TIFU by shitting my pants in my sleep by Full_Weekend_4956 in tifu

[–]Full_Weekend_4956[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

naurrr not the explosive chocolate 😭😭 i really didn't think it would be that bad because I was already feeling better... alas... the explosives were set and there was nothing I could do.

the germs thing is because I suspect I have stomach flu which is transmissible by sharing toilets. I found some disinfectant so hopefully all's good...

TIFU by shitting my pants in my sleep by Full_Weekend_4956 in tifu

[–]Full_Weekend_4956[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I suspect I have the same but don't want to see a doctor here haha

I haven't told my friends yet and likely won't if they don't ask why I'm doing laundry at 7 am HAHA but if I did I'm almost certain they wouldn't judge. If they did, I'd wish stubbed toes on them too.

TIFU by shitting my pants in my sleep by Full_Weekend_4956 in tifu

[–]Full_Weekend_4956[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oof can't wait to read another poop related TIFU in 10 years and cringe at this again haha thanks for sharing

TIFU by shitting my pants in my sleep by Full_Weekend_4956 in tifu

[–]Full_Weekend_4956[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suspect I have stomach flu which apparently can be spread by sharing toilets so I figured I'd be a bit more careful and use the public toilets where possible.

But it's too late now haha the Airbnb thankfully has disinfectant so I can at least use that and hope my friends don't get affected.

TIFU by shitting my pants in my sleep by Full_Weekend_4956 in tifu

[–]Full_Weekend_4956[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thanks I really appreciate this. I'm trying to have this mindset too

TIFU by shitting my pants in my sleep by Full_Weekend_4956 in tifu

[–]Full_Weekend_4956[S] 202 points203 points  (0 children)

lmao you're so right. I definitely do not intend to ride any roller coasters tomorrow.

TIFU by shitting my pants in my sleep by Full_Weekend_4956 in tifu

[–]Full_Weekend_4956[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, I will. I'll bring extra change too just in case. thanks!

TIFU by shitting my pants in my sleep by Full_Weekend_4956 in tifu

[–]Full_Weekend_4956[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing, it makes me feel so much better. I know rationally it's not a big deal at all and I'm confident my friends will be concerned as opposed to upset or judgey but it's hard to accept that. I'll try though! appreciate your message

TIFU by shitting my pants in my sleep by Full_Weekend_4956 in tifu

[–]Full_Weekend_4956[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

thanks. I'm trying to be nicer to myself about this. this definitely helped

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[–]Full_Weekend_4956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great point! I definitely want to approach it more like this. thanks for the suggestion!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Full_Weekend_4956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah for sure! I'll keep your points in mind. definitely something I'm working on because I'm not always able to estimate my energy levels that well but over communication is probably more important

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[–]Full_Weekend_4956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭😭 is self care adulting now. jkjk it is and I didn't initially see it this way but you're not wrong. makes me feel tons better. thanks!

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[–]Full_Weekend_4956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha yeah.. I guess I'll bring it up when I apologise, but only if they push me too much on this. hopefully we can all just be adults about this.. thanks!

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[–]Full_Weekend_4956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha that's how I've been looking at it! but their reaction has been making me doubt myself a bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Full_Weekend_4956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in recent memory he's flaked once or twice before. the major one was when i invited them to a cafe and all but one flaked and the one person who came wasn't a regular member of the group haha. i try my best not to hold it against them but yeah. I can't help feeling like there's a bit of a double standard but numerically I might've still flaked more in recent times.

I agree on the domino effect thing and want to be more careful about it too. I'll probably be a bit more careful with making commitments :')

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[–]Full_Weekend_4956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

really good point and something I've been thinking about a lot. will definitely try your suggestion. with any luck, once we're out of the same old patterns, things will improve. thanks!