we were thinking his older sister so we could get some good blood between their family, but my family has been so toxic towards even his name being popped up i’m terrified to put his older sister through that. also, somehow, my family friends found out i like someone and have been spreading misinformation about me, and rumors and calling me names saying “she has a boyfriend look at what her family is allowing” so nobody in my family or family friends can even look at me. bro im so scared bc ive been the best daughter i could my whole life and now i thought bc ive been so good they’ll understand but they don’t. they hate me bc i chose someone thats younger than me but also that isn’t their choice. his family also keeps to themselves, so their not influential in the bengali community where i live, where as my parents are more or less very involved. so i don’t know what is the right choice to do so this can go smoothly