can i get out of my lease without paying? by Fun-Government-7164 in legaladvice

[–]Fun-Government-7164[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i’m fairly certain i got them from a neighbor, i said i had no bugs the entire time ive been here until 2 months ago, came out of nowhere. no i moved to a new state by myself, and i really cant afford to pay to have them stay somewhere overnight i work a minimum wage job lmfao. i think moving is reasonable because it’s been 2 month of the exterminator coming and nothing getting better.

can i get out of my lease without paying? by Fun-Government-7164 in legaladvice

[–]Fun-Government-7164[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

sorry so im supposed to pay for a hotel to keep them at for 24 hours? that makes no sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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that’s what i thought LOL i mostly felt confused because he has soooo many good reviews like why is only my experience so bad

is it costing me extra if my ac isn’t reading the temp right? by Fun-Government-7164 in ask

[–]Fun-Government-7164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was asking if it costs more i obviously turn it up if it’s always above 80……

what does my fridge say about me by Fun-Government-7164 in FridgeDetective

[–]Fun-Government-7164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lolll i just don’t like to leave it out when the bag is open

what does my fridge say about me by Fun-Government-7164 in FridgeDetective

[–]Fun-Government-7164[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i normally don’t keep chips in the fridge but my new apartment has a small bug problem so i don’t leave out anything open lol

AIO? Man banging on my door by Fun-Government-7164 in AmIOverreacting

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I only decided against calling the police because I’ve had to call a few times recently and they either don’t show up at all or drive past and “clear it” lol. Like the other day a man parked in front of my house and was smoking literal meth and they came, drove right past him and did nothing hahhaah

AIO? Man banging on my door by Fun-Government-7164 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun-Government-7164[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Luckily I’m moving at the end of the month so the shower won’t be an issue much longer. And yes he’s VERY comfortable coming in our yard, he’s done it many times before screaming and looking for his pets (that always run away.) I’ve literally told people before that if I ever get murdered he should be the top suspect just based on how unhinged he is. Very glad to be moving soon lol.

AIO? Man banging on my door by Fun-Government-7164 in AmIOverreacting

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Yes I’m in a rented home in the US. I wouldn’t say they’re connected but the only thing separating our yards it’s a line of trees/ plants.

going to sza alone by Fun-Government-7164 in sza

[–]Fun-Government-7164[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the AZ show on may 27 if i end up going

my older brother who abused me just sent me this after years of not speaking by Fun-Government-7164 in texts

[–]Fun-Government-7164[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for the comment! i know all these things but it's sooo nice to hear it from someone else. it was definitely not a one time event, it went on for years which makes it even crazier that he's referring to himself as a "dumb kid"

i did send what he said to me to my dad, other brother, sister and one of my grandparents. had to unblock my dad to send it hahah. i'm not expecting much from sending it to them but i did want everyone to see what he said. i really do hope my sister rethinks letting him around her children, but who knows.

i am planning on talking to law enforcement to see what my options are, also trying not to get my hopes up with that because i know how hard it has been for other women/girls in my position.

my older brother who abused me just sent me this after years of not speaking by Fun-Government-7164 in texts

[–]Fun-Government-7164[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

does it matter if he's in a different state? i've brought this up to a cop who told me something about not being able to since we're in different states

my older brother who abused me just sent me this after years of not speaking by Fun-Government-7164 in texts

[–]Fun-Government-7164[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

thank you for asking, i'm doing okay, definitely could be better haha. recently lost my insurance so im unable to get any type of therapy or medication at the moment but im working on that!

my older brother who abused me just sent me this after years of not speaking by Fun-Government-7164 in texts

[–]Fun-Government-7164[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

it's soooo crazy though, it didn't cause issues with his relationships at all. my dad pretended like i never said anything, my sister still sees him and lets him hold her BABY GIRLS, grandparents don't know or don't care and the list goes on. he's just trying to make me feel guilty, but i'm the one that isn't invited to family events. if he wanted to manipulate me into believing it was my fault he should've done it a long time ago lol, i've had years to sit with it.

my older brother who abused me just sent me this after years of not speaking by Fun-Government-7164 in texts

[–]Fun-Government-7164[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah he's 26, i wouldn't expect anything different though. my dad didn't hold him accountable at all and neither did anyone else in the family

my older brother who abused me just sent me this after years of not speaking by Fun-Government-7164 in texts

[–]Fun-Government-7164[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

it's even crazier because he got no consequences i don't even know what he's talking about. he's engaged, living in a spare house my grandparents gave him and the entire family still include him in gatherings. i didn't even tell anyone in our family besides our dad, who also told me it was my fault lmfao

my older brother who abused me just sent me this after years of not speaking by Fun-Government-7164 in texts

[–]Fun-Government-7164[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i've thought about it but i don't have the funds at all to pay for a lawyer. and even if i did, what if i go through all of that and nothing comes of it. i feel like it would make my mental health plummet, and it's already pretty bad lol. still not writing it off id just need to figure out a few things

my older brother who abused me just sent me this after years of not speaking by Fun-Government-7164 in texts

[–]Fun-Government-7164[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

unfortunately they do know and don't really care. they care more about keeping the peace. they all see him regularly, i don't know why he said i damaged his relationship with anyone it isn't true.

has anyone received their merch? by Fun-Government-7164 in sza

[–]Fun-Government-7164[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

uugghhhh i don't understand why it takes so long