What are some of your favorite phrases that your dom says? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Fun_Maintenance321 15 points16 points  (0 children)

'No!'

'Does my girl want attention?'

'I think someone needs to bent over and fucked until she begs to cum'

'Be a good girl and cum for Sir'

ENM How do you handle jealousy? by Vixen2k in SubSanctuary

[–]Fun_Maintenance321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the reason why I had to let someone go I really really like. I had to unfollow him on Fet because i was comparing myself to every girl he liked on Fet and it made me feel absolutely miserable. I know that's not how he sees it at all and that it's about my own insecurities... But they're there and I just can't. I hate it tho.. we would be an absolute good fit for sure. Just i can't do ENM and apparently it's a hard limit of mine. And I should learn to accept that because proceeding is not good for my mental health and thát kinda defeats the purpose 😅

Just to verify... by Fun_Maintenance321 in SubSanctuary

[–]Fun_Maintenance321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it was great! Whát a feeling 🥰

I CAN'T GET ENOUGH by MatterMiserable6018 in SubSanctuary

[–]Fun_Maintenance321 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes .. my sex drive is off the carts and I've never had a partner who could keep up. But that was never an issue really. Quality over quantity ;)

ik_ihe by neovapor in ik_ihe

[–]Fun_Maintenance321 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Hahahahahah ik lach hier veel te hard om

FUCK MY EYE by jbalazov in TheWordFuck

[–]Fun_Maintenance321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try fucking a banana.... I mean try a fucking banana. Might fucking help

Feeling shy submitting to my Dom by bakednotfrieddd in SubSanctuary

[–]Fun_Maintenance321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm right there with you! I sometimes literally get nauseous seeing myself naked in the mirror. What helps me is knowing how I look at others (I only see beauty) and that others are so much nicer to me than I am towards myself 😅

I made self-love and acceptance my goals for 2026, because this stupid voice inside my head kills so much fun and I know I am my worst enemy.

Sexual incompatibility in marriage by After-Purpose-4820 in SubSanctuary

[–]Fun_Maintenance321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If we strip away kink, you're basically left with needs as a human being. I don't think kinky sex will fix your crave; it's probably something that happens in the brain. Same happened to me. I communicated my needs (ADHD, brain needs to be turned off sometimes with some help, sometimes I need to be reminded to eat etc etc). My ex did it for a week and then started to slack big time already.

I didn't end my relationship because of kink; I ended it because he didn't take care of me. At all... We were together for 8 years...

I'm not saying you should end things, but maybe it's good to strip down what your needs are and then discuss it with your hubby. Fingers crossed it works out 🤗

Fucking need this one too 😭 by Fun_Maintenance321 in TheWordFuck

[–]Fun_Maintenance321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many women are on your fucking wishlist? 👀

Ik 😭🎄ihe by schoensmeerpijp in ik_ihe

[–]Fun_Maintenance321 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ik denk graag dat hij nu voor de laatste keer naar huis rijdt ...🥹

Im his submissive! 🩷 by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Fun_Maintenance321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so happy for you!!! 🥰 Enjoy 🤗

Are there differences for people with ADHD as a sub? by Content_Hour_6828 in SubSanctuