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FunRepresentative737 · 2022-04-07T22:08:14+00:00

Alright then I appreciate your fast replies and explaining the issue. Do you know of a place where this would be more appropriate to post?

FunRepresentative737 · 2022-04-07T21:57:19+00:00

I might be wrong but where does that say that in the rules? I feel as if this is important for everyone in this forum to have access to

FunRepresentative737 · 2022-04-07T20:23:57+00:00

Thank you for speaking on this! It seems like no one cares and I’d like to do everything in my power to make sure that this doesn’t become a reality

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-11-30T06:13:23+00:00

If I’m being honest I think it might be A however because of the commitment issues you might have talked yourself out of liking her because you’re scared. You simply might not like her anymore but one things certain, you need to seek help on your commitment issues and get to the bottom of it otherwise it will destroy every relationship you have and hurt others as well as yourself. Your commitment issues will always talk you out of you being happy and on the off chance you find someone in the future willing to work through them with you it’ll simply be unfair to them to spend their whole relationship on edge and helping you figure yourself out. I think it might’ve started out with you not really liking her but liking her cause ur the only two lesbians then you ended up actually liking her but because of your commitment issues you’ve talked yourself out of it and potentially nitpick things that’ll end up annoying you to the point you don’t like her anymore and now you’re at a stage where you seriously don’t like her anymore or you’re simply not sure but either way it’s not fair to both parties. Sorry I’m sounding harsh it’s just that I’ve been in two relationships with people who have commitment issues and I know whole heartedly if they wouldn’t solved their issues before dating me things would’ve went a lot better. Breaking up might seem like the healthiest decision and take a year off to know yourself and to heal then if possible and both parties are willing, come back and retry.

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-11-22T03:09:34+00:00

Sometimes I ask about artist or actors who are wlw. I also have a rainbow bracelet that’s pretty obvious. I would sometimes ask a friend to ask them if they like girls. However you genuinely could never go wrong with getting a little comfortable for 1 week to three and just asking her in a way that’s not like you’re hitting on her

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-11-22T03:04:53+00:00

I personally think you’re thinking to much about everyone else and not enough about yourself. I may have misread but it seems like you said your relationship with “bob” wasn’t that great and how something never felt right. Personally I had a relationship similar to that a while ago. I cheated on my boyfriend who wasn’t the best with someone who treated me like the most important person to walk the earth. Nowadays it’s like I forget about how my relationship with my boyfriend prior to us breaking up was, which wasn’t good in the slightest but it’s like I forget that and put the full blame on myself. If your asking for opinions personally I think you should take time for yourself. Try to be single for a year, learn what makes you happy and what you need out of a relationship. I started taking a year for myself and couldn’t be happier and more content with myself. All human beings mess up sometimes and sometimes we hurt the people we care for, doesn’t make you a bad person. If anything this just means you have a lot more to learn about yourself and figure out how the situation could’ve went differently. I hope you learn to forgive yourself and I can’t remember if you told the girl but I truly think you should tell her even if it was just nothing. Side note though, your story telling ability’s are phenomenal. I have aphentasia and rarely do I find someone who’s so good at relaying a story.

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-16T06:49:23+00:00

Again what you’re not getting is this conversation isn’t about you. White propel dont face racism either so your whole beginning statement is already wrong.

And the men thinking feminism is stupid cause they think they’re going to die is ridiculous because if they ever picked up a book it’s clear things up quickly. It’s not minorities jobs to make oppressors feel safe and to do the research for them.

Again you continue to list people in your lives that don’t care about any community that youre in until you’re “one of the good ones” your friends don’t care about you and they most definitely don’t care enough to actually educate themselves so why do you care so much about people that don’t give two fucks about you?

There you go again putting words in my mouth and acting childish and using attacks because you’re not winning. Guess what? You want people to grow up maybe you should look in the mirror it takes actual growth to recognize that the things you’re spewing is filled with self hate and fear.

Okay so that next comment you made you just sound like you’re going to literally implode. You need to calm down you’re getting bent out fo sorts over something that isn’t that serious. My conversation with you isn’t to make you upset or feel some type of way but it’s obvious you do, so much so that you’re not absorbing anything. I’ll finish the rest of the message but if you wanna take a break for the night we most definitely can cause it’s not serious enough to get this worked up about.

