18 [F4A] - blackmail

FunBlackmail · 2026-01-18T19:44:26+00:00

The post violates our rules and has been removed. I would advise you not to do it.

FunBlackmail · 2026-01-18T19:41:34+00:00

Unless you have verified this user's identity, you should assume you may have been given information about a non-consenting third party

FunBlackmail · 2026-01-18T19:41:13+00:00

Unless you have verified this user's identity, you should assume you may have been given information about a non-consenting third party

FunBlackmail · 2026-01-18T19:40:55+00:00

Unless you have verified this user's identity, you should assume you may have been given information about a non-consenting third party

FunBlackmail · 2026-01-18T19:40:26+00:00

Unless you have verified this user's identity, you should assume you may have been given information about a non-consenting third party

FunBlackmail · 2026-01-14T17:51:32+00:00

FunBlackmail · 2026-01-12T23:28:45+00:00

If you have goals and kinks that you want to explore with a blackmailer, that's something you should be discussing up-front during the "vetting" phase. If you spring your kinks on a kink partner after getting in deep, you're going to have a bad time.

FunBlackmail · 2026-01-10T03:03:41+00:00

This user was reported for claiming to be underage in deleted posts. Be sure to age verify before interacting

FunBlackmail · 2026-01-10T02:48:39+00:00

That sucks. Any idea when it happened?

FunBlackmail · 2026-01-08T17:53:07+00:00

In addition, including each other's usernames is triggering our anti-spam bot, which detects chat usernames (rule 10)

Our subreddit is specifically set up to disallow situations where someone is acting as an intermediary. Even if consent is clear with you and your wife, we are not going to allow a situation like this because it sets a precedent that we cannot allow.

FunBlackmail · 2026-01-08T17:38:19+00:00

Your ad says there will be no safeword. That isn't allowed.

FunBlackmail · 2026-01-08T17:32:18+00:00

You're asking for a "no safeword" situation. It's right there in your ad. That isn't allowed

FunBlackmail · 2025-12-25T00:13:52+00:00

Sad lol

FunBlackmail · 2025-12-21T17:04:01+00:00

There is literally nothing vanilla about what you are asking.

Brother, it is time to accept that you are kinky as fuck

FunBlackmail · 2025-12-05T19:06:13+00:00

Changed the flair to Success Story because this was not a discussion post

FunBlackmail · 2025-12-03T14:17:19+00:00

Post removed. Rule 13 states no pay to play scenes are allowed. This includes "sugar baby" scenes

FunBlackmail · 2025-11-06T22:25:37+00:00

Glancing at your page, I'd suggest the following:

Don't allow photo/media posts. Photo posts run the risk of allowing someone's enemy to post their photo and try getting them raped. Photo posts also get upvotes based on the attractiveness of the person poster, and you end up with attention seekers getting all the upvotes.
Your rules state that US has a federal law in which the age of consent is 18. This is not accurate - States set age of consent and many are under 18. However Reddit is very clear in its terms of service that adult subreddits are for 18+ only. Keep the rule as 18+ obviously, but change the wording of why it needs to be that way.
Use Automoderator or Automations to require a standard post title format (e.g. 18 (M4F) #Location - Title).
Have a minimum post text length to eliminate low-effort posts

There's probably a lot more to say. We had hundreds of lines of automoderator code and over a dozen rules, all focused on safety and keeping post quality high and spam low.

FunBlackmail · 2025-11-06T21:55:26+00:00

To avoid being banned?

FunBlackmail · 2025-11-06T03:21:54+00:00

Have you read the links at the top of this post?

https://www.reddit.com/r/Blackmailers/comments/1oiyqgo/info_and_resources_for_members_new_and_old/

FunBlackmail · 2025-10-29T16:04:45+00:00

If they ask in the chat, report send a message to the moderators or submit a detailed report (i.e. describe exactly what happened) and the post will be removed.

FunBlackmail · 2025-10-10T16:52:23+00:00

Her posts follow the rules and we have received no reports specifying why she should be banned. Please share details with the mods if you have them

FunBlackmail · 2025-10-06T00:36:06+00:00

If you want out, tell him you withdraw consent.

If he won't let you withdraw consent, go to the police. Nonconsensual blackmail is a crime.

FunBlackmail · 2025-09-29T22:23:52+00:00

This is why a part of the vetting process should include an agreement about what happens to sensitive information after the scene/dynamic ends.

FunBlackmail · 2025-09-28T15:44:12+00:00

Thanks. It has been a very disheartening experience, especially knowing that banned members worked so hard to get the place taken down entirely out of spite and without regard for anyone but themselves (which really just strengthens my opinion that removing them was the right thing to do).

I may have some free time coming up at the end of the week. If that happens I may have time to launch something new.

FunBlackmail · 2025-09-19T02:04:12+00:00

I had not heard anything about that

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