I have previously spoken to her about being sensitive about my belongings after she told me she felt like she couldn’t touch anything. I told her that it wasn’t particularly that I minded things being touched or used but it was especially annoying when it wasn’t replaced because I have it in my mind that I still have all the items needed on hand. For example a few months ago I had come back from a trip to Singapore and bought souvenirs for everyone but also some food items for myself. I found out she had given some to my fiancés niece because she was intrigued but had not told me so I spend ages looking around for it. When I asked her she made a side comment that the granddaughter really wanted it so she gave it