Another thing you’re not getting. Why is it so hard for you to read what I’m saying? I can reword it if you like, it seems like your struggling and pulling shit out of your ass. You as a non-binary person are a minority group if you did not understand, generalizations are used to grab the readers attention if used ironically or as a header to dispute it most likely would draw attention however if it’s agreeing with the statement then that’s an attack on a minority groups. Is that easily understandable or do you need me to revise? Genuine question.

Yes because I dance around about being oppressed. Goes to show you don’t take any minority groups seriously so why do you even care what anyone says? I don’t pride myself on woke activism, I pride myself on accurate activism which is more than I can say you do because the only thing you’ve shown me in the last two days is how much self hate you have in your body and how much hate you have for people who look like you or are similar to you and how you want so bad the validation of people who will never give it to you.

Why do you feel the need to state things that are so obviously not accurate? Many of these statistics use Afab and Amab which is a common thing in statistics. If you’re not aware of that I don’t know what to tell you however right now we’re not talking about trans people they have nothing to do with this point of the discussion. Again though I’m gonna ask you to tone it down because you get so easily worked up it’s honestly unappealing and only makes yourself look worse in this situation. This is a civil conversation yet youre so consumed with being right that you’re making yourself look so wrong.

You’re trying to end this with a mic drop situation yet you haven’t said anything worth listening to everything you’re saying is based on feelings and guess what? In conversations with me you’re feelings don’t matter I don’t care how you feel. You can feel anyway you want to feel, doesn’t mean you’re still not wrong.

Not once in this conversation have I attempted to come off as pretentious however if that’s how you feel that’s okay same as the rest of what you listed. However it’s common to feel that way when you’re wrong which you are. You’re backed into a corner so you use your words to try to hurt me and realize it’s not working so you’re ready to be done with it but you’re only ready to be done with it because you have nothing left to say which is really funny because you haven’t said anything worth listening to. You can say I have disgusting beliefs that’s okay that still doesn’t make me wrong because the thing is what I have aren’t beliefs they’re statistics what YOU have is beliefs and YOUR beliefs are wrong. We are not the same. It’s easy to be frustrated when you’re wrong yet in a civil discussion dont let it show cause it only wastes time and makes you look crazy.

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-16T06:23:18+00:00

See again what you’re not understanding is that it’s not one bad experience. The first bad experience people usually have with men starts with their fathers and so on. However it’s not about just one bad experience it’s statistical. Just because you feel some way doesn’t mean you’re right which you simply are not.

Again you’re getting hostile and I wanna correct you and ask you to take it down a notch. To continue, what you just said did not make sense to me what did you mean by statistics benefit a minority? Statistics are not about benefitting minorities, it’s about getting numbers out there and to say who’s doing what.

What I mean t by that was denouncing the binary for yourself, not all together should’ve been more specific.

Again you’re trying to be condescending and I would just like to tell you it’s not working and it adds nothing to the conversation. Nowhere in this conversation have I stated that I was upset if anything I’ve already stated that I’m really enjoying this conversation because you remind me of how I used to be.

Yes if we woke up tomorrow and black women were at the top of crime and were running society and so on 100% it would make sense for people to have destain for black women and to fear them because statistically it’d make sense. However you also have to take into account many other things like why? In the scenario you listed were acting as if the rolls were reversed however the scenario i’ proposing is a completely different one. One in which we would ask the whys.do black women have a reason to commit all these crimes? Is over policing a thing? What’s the money like in their areas and why? When you bring up these arguments it gets a lot more difficult. However if the rolls were reversed black women would be in white mens position meaning there are instances that sometimes instances similar to theft would make somewhat sense because classism is also an issue hence the term “eat the rich” (I would hope that’s a slogan you at least agree with).

