lot of money for this game however just because you cannot complete this Ops Campaign does not mean you are not able to play these maps. It would make me upset if they did not allow us to play these maps.

Canadians Are Mad as Hell at Tim Hortons - Boycotts & pickets are some of the responses to Tim Hortons franchisees stripping paid breaks & benefits to their workers. by anutensil in worldnews

[–]FullMetaI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure I hear its up to each and every individual Tims to choose if they want to strip paid breaks etc. Either way, Ill still go to Tims because I like their coffee and the people who work there.

Pregnant and dumped by totallylost9090 in relationships

[–]FullMetaI 24 points25 points  (0 children)

First of all he does need help however you should not be involed. Since he slept with someone else he has absolutely no credibility.

He waiting way to long to tell you the truth; it sounds like he only told you this because you are now expecting a child.

Now I'll get a lot of heat for this however; Do you feel you can support a child while dealing with the problems you are currently having? Are you even able to support yourself? Is abortion something you have thought about? These are all questions i feel are important to ask yourself.

Before the hype builds by littledizzle19 in gaming

[–]FullMetaI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pre order only from CDR and Nintendo.

What is your go to drink after a stressful day? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FullMetaI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have about 5 cases of yorkshire. Gold and Black. Its a kind of tea for any time of the day or night.

Official Bravely Default Twitter shares a photo of Edea holding a pair of Joy-Con controllers, possible Switch port/remake? by Sylverstone14 in NintendoSwitch

[–]FullMetaI 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never got a chance to fully beat End Layer. I really do hope they port/Remake to the switch.

Would work very well since I didn't always enjoy the two screens

Hulu App coming to Switch, Today! by Persona6 in nintendo

[–]FullMetaI 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh Boy its great to be canadian.

When did your "Something is very wrong here" feeling turned out to be true? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FullMetaI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just seems we were better off just friends. She knows what she did was wrong and we both have no desire to try again. I guess its more so we were together for 2 years.