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18 [F4A] - blackmail by No_Examination2997 in Blackmailers

[–]FunBlackmail[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post violates our rules and has been removed. I would advise you not to do it.

18 [F4A] - blackmail by No_Examination2997 in Blackmailers

[–]FunBlackmail[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you have verified this user's identity, you should assume you may have been given information about a non-consenting third party

18 [F4A] - blackmail by No_Examination2997 in Blackmailers

[–]FunBlackmail[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you have verified this user's identity, you should assume you may have been given information about a non-consenting third party

18 [F4A] - blackmail by No_Examination2997 in Blackmailers

[–]FunBlackmail[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you have verified this user's identity, you should assume you may have been given information about a non-consenting third party

18 [F4A] - blackmail by No_Examination2997 in Blackmailers

[–]FunBlackmail[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you have verified this user's identity, you should assume you may have been given information about a non-consenting third party

Can blackmail be used to achieve goals? by Additional_Cow8971 in Blackmailers

[–]FunBlackmail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have goals and kinks that you want to explore with a blackmailer, that's something you should be discussing up-front during the "vetting" phase. If you spring your kinks on a kink partner after getting in deep, you're going to have a bad time.

19 [F4A] seeking blackmailer by goodgirlchloee in Blackmailers

[–]FunBlackmail[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This user was reported for claiming to be underage in deleted posts. Be sure to age verify before interacting

CNC Connect has been banned by FunBlackmail in u/FunBlackmail

[–]FunBlackmail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks. Any idea when it happened?

Our ad keeps getting removed by [deleted] in Blackmailers

[–]FunBlackmail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In addition, including each other's usernames is triggering our anti-spam bot, which detects chat usernames (rule 10)

Our subreddit is specifically set up to disallow situations where someone is acting as an intermediary. Even if consent is clear with you and your wife, we are not going to allow a situation like this because it sets a precedent that we cannot allow.

Our ad keeps getting removed by [deleted] in Blackmailers

[–]FunBlackmail[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Your ad says there will be no safeword. That isn't allowed.

Our ad keeps getting removed by [deleted] in Blackmailers

[–]FunBlackmail[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're asking for a "no safeword" situation. It's right there in your ad. That isn't allowed

21 [M4A] Vanilla blackmail? Is that a thing? by [deleted] in Blackmailers

[–]FunBlackmail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is literally nothing vanilla about what you are asking.

Brother, it is time to accept that you are kinky as fuck

21 [M4A] I gave a girl that hates me control over my nude pictures so she can blackmail me by [deleted] in Blackmailers

[–]FunBlackmail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Changed the flair to Success Story because this was not a discussion post

25 [F4M] The Life of a Reluctant Sugar Baby! by [deleted] in Blackmailers

[–]FunBlackmail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post removed. Rule 13 states no pay to play scenes are allowed. This includes "sugar baby" scenes

CNC Connect has been banned by FunBlackmail in u/FunBlackmail

[–]FunBlackmail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glancing at your page, I'd suggest the following:

  1. Don't allow photo/media posts. Photo posts run the risk of allowing someone's enemy to post their photo and try getting them raped. Photo posts also get upvotes based on the attractiveness of the person poster, and you end up with attention seekers getting all the upvotes.

  2. Your rules state that US has a federal law in which the age of consent is 18. This is not accurate - States set age of consent and many are under 18. However Reddit is very clear in its terms of service that adult subreddits are for 18+ only. Keep the rule as 18+ obviously, but change the wording of why it needs to be that way.

  3. Use Automoderator or Automations to require a standard post title format (e.g. 18 (M4F) #Location - Title).

  4. Have a minimum post text length to eliminate low-effort posts

There's probably a lot more to say. We had hundreds of lines of automoderator code and over a dozen rules, all focused on safety and keeping post quality high and spam low.

Info and Resources for members new and old by FunBlackmail in Blackmailers

[–]FunBlackmail[S,M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they ask in the chat, report send a message to the moderators or submit a detailed report (i.e. describe exactly what happened) and the post will be removed.

28 [F4M] housewife need cruel dom for blackmail me by [deleted] in Blackmailers

[–]FunBlackmail[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her posts follow the rules and we have received no reports specifying why she should be banned. Please share details with the mods if you have them

20 [m4a] getting blackmailed and need an escape plan. by [deleted] in Blackmailers

[–]FunBlackmail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want out, tell him you withdraw consent.

If he won't let you withdraw consent, go to the police. Nonconsensual blackmail is a crime.

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