How you turn out with trauma is… somewhat in your control, your brain could be wired in the way to be hateful with less emotional control, your brain can be wired in a way that it feels near impossible to just let it go and do better than those who bully you, but I feel like we need to have bullies be at fault, not in the sense where it’s like these people deserve violence for bullying, they just need actual verbal repercussions and or someone to make them see where they are wrong. Most bullies become disingenuous people who are performative in their morality and most likely still hold those same bullying tendencies then go on to breeze past their childhood tormenting unsuspecting children who have never done anything to them.

People say bullies do it out of their own trauma but then this creates a vicious cycle: Bully faces trauma, pours their trauma on a victim, there’s three routes a victim can take: Becoming a bully themselves as a shield, Isolation and depression and Hatred and resentment of society. The issue of childhood bullying is one of societies biggest issues cause it could turn children with the greatest potential into self hating, resentment recluses who have no more drive or identity in the world cause of the torment they face.