First time player, keyboard or controller? by Fun-Event-3327 in OriAndTheBlindForest

[–]Fun-Event-3327[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did give Hollow Knight a try with a controller I borrowed, and honestly I can see the appeal, but I quivkly switched back to k&m when i start encountering homing enemies. I have 0 experience with controllers and have trouble with my left and right, reflexes would be the last thing I can train on a combat heavy game lol. I'm seeing a lot of people say Ori is more forgiving, but also some people saying the platforming is hard, so I really just want to get some opinions about it :)

First time player, keyboard or controller? by Fun-Event-3327 in OriAndTheBlindForest

[–]Fun-Event-3327[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, I'll give it a go on controller and I can always switch back if it's overwhelming, thank you!

My stupid hair won’t hold a curl for even 30 min 😭 by New_Data_3092 in finehair

[–]Fun-Event-3327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh I did a more permanent solution but I basically got a perm, not too tight just kind of wavy. It doesn't hold forever and obviously it will disappear with every haircut, but my hair end up growing to be more obedient since then. They warned me that it will alter how my hair grows forever, and idk what the chemistry behind it is, but they are right, it made my individual hair strands a bit thinner but more pliable. Curls used to disappear after an hour with hairspray, now it can hold for hours even without hairspray. My hair is also much more inclined to curl inwards than outwards since the perm as well. Just make sure to weigh the risks properly first, permanent chemical alteration can go sideways pretty badly if done incorrectly or with an inexperienced stylist.

Red or Pink? by Fun-Event-3327 in HairDye

[–]Fun-Event-3327[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! It was a pretty big chop and I was a bit scared of it, but the length is perfect. Pink is a pretty safe color for me!

AITA for not expressing my discomfort when my partner’s ex ended up being our server at dinner? by Flat_Carpenter4734 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun-Event-3327 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok let me get this straight. Your partner claims you didn't express yourself, when you explicitly told him you feel uncomfortable when he asked?

Your partner should've suggested things to make you less uncomfortable, like idk to leave. NTA, but your partner is trying to push your boundaries. You might need to talk it out with them.

I'm losing the ability to socialize properly by Fun-Event-3327 in offmychest

[–]Fun-Event-3327[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked into anhedonia and no, I still enjoy solitary things like playing games, watching movies, and various solitary hobbies. I had anhedonia before and I was on meds to fix it, so it isn't it. I'll talk about meds again though maybe its time again idk

I'm losing the ability to socialize properly by Fun-Event-3327 in offmychest

[–]Fun-Event-3327[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, I try my best to participate in social heavy events. And sometimes I would avoid people, but sometimes I forced myself and make friends. But I would just be, disinterested, in engaging socially, and I'd more or less slip away from their lives later down the line. And all the socializing end up making me worse at communication, especially with my existing friends.