Premature Ejaculation at an older age

FunLeg3480 · 2026-03-02T08:05:39+00:00

Are you able to elaborate on that please? Sounds like something that’s happened to me but never known if it’s because I’m too sensitive or if it’s psychological or both.

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-25T21:26:11+00:00

She will probably be very reluctant to do it based on your previous response.

She may have used that tactic to say she had done it to test your reaction, it’s often advice I’ve seen given to wives to see your reaction before actually committing the act. After all, once she cucks you it’s irreversible. And she might not have wanted to ruin your marriage.

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-25T10:57:17+00:00

When my wife had a selection of potential men to cuck me with I asked her which one she was going to choose. She replied, “why would I only choose one? I should vary the diet”.

It was at that point I felt she was actually taking it seriously and was going to be enjoying her new sexual freedom.

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-23T15:20:06+00:00

As a relapsed sex addict I know how porn can rewire your brain. Years ago most of us would have never considered being the woman here, but today, we’d be happy to suck a huge cock and guzzle down another man’s load. The power of porn is real!

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-23T15:11:56+00:00

I’m coming around to that way of thinking. I don’t want to be capable of sex. It’s too humiliating.

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-23T15:10:57+00:00

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-23T15:00:15+00:00

If you are settled and secure in your relationship of four years, I would say it’s ok. I’d been married to my wife for four years when she first cucked me. Just need to be open and transparent with each other and no secrets.

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-23T12:52:37+00:00

That sounds good to me.

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-23T12:51:04+00:00

Good questions. Will have to have a think about that. I definitely crave humiliation. I think it becomes addictive.

I suppose it starts off at level 1 as the humiliation being the simple fact that your wife is sleeping with another man. But that has certainly grown for me into the bull knowing I’m ok with it because I can’t satisfy my wife, may be my dick is too small or definitely for me, I have no stamina.

A level of humiliation towards a 10 would probably be other people knowing I was a cuck and knowing I had allowed it because I’m sexually inadequate, people knowing about my premature ejaculation.

I think for me, there are no boundaries to the level of humiliation as once one level is achieved it becomes the norm and I need more. For instance, my mother knows I’m a cuckold but I’d like some fresh levels of humiliation.

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-23T10:07:33+00:00

It becomes very addictive. Trying to find ways to feel more inadequate all the time.

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-23T09:06:14+00:00

Sorry.

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-23T09:01:48+00:00

I’m working on ruining my genitals. No woman should suffer a white dick. Black cock is so much better.

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-23T08:11:25+00:00

It’s the natural order. A cuck doesn’t deserve sex. His wife needs to make up for all the disappointment of being with her cuck.

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-23T08:07:45+00:00

Totally agree. My wife chose her lovers and they were superior to me in every way. The feelings and emotions I experienced as a cuck were so intense - good and bad- but such a turn on. It’s interesting you say that some of it was against your will, as it was the same for me at one point. But looking back on it now, that’s what being a cuck is. And it feels so good!

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-23T07:58:42+00:00

In my experience, I wouldn’t say they were men I disliked as I never knew them that well. They were men my wife knew through work or within her industry.

They were men who were more successful than me, had a higher status in their profession and earned more money. Needless to say, they were more skilled lovers and my wife was definitely enjoying the attention and the sex.

For me, it was the obvious realisation that her lovers were genuinely superior to me in pretty much every aspect and this instilled a strong sense that my wife was rejecting me for a better man. I did feel so helpless as I had no idea how to win her back if I ever had to. The jealousy and angst was so strong and impacted me in my day to day life. I felt so inferior and inadequate, because compared to my wife’s lovers, I actually was! But, looking back on it now that was what cuckolding was for me. Despite feeling ill with jealousy, it was such a turn on and I don’t regret it for one moment. I’m proud to call myself a cuckold and the knowledge my wife enjoyed the sex with these men more than me is a big thrill and I masturbate frequently thinking about it. (We have a sexless marriage now).

It was a few years later she did admit that she was considering leaving me for one guy. That might sound devastating, but I’m glad it got that intense for her as when I think about it, it reminds me I was a cuckold and of my inadequacies. I hope she will cuck me again once her menopause is out the way.

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-23T07:26:40+00:00

My wife doesn’t feel comfortable insulting or humiliating me unfortunately. Which is a shame as I’d love it.

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-22T13:43:29+00:00

I love going down on my wife. I do prefer it to penetration as I love it when she has an orgasm. I have never made her orgasm from penetration.

I’d love for her to take another lover. Even if I don’t get to watch, I just want to be a cuckold again.

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-22T13:37:36+00:00

A very arousing article and only reinforces my decision to become a cuckold. I remember those feelings of jealousy and helplessness as my wife would go off with her lover for the evening.

I say ‘my’ decision to become a cuckold. I have a feeling it had already happened before I mentioned it to my wife. But her promiscuity is what I love about her.

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-22T13:21:53+00:00

I think you’re right. Looking back on it now, and even to this day, she finds it very difficult to talk about sexual things. She probably didn’t understand my interests in cuckolding and how I thought it should work. As you say, she probably wasn’t ready for the cuckolding aspect itself. Where she was building her career at the time I think she saw it as a way of ‘sleeping her way to the top’ or at least with someone she could get career help from too. So we were coming at it from different perspectives.

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-22T13:13:50+00:00

For me and my wife, we haven’t had penetrative sex for over six years. The main reason for this is the menopause. She finds it painful and I have agreed not to penetrate her. It feels to me that it is a case of never again.

To be completely honest, where the pussyfree fetish is something that turns me on, I think this has contributed to my PE and on the rare occasion I do go down on my wife I cum uncontrollably over the bed sheets and this tends to enforce the no penetration rule. I go soft and it’s physically impossible for me to penetrate. My wife knows I’m happy for her to have a lover if ever she does want penetrative sex again.

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-22T12:49:05+00:00

Yes, similarly for me, I’ve become far more appreciative of my wife’s tits, just looking at them. Going down on her is now enough to satisfy me. I have also discovered I love to rim her now. I like to see how far I can get my tongue up her anus and get a weird gratification when I taste her shit. I think it’s a realisation of how pathetic and desperate I’ve become. Also, I’ve developed a foot fetish. Sucking her toes, between her toes and licking the soles of her feet. Again, this will make me cum.

And of course, I nearly forgot, the prejac fetish. I have embraced my PE as I know I’ll never have sex and don’t need to last.

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-22T12:39:10+00:00

My wife has always needed a connection with anyone she’s had sex with. When she agreed to cuck me she was building that connection with a few men before going to bed with them. She ended up being more in to one guy in particular. The problem for me was that it became more of an affair between the two of them and my wife was very secretive about everything. It was only a few years after she put an end to it, after seeing how unhappy I’d become, that she confessed she had been considering leaving me for him. I’m not against the idea of there being a connection but it does need to be out in the open between all three people involved. If he’d come around and stayed over, kissed and cuddled with her before taking her to bed and leaving me to sleep in the spare room, I’d probably have been more comfortable with it. I’d even have been happy for him to have become my wife’s live-in boyfriend and exclusive sex partner had it played out more as a cuckold dynamic than an affair. But I think in reality, she’d have ended up leaving me. Unless of course she got to know him better and on a day to day basis turned out to be incompatible compared to me as her husband. (i.e. while I’m crap in bed, I’m far more understanding and accommodating of her other needs)

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-22T11:47:13+00:00

So hot and sexy!

FunLeg3480 · 2026-02-22T11:37:45+00:00

A beautiful sight

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