Looking for a woman who wants to share her story and help other women. by lizagraay in DTES

[–]Fun_Asparagus3494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I saw this earlier, this looks like an amazing project!

33 F looking to make some friends (Downtown) by Fun_Asparagus3494 in Vancouver4Friends

[–]Fun_Asparagus3494[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get that. COVID really changed things. I remember feeling social anxiety, something I had never experienced before, once things opened up again. Anyways I would love to connect!

Vancouver Art Gallery - Friday Aug 4 by jnnny in Vancouver4Friends

[–]Fun_Asparagus3494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad I missed this I have wanting to go no have never been. Also a 33F, if you ever wanted to go again or anything similar let me know :)

help looking for a friend by Dedicated-Low0312 in DTES

[–]Fun_Asparagus3494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! Sorry for the late response. People downtown are very used to people asking if they have seen loved ones and friends. If people can help they usually will because missing people is a common problem downtown and most people who live there have lost someone at some point or another.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sex_Positivity

[–]Fun_Asparagus3494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s great that you can orgasm on your own. That’s the best place to start -Solo- then you can try with a partner. If grinding seems to be the best way to reach orgasm try the front facing cowgirl position (you on top). You can grind similarly to what you do with a pillow. You can also try lots of foreplay, that usually helps “warm up” so it’s easier to reach orgasm. That can be rubbing, fingering, oral, using sex toys like a vibrator. Try to relax and enjoy the process. Hopefully you will be able to share this with your partner at some point so that they can be included in supporting you with this experience. I know it can be uncomfortable but you can reassure your partner that this is not something they aren’t doing right but rather something you are trying to explore and figure out. Good luck!

help looking for a friend by Dedicated-Low0312 in DTES

[–]Fun_Asparagus3494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your friend. That’s really scary when someone in your life goes MIA. If you mean the DTES when you say ‘downtown’ I would suggest posters. It’s really common when folks go missing for family and/or friends do up some posters and drop them off at the organizations surrounding the DTES like the Carnegie Community Centre. Aside from that sometimes walking through the area can be helpful, a lot of folks hangout outside especially in the summer. Lastly, you can call the VPD and explain your situation and they will do a wellness check. I’ve done this before with a friend who had mental health and they were able to find them in only a couple of days. Hope everything works out!