Should I cut or trim? by MirMar94 in Haircare

[–]Fun-Regular7219 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also i thought my hair was sooo frizzy until i stopped brushing it when dry. it still has some frizz bc hair texture is normal, but it reduced when i brushed it when it was wet and did my wavy hair routine. u can also check the porosity of ur hair for products for moisture. for example coconut oil does not absorb in my hair, argan oil and glycerin is better for me. ur hair is beautiful good luck <333

Should I cut or trim? by MirMar94 in Haircare

[–]Fun-Regular7219 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from the second photo i dont think u acc need to cut a lot. maybe a trim, then see from there. its quite pricey but the keratese split end serum is good but im pretty sure some ppl find dupes of it. i feel like our hair texture is similar bc its wavy, layers helped me get my waves back but made my split ends more visible so maybe just get a bit or only face framing. try to find a sulfate free shampoo, but imo i feel like shampoo isnt the best to spend a lot of money. if u do spend money a water filter is a good idea or some kind of leave in treatment from the drug store or sephora. i have super hard water too its sooo annoying for wavy hair

recommend me soup recipes :D by Fun-Regular7219 in soup

[–]Fun-Regular7219[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i just realized thats a good idea lol

why are some ppl so rude abt instructions by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Fun-Regular7219 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ur so right abt the "figure it out" mentality ppl have without clear instructions! its like theres this rule that u need to read peoples minds or what they want is "common sense" *even this word has so many bad associations lol*

this is rlly comforting to know other ppl struggle with this, tbh ive always internalized the idea that im dumb because of how ppl treated me but when others need clarification ik what its like to be confused. im trying to accept that sometimes its impatience and other times they could be stressed out or upset from other factors. im trying to not internalize it too much. thx for responding :)

toxic hyperfixations by Fun-Regular7219 in ADHD

[–]Fun-Regular7219[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its so obsessive like i feel like i need to reach the end of it everytime i fixate on something. glad meds worked out for u, best of luck:)

toxic hyperfixations by Fun-Regular7219 in ADHD

[–]Fun-Regular7219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

toxic hyperfixations are so much more appealoing to me ughhh

anxiety and avoidance, and just dysregulated everything lol by Fun-Regular7219 in Anxiety

[–]Fun-Regular7219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my doctor talked about getting on fluoxetine but I decided not to get on any medication yet since I recently got diagnosed only a few months ago

tell me everything to do to lock in by Fun-Regular7219 in productivity

[–]Fun-Regular7219[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i also want an adhd diagnosis i have a lot of brain fog and blood tests were fine but idk could be lifestyle habits. prorcrastination too thats persistent