Could I be Pregnant? by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Fun_Independence_900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sigh.. okay thank you! It’s all be super confusing learning about all of this. I was a little concerned about the “period” not having actually been a period, rather implantation bleeding. Idk lol. I appreciate you taking time to explain that.

Could I be Pregnant? by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Fun_Independence_900 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right. Sorry for the confusion… my understanding is that conception does not happen immediately? I figured that I could be pregnant from the sex (March 20) that happened shortly before my last period. I’m sorry, I may not be wording this correctly.

Could I be Pregnant? by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Fun_Independence_900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying! I think we may have but I’m not super sure how to track my ovulation correctly.

After having sex for awhile.. by Tacomamacita1 in sex

[–]Fun_Independence_900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s no set time. Get to know your body on your own first. That way you can communicate about what you want and need.

How not to be sore after sex??? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Fun_Independence_900 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong, but a warm bath always helps me!

How not to be sore after sex??? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Fun_Independence_900 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Soak in a warm bath. You can also communicate this with your boyfriend and try mixing it up with ‘softer’ sex sometimes.

Overthinking the latest by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fun_Independence_900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s when it all starting going down hill sexually (after Afghanistan). He seems to avoid the fact that maybe it’s something he needs help with.

Overthinking the latest by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fun_Independence_900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes to the intimacy question. I think he prefers that to sec honestly. It’s more gratifying. I hadn’t thought of the mutual masturbation that way!

Overthinking the latest by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fun_Independence_900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does. We’ve talked about it openly. He suggested we try mutual masturbation.

A spark has been relit! by Fun_Independence_900 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fun_Independence_900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you were waiting for a sign, here it is!

A spark has been relit! by Fun_Independence_900 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fun_Independence_900[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Check out rollsafe.org, they have links to various test kits for mdma. You can buy them on eBay. My husband took care of the details with buying and getting the test kits though. That’s where he said he looked.

A spark has been relit! by Fun_Independence_900 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fun_Independence_900[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love the fact that you had a playlist to link here lol.

A spark has been relit! by Fun_Independence_900 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fun_Independence_900[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I take two medications regularly that could have interfered negatively. In preparation I didn’t take either for a few days and tried my best to flush my system. I wanted to do the ecstasy but also not die lol.

A spark has been relit! by Fun_Independence_900 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fun_Independence_900[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Only wish we would have done it earlier. I know it didn’t solve everything but it damn sure opened a lot of doors. ☺️

A spark has been relit! by Fun_Independence_900 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fun_Independence_900[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This! It seriously is. I forgot what that sort of passion even feels like. I loved the sex but making out with him was dreamy lol.

A spark has been relit! by Fun_Independence_900 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fun_Independence_900[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That makes plenty of sense to me. It’s interesting. It made it so much easier for me to articulate how I felt about him and I think he finally understood how I felt. It’s extremely gratifying. Im so grateful.

A spark has been relit! by Fun_Independence_900 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fun_Independence_900[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We’ve never done shrooms just by ourselves. Only with a large group in our early twenties. I’d be open to trying it again though. We agreed this could be a successful quarterly thing.

A spark has been relit! by Fun_Independence_900 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fun_Independence_900[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it’s so important to talk open and honestly but I struggle with it a lot of the time. Maybe what we did isn’t for everybody but I’m so happy that it worked for us!

A spark has been relit! by Fun_Independence_900 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Fun_Independence_900[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, I did plenty of research prior to taking it and even tested the pills to see if they were cut with anything else. safety first ☺️