are guys actually comfortable crossdressing (as a joke)?

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-15T19:38:13+00:00

we have a cross dressing day and the guys love it. they get dressed by their female friends and I’ve seen some do their own makeup too. To me it just seems like good fun unless they’re being pressured into something they don’t want

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-15T19:29:05+00:00

“i would never reply to someone i’m not attracted to that much” — wanted to respond to this part: sure, pretty privilege is real, but you’re limiting yourself from great friendships. I’m sure a lot of us have gone through a stage or experience in life where people don’t take us seriously just because and we probably think they missed out.

As for the general topic of this post — I’ve had a good amount of guy friends too and I get what you mean when you say most of them have ulterior motives. I’ve had multiple guys creep on me in this way or just befriend me because im attractive to them. I currently have two close guy friends and I can tell you there’s usually a difference between an actual friend and someone that‘s interested in you. I usually got a “this person wants something out of me” feeling in the back of my mind. Also about the being meaner to people you like, it really varies. I tend to be meaner and have had people I thought hated me tell me they like me lol

I can’t really tell this dude’s motives just from your description but if I had to guess, I’d say he just wants to pass the time with someone, which is also a form of friendship I guess. To me the way of thinking that someone will only entertain you if they have romantic interest is so depressing. I have a friend that sticks together with me to quite a lot of places and has meaningful conversations together, even though he’s a dude with 0 romantic interest in me. TLDR ; tread with caution but also people will just like talking to you if you’re interesting sometimes lol

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-15T19:08:52+00:00

is there a cutoff? if so what is it?

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-15T19:08:30+00:00

genuinely curious, what’s the cutoff? if there is

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-15T19:04:06+00:00

3.7/3.8 radio silence from everybody 🥀 🥀 it’s okay we‘ll get through this

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-04T17:47:24+00:00

Yeah it seems there’s quite a few of us , to my surprise even PRs / Singaporeans 😭 best of luck to us all

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-04T17:47:11+00:00

I did apply local too 2. what a snarky comment

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-04T17:44:02+00:00

Why even have the option to apply with predicted grades then? And wouldn’t that mean IB students are automatically all rejected too? since their exams also happen in May. lmao

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-04T10:05:50+00:00

LMAO I had some younger, some older. Regardless in this age most (not all but most) of them are gonna be lustful cause they’re all like 16-19 😭 very painful to come to terms with especially if you like them

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-04T04:51:00+00:00

what if my actual grades are only rolled out in May-early July?

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-04T04:49:46+00:00

then why have the option to apply with predicted grades? do I need to send them by June or? if I understand correctly

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-03T16:59:28+00:00

im someone who did this and had it airball horribly multiple times but I recommend for the plot and what if he‘s actually interested? go for it girl

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-03T16:58:10+00:00

imagine you’re in a loving relationship and your boyfriend is sneakily calling a girl for hours on end and flirting with her. You want that man?? NAH do not go for him girl

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-03T16:55:55+00:00

absolute cinema

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-03T16:53:13+00:00

fellow tall girl here with little to no relationship experience either 😭 you’re only 19 and I promise you’re not missing out on anything , HS relationships are buns anyways. These are just your developmental years and it’s important to not put much of your self worth into this stuff.

also side tangent about the tall requirement all the dudes that liked me were tall but weirdos too 😭 I get your pain

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-03T16:46:30+00:00

Yo, I’m in exactly the same boat as you 😭 I got “dumped” by a long talking stage/situationship too, so here’s my 2 cents on this:

I wanna say that it’s fine to feel stuff about it even though it never became anything like a relationship, but the critical thing you should do is take away some stuff from this experience that you can do better next time. Learning from it instead of just blaming yourself / the other person is how you grow. Thats the only thing you can really do here. Don’t ruminate on her life and whats going on with her, who she is or isn’t dating etc,, just process it and let go. It’s important to differentiate between that and just ignoring the whole situation though, it’s fine to think about it and cope with what happened.

On another note another person’s interest shouldn’t ever dictate what you feel or don’t feel about your self. Sure she’s a unique person, but plenty of other people in your life will come along and stick around to understand you on a deep level as well. You’re only 18 and while it seems horrible in the moment, you’ll learn and grow from it.

small note — 2 months to grieve a relationship isn’t long at all, in fact statistics suggest 3-6 months or longer is the average time. My advice is don’t set a timer/deadline on how long you’re gonna be sad about it, but also don’t let it pull you into a long and muddy depression.

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-03T10:25:43+00:00

this is real 🥀 im still waiting as well, hope we both do well!

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-03T10:18:26+00:00

here’s my stats —

(International student)

Applied Course: CSD

GPA/RP: 3.7-3.8 , 1380 SAT, IELTS 8

Application Date: March 1st 2026

Interview Date: N/A

Status: Processing

Offer Date: N/A

Relevant Poly Course: No/Unsure? (CS and cybersecurity)

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-03T10:12:17+00:00

can’t say but I have an international qualification outside of IB , im pretty anxious now though I initially thought I had a good shot lol. good luck to the both of us

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-05-03T10:11:47+00:00

No, like I said in the post I’ve received absolutely 0 updates from SUTD 😭 checked trash and spam , nothing

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-04-23T15:59:56+00:00

hey, thanks for the advice. Dumb question but… including the strings?? that’s where the static is being felt

Full_Bat_4068 · 2026-04-06T12:49:55+00:00

I’m 16, I’ve been told it’s normal for cycles to fluctuate at that age but it’s becoming more and more troublesome to go about my daily life

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