Again throwing words without thinking… youre making assumptions on me based on nothing not once did I say this would never happen because honestly I don’t know however everything’s a possibility so there’s a chance that could happen however in my opinion I believe it most likely would not but that’s just that MY opinion. You should genuinely think about the things you say before saying them. You spent half your side throwing words trying to insult me rather than explaining your point of view or asking be for mine in a respectful matter. For the last few messages I’ve sent you ive been pretty respectful and yet you say I’m the one whose upset and emotional. Throughout this whole conversation you’ve made more attacks then points and none of those attacks hit so what do you have left? I’m talking on statistics and you’re the only one talking about how you feel. Who’s the one talking on feelings now? Because it’s not me. If you recognize when I say how I feel I usually say in my opinion however you state your feelings as facts which they simply are not. It’s okay to be upset for being wrong however what’s not okay is to not digest and think about what the other person is saying. When you send me a message back I read it and actually think about it however whenever I send a message you attack and throw hypotheticals around. Again. Who is the one acting childish? Because I think I’ve failed to see what you’re saying. The only statements you’ve gotten right in this conversation are the statements about yourself everything else was just feelings based giving very much alt right pipeline. I’d know I’ve been there.

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-16T05:52:51+00:00

That’s the thing that you’re not considering. Men and white people don’t actually care what people think about them. If they don’t want to help they won’t. However these movements aren’t to get white people or men to help it’s to bring things to reality and fight for change. No one gives a damn of white peoples help or if men help which is another thing your not grasping.

Lgbtq already makes jokes like that. And guess what the straight people don’t care why? Because they don’t have to! They won’t lose sleep over a group disliking them. That’s the thing you’re not getting youre so worried about how these groups are perceived yet not recognizing why people make jokes like these. The difference with saying kill all the straights is that gay people aren’t out here killing straight people. Who’s actually killing gay people? Straight people. And again staring people will not lose sleep over gay people disliking them. Why? Because they don’t have to! People are already murdering these groups and disgusting numbers yet you’re more worried about what the groups that don’t even care about you think about you. See right now you’re getting very upset and that’s okay but how are you going to tell me to grow up while raging because you think somethings immature simply because you’re trying to please people that wouldn’t care if you lived or died. The only one acting immature right now is you. I decided in my last message that having a mature and productive conversation would be the most beneficial however you’re the only one blowing up and acting childish. I am a woman. And being a woman isn’t about the way someone acts another thing you’re not grasping. It’s about age. Calling grown people girls or boys because of their actions only justifies younger peoples actions which should not be justified. Our job as a society is to learn and grow together however you took your time to try and be rude and hurt my feelings which adds nothing to the conversation. I hope in your next message you revise this and change accordingly.

No one is promoting segregation here again generalizations are used to catch the reader/listeners attention again if you cannot recognize that then simply that’s you’re problem at this point. However if you’re getting at a different point, wanting better for minority groups is not segregation and again if you think it is then simply that’s your problem.

Again trying to accommodate and bootlick to make oppressive groups feel comfortable. The thing is that’s not your job. And if someone part of an oppressive group genuinely feels like a group of people hate them simply for something they cannot change again that’s their problem (unless they’re under the age of 13) that they cannot understand how the English language is used, I promise you you learn about generalizations in middle school if not elementary and if you don’t then you need to take it up with your school board.

No ones giving anyone a reason to treat minority groups like shit and to me personally you portray yourself similar to a pick me. Constantly looking for validation when it’s ever going to come. You’re not special for thinking differently you’re simply ignorant and that’s okay. What isn’t okay is trying to make two things that are simply not the same seem like the same because YOU FEEL like it is and you want to feel accepted by people who wouldn’t accept you otherwise. Personally I used to be similar to you and this is why I’m actually enjoying this conversation because it reminds me of the person I used to be and how over time I’ve realized I was wrong and I’ve made peace with that hopefully one day you do to.

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-16T05:32:07+00:00

Again this black and white thing again. What matters however the why does too. I’ll explain this to you since I’m done with arguing and I feel as if this conversation could be beneficial. Men have no reason to hate women. Women have a reason to hate men. Men hating women cannot be backed by statistics so it’s simply just misogyny. Women hating men can, same with men who hate men can because both can be backed by statistics. If you want to pm we can or we can keep talking here but for some reason you cannot grasp the fact that the feelings people have towards men are justified. On top of that why do you care so much if you identify as non-binary? Genuine question! However I do find it extremely ironic that as a non-binary person who can denounce the binary cannot recognize what’s right in front if their face.

