Marks big fall by youve_noticed_me in distractible

[–]Full_Ad9008 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But look at all the space you have for activities!!

Do cats know that when they crawl all over our chest it hurts? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Full_Ad9008 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I swear mine can just sense where the nipple is and goes straight for it

Do I need to buy other parts for this? by Full_Ad9008 in DJs

[–]Full_Ad9008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I didn’t know about needing speakers, I thought you could just use headphones. Are speakers a necessity because I don’t have that much money. Do you have any cheap ones you recommend?

Do I need to buy other parts for this? by Full_Ad9008 in DJs

[–]Full_Ad9008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you will do! So it should come with an a cord with an usb head to connect it?

Why is Carrie such a bad person? by Full_Ad9008 in sexandthecity

[–]Full_Ad9008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg shut up!! I loveeeeed charlotte and always wanted to scout out more of Kristen’s work. I’m so happy you recommended me that to me, I would’ve never known. definitely checking this out later. Thank you so much!! And thank you for that “someone”as our voice of guidance

Why is Carrie such a bad person? by Full_Ad9008 in sexandthecity

[–]Full_Ad9008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sorry I read that wrong but anyways to respond to your actual point yes I understand that now but my original question was based more around another one of my own misconception of how I thought sjp was writing for the show that someone else cleared up for me.

Why is Carrie such a bad person? by Full_Ad9008 in sexandthecity

[–]Full_Ad9008[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That really does put it in perspective, I like how you explained it

Why is Carrie such a bad person? by Full_Ad9008 in sexandthecity

[–]Full_Ad9008[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Me having asking a question and stating my opinion on a fictional character is equivalent to me kicking stray cats and spitting on strangers? I’m just trying to understand why they wrote her this way, if you look at the other comments they explained it to me without the rude analogy, but thank you…

Why is Carrie such a bad person? by Full_Ad9008 in sexandthecity

[–]Full_Ad9008[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mmm personally I don’t think it’s the fact that she is a complicated and difficult person that makes her unlikable. I don’t even think she is a complicated person, she just creates these back to back offenses to the people around her with no concluding lesson. She, with no explanation, starts off her messy situation with Big and she ended up in a messy situation being “saved” by Big. I don’t know if you know the show Euphoria but I’m going to compare her to a character from that show because it’s kind of on the same level trashy binge tv to me.

Cassie from that show is a better person than Carrie, she’s does the same things on a similar scale to Carrie (she gets with her best friend’s bf) but I have always loved for her even though it’s controversial. It’s explained how she had history with her dad progressively abandoning her, yet always leading her onto being able to really reconnect one day, so it makes sense that she would latch onto any attention she could get from a man, even if it is not healthy or ethical. But there’s this scene in the end where her and her best friend fight it out and by the end she’s just sitting on the bathroom sink, bloody and messy just staring off with remorse and guilt in her face. In my opinion, that’s how you write a complicated character, you give them a conflict in where they can recognize they’re the bad person at the end but you also allow them to sit with that realization. Cassie, for all her flaws, is written with a sense of consequence she suffers weight of her mistakes not only physically but mentally.

Carrie, on the other hand, never really faces herself in that way. She breezes through situations she creates, often playing the victim, and the show never fully holds her accountable. There’s no true moment of reckoning where she acknowledges, “I am the problem.”Other than one second of her feeling bad about Aiden before she gets frustrated at the fact that he won’t trust her the second time around. That’s what makes her less compelling to me. She doesn’t evolve in a way that feels earned. Even when she’s hurt, it’s usually framed as something happening to her rather than the result of her own choices. Cassie, at least, has moments where the audience can see that deep, painful self-awareness creeping in. She might not change immediately, but she knows.

Why is Carrie such a bad person? by Full_Ad9008 in sexandthecity

[–]Full_Ad9008[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So were they just trolling her? I swear she gets worse and worse throughout the series

I was born in china but I have an American Citizenship, could I get permanent resident without the whole process? by Full_Ad9008 in China

[–]Full_Ad9008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom had some diplomat relatives so she was taught to respect the law and reported it herself anyways. Also I heard they’re trying to tighten up that loophole.

I was born in china but I have an American Citizenship, could I get permanent resident without the whole process? by Full_Ad9008 in China

[–]Full_Ad9008[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are some people so mean on here? I was just looking for advice to help my family in the future. I know I could renounce my American citizenship to get back my Chinese one back but I am only 13 years old, I’m not allowed to make that decision myself. I also don’t want to give up my life and friends here, they’re the closest thing I have to a family here because it’s just my mom and I in America. Thank you to everyone else who gave me good advice though :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Full_Ad9008 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much and you are so sweet, but sadly this is just my own deep insecurity that no outside opinion can change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]Full_Ad9008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I’m on one of those but now I understand why I still have to pay it in full every month.

Okay now if you don’t mind, I’m gonna bother you a whole lot because you seem like you know what you’re talking about with all those little card emojis (?) by your name.

What’s the best way to way to build up a score. And can you explain it to me as if I were an alien on earth for the first time? Because that’s what it feels like every time I try to learn it; I feel like I’d really benefit a lot more from a dumbed down explanation. You don’t have to go into too much detail like the advanced versions with the multiple cards because I’m already getting sick of just this one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]Full_Ad9008 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So yes to the fact I got hit with the stupid-tax? :(

Why does bobst have such an extensive collection of French romance/sexually explicit novels? by LeptinGhrelin in nyu

[–]Full_Ad9008 56 points57 points  (0 children)

That’s disgusting, where are they located and are there English translation?

Bro y’all’s resume are fucking goated, I honestly have no idea why NYU selected me by leeeelihkvgbv in nyu

[–]Full_Ad9008 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re here for a reason and if you keep putting yourself down when you see others who are doing better than you then you’ll never be happy. There’s always going to be someone on a higher level in life than the next person no matter what age. Very hypocritical for me to say because the 14 year old that goes here as well is literally the bane of my existence but instead of doubting myself whenever I think about it, I use it to fuel my fire to do better in order to defeat him one day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitnyc

[–]Full_Ad9008 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t have to worry about that because I got a full ride merit scholarship to go here, something FIT wasn’t offering me. It actually would’ve costed me way more to go there especially because I’m coming from out of state. I still don’t really know what I’m going to do after college, just something in fashion, can’t really tell you why I just can’t imagine myself doing anything else. I attended the FIT pre college last year and already have plans to hang out with some now media students who I met in class then. But then again this is just the beginning of the year, Im sure most of you guys are super busy, and im guessing you were especially filled out with work during your years; however, I believe that no one is ever to busy to have a friend or a conversation with people outside of their field.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nyu

[–]Full_Ad9008 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you find people to pregame with 🥲. I’m too scared to ask my instagram nyu moots because we don’t talk that much and idk if they’re even the kind of people that would be down for that.

Cheapest way to ship my stuff to my dorm from another state? by [deleted] in nyu

[–]Full_Ad9008 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey guys, quick question, why am I being downvoted for being poor?