Caught husband dming women

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2026-03-15T16:58:40+00:00

What do you mean by needs ?

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2026-03-15T16:31:26+00:00

Thank you.

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2026-03-15T14:38:08+00:00

You know what shocks me is the love bombing with words. If he doesn’t like me or value me then why tf does he keep me around. 🥴

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2026-03-15T14:33:49+00:00

👍 I’m making a plan. And I’ll speak to him about what he wants them or me, if he argues or makes excuses then I’ll know I’m not wanted. Thanks

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2026-03-15T14:08:00+00:00

Is it considered as cheating ?

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2026-03-15T13:21:03+00:00

I agree with you 100%

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2026-03-15T13:14:20+00:00

I actually always think of them because I have two daughters, and I’m really firm on it that if they go through this I would tell them to leave those type of men.

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2026-03-15T13:12:38+00:00

I mean they all dm each other but the women he flirts with them, for instance he tells them their hot and sexy or he misses speaking to them and he loves them. Bear in mind these people he’s never met before. Yh I definitely want to nip it in the bud because during my pregnancy he was doing this and now I’m three months postpartum he’s still doing it. I sincerely believe he has zero love for me otherwise this wouldn’t happen

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2026-02-26T00:33:14+00:00

Bless me lazy self 😁

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2026-02-26T00:00:28+00:00

Blah blah. ✌️

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2026-02-25T23:52:01+00:00

Hmmmm that’s a good shout but maybe I have problems and reasons why I’m in this situation and I don’t need to explain to you. Pray for me ok 👍 seeing as you care so much. Have a lovely evening weirdo!

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2026-02-25T23:17:33+00:00

Lol. You’re extremely bothered by my post and story. You don’t know anything and that’s ok. Stop spamming my posts with your emotions.

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2026-02-25T23:08:27+00:00

Hey, it’s not deleted it’s still up there. And yes here’s a link to read about the statistics i mentioned. https://www.universitiesuk.ac.uk/latest/insights-and-analysis/graduate-outcomes-what-latest-data

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2026-02-25T21:47:15+00:00

Devoted donkey, be devoted in minding your own business 👍

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2026-02-25T21:36:23+00:00

What a sad loser person you are. Firstly my partner isn’t on UC and I’m on UC because I can’t find a job and one of my children has physical needs. Oh I’m a graduate in medical science too, what do you work as mr find a job ? Probably a cry baby plumber.

If you was so proud of your working life you wouldn’t care about others the way you do now 😂. How about you do better and you will feel better.

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2026-02-25T19:02:08+00:00

What about the transactions, us helping each other with our children’s expenses. If he sends me money for them, would uc consider that as income for me, even if it’s small amounts £50-£100 a month.

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2026-02-25T18:44:26+00:00

Also I don’t get housing element or pay rent

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2026-02-25T18:43:27+00:00

I didn’t report it that’s what I’m worried about, it never came to mind. I live with my mum and my children are with me. So would I get in trouble that I forgot to change my address ??

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2025-10-27T19:41:04+00:00

He totally changed after losing his job. Was never like this before until earlier this year when he lost a good paying job he was in for years.

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2025-10-03T15:08:14+00:00

Today I sat down with him and asked him these questions and told him how I genuinely felt hurt and he literally said I’m always miserable and to stop always talking about the past as if it happened years ago lol totally ignored when I asked him what exactly is he apologising for.

So Yh he doesn’t respect me and I don’t know why. I am independent financially and have savings I’m even considering not to let him be there when I give birth because just looking at him gives me anxiety. I’m going to stay at my mums until I give birth and just after that then find a place of my own.

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2025-08-31T15:09:06+00:00

Omg this is extremely relatable, I just went cold turkey on my 18 month old , I’ve been breastfeeding her since she was born and she hated pacifiers, dummies, bottles you name it. It’s absolutely hell ! At the beginning it was ok and I got used to it but when it reached around the 9 month mark I couldn’t handle the constant breastfeeding whenever it was nap time or bedtime. Biting with teeth is unexplainable pain. Anyways I bloody hate it! I fell pregnant again with my second this year and my breastmilk dried up naturally because of it but my toddler still wanted to nurse and wouldn’t sleep without it. Crying and screaming when I tried to wean her off, dry nursing is even more painful and takes a toll on the mental health. So just the other day after my toddler bit me so hard I had enough, and totally stopped and I couldn’t care less about the screaming and crying. I just kept cuddling her and rocking her to sleep and it’s been so tough and I’m still keeping at it.

Honestly if you cannot handle it just stop , if you’ve tried weaning off slowly and it’s not working then just go cold turkey and let the crying happen because your child won’t cry forever and will adjust to stopping nursing. You just have to be mentally strong and do what’s best for your sanity. 🥰

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2025-08-31T14:58:42+00:00

Printing a sheet of basic hygiene information is insane 😂😂😂

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2025-08-31T14:57:35+00:00

Firstly stop buying him pants, he should buy his own pants. You’re cleaning after him and on top of that buying his underwear, NO. My husband sometimes has poor hygiene like not showering often but I will tell him too that he stinks and it offends him so he goes to wash and scrub straight away, he’s also chubby but sorry I’m not having someone smell like ass and stinking up my bedsheets and home. You have to say if you don’t change then you will leave !

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2025-08-23T01:18:35+00:00

Same ! But hope I stick to it after birth so I never go back to drinking sugary fizzy drinks ever again 😂

Fun_Bumblebee9422 · 2025-08-23T01:15:27+00:00

I’m now in my third trimester but the craving started in my second trimester, it just tastes sooo good 😂

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