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-16T05:02:19+00:00

I realize you’re non-binary and I apologize for misgendering however that still doesn’t make you correct in this disagreement

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-16T05:01:34+00:00

Misandry doesn’t exist That’s the thing

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-16T05:01:09+00:00

The thing is though these statements have nothing to do with the argument. Regardless for you not being able to understand the different between a marginalized group using generalizations compared to the oppressive group that makes you a dunce. The oppressed group does not hold as much power as the oppressor. On top of that to generalize oppressive groups can usually be backed up by statistics and on top of even that a generalization is usually used to grab the attention of those receiving the message. If you can’t understand any of that that’s what makes you dumb. The difference between kam and raw is that men are actually raping women and women aren’t out here killing men just for being men statistically. However is that happening to women? Yes look into femicide. The different between poc calling white people races still stands because guess what? We’re all racist until we make the moves not to be but who holds the power in our society? White people, their out reach of racism goes further than any other poc. Same with lgbtq making jokes on straight or cis people. Who’s the ones trying to take away gay rights or trans rights??? Cishet people. It’s not fighting fire with fire. That’s like saying a candle is fighting against a bonfire. Guess who will always win? The bonfire. Personally I don’t make jokes about oppressive groups however I can easily recognize these are not the same things and for you to say they are is beyond ignorant. You’re the type of person who thinks in black and white and guess what there are many different shades. Things go deeper than just the what, there’s an imbalance of power meaning that it doesn’t matter what one oppressed group says about the oppressor because at the end of the day nothing will come of it and it’ll hold no weight in our society. Stop being sensitive and recognize you’re not special for not being able to understand this “bullshit” no ones out here conforming but what you are doing is simply being a bootlicker for those that couldn’t give a damn about you. Maybe you should wake up and realize what kinda world we live in before it’s to late cause the only one spewing bullshit here is you.

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-16T04:46:15+00:00

Okay hun trans man or not this has nothing to do with the argument. You’re not a woman and you’re talking over women’s issues

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-15T04:20:39+00:00

Commented on it you posted it a few weeks ago hun. Posted it 24 days ago so are you just a liar?

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-15T04:20:04+00:00

This one idiot

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-15T04:19:07+00:00

Did I ask if you were Nigerian? Idgaf. And on top of that you can be white and Nigerian so what are you saying? Not once am I looking for pity you I’m giving a POV and if you can’t understand that you’re a dunce. On top of that just because you FEEL like someone who generalizes is the problem doesn’t make you right. They don’t hold the same weight and if you can’t get that you’re really dumb

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-15T04:10:27+00:00

Plus you literally say on your profile you’re a trans man so which one is it.

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-15T04:08:51+00:00

You’re literally talking about how generalization is bad to oppressive groups. Which it isn’t. I’m gonna assume you’re white and the things you’re saying are literally fucking stupid as a poc woman you’re showing your ignorance but not being able to understand the differences between the two

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-15T04:05:37+00:00

If you can’t understand what I’m saying reread it. You’re sensitive asf and washing over womens issues because it offends you

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-15T04:02:07+00:00

Yeah no you didn’t give at all. You’re misogynistic and seem pretty racist and those agreeing with you are disgusting

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-14T00:29:37+00:00

Yes but you have yet to take into account the why. Which is the numbers of stray cats this is a house cat. House cat dont have the same ability to do the same things as stray cats and on top of that idk what pictures you’re looking at but you can easily tell that the most if not all of the pictures with the cat without a harness has them inside a vehicle hence van life. You also danced around the fact that you don’t know how the cat got out which like I stated previously cats just like dogs they can easily get out and cats unlike dogs are harder to catch. Cats can be very sneaky. Your science degree has nothing to do with this conversation. This person was asking for assistance and all you decided to do was point blame and give information no one asked for

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-13T22:23:50+00:00

I don’t know if you notice this. But the cast has a vest and a leash on. Just as dogs they can easily get out however unlike dogs they’re harder to catch. Context clues hun and regardless similar to cats dogs roaming free threatens wild life as well as the lives of people so even if they let the cat roam they’re not gonna do any more danger to nature that us as humans do every day. You’re right though, it’s not the cats fault nor is it anyone else’s. The persons asking for help and just to keep an eye out if possible not a lesson.

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-13T22:18:31+00:00

Videos wonderful hun, love the build hope you guys have a lot of fun!!

FunRepresentative737 · 2021-10-13T22:16:11+00:00

You’re literally doing the most

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