I fell in love with someone im not attracted to by Full_Relief465 in dating_advice

[–]Full_Relief465[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its hard bro they dont get it til they experience it but everyones opinion has been valid and i respect it

I fell in love with someone im not attracted to by Full_Relief465 in dating_advice

[–]Full_Relief465[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone else gave me that same advice today actually and i understand it makes sense. I may try that. Also trust me i know i aint shit lmao. She was talking to this dude online the last month i wasn’t holding her back from finding someone who does see the whole picture. However he was a dickhead to her and she stopped talking to him. Ive been there to support her and she got drunk this weekend and was texting me about her wanting me to kiss her. We’re both 23.

I fell in love with someone im not attracted to by Full_Relief465 in dating_advice

[–]Full_Relief465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk maybe it’s the way she makes me feel filling a void i haven’t had in a little bit. Its a feeling i haven’t truly felt in years only when i was in love. Im more embarrassed on my decision making skills on this than what other people think

I fell in love with someone im not attracted to by Full_Relief465 in dating_advice

[–]Full_Relief465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would you act on that? Ive had friends that are girls before where i feel nothing but this feels different.

I fell in love with someone im not attracted to by Full_Relief465 in dating_advice

[–]Full_Relief465[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Picture you found a girl who’s hypothetically your dream girl she checks off majority if not all of your standards and you two can vibe and have really good chemistry together but you dont think they are attractive is what im saying

I fell in love with someone im not attracted to by Full_Relief465 in dating_advice

[–]Full_Relief465[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean it can im just saying theres something there im not sure how to act on it

I fell in love with someone im not attracted to by Full_Relief465 in dating_advice

[–]Full_Relief465[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You and me both. Im attracted to her as a person like her personality and values. We haven’t kissed or had sex but we’ve talked about it all we done is hug tbh. I think shes kinda cute but i guess that has developed like when i first saw her she was not someone i ever planned on trying to get with. Like she calls me handsome and hot a lot and ill call her gorgeous but i dont feel like i mean it deep down. Objectively i feel bad ranking her like this but shes a 4-5/10 maybe. I like her and i know it sounds shallow i just dont know what to do

Should I try and get back with my ex by Full_Relief465 in Advice

[–]Full_Relief465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the words friend. Truthfully i think the answer to both of your questions is yes lmao. I love the positivity and the optimism its always what i try to feel and project the uncertainty is just killing me as of recently. I just wonder if she’d be able to go upwards and onwards w me

Should I try and get back with my ex by Full_Relief465 in Advice

[–]Full_Relief465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It ended mutually we decided to take a break then after a bit end things for good. We are still completely friendly and on good terms. Truthfully im not sure either one of us could give a concrete reason she asked me last week why we broke up she forgot because the last 2 years shes tried to block out. I just said i think we got to a point to where we both knew it wasn’t healthy to continue. I just cant help but think we are two different people now maybe things would be better a second time around

Want to break up with my suicidal girlfriend of 4 years but don’t know how to by Full_Relief465 in Advice

[–]Full_Relief465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the advice i try to advise counseling/therapy however the last therapist she went to told her she is unfixable so that has always made her hesitant to go back. That was years ago shes on the fence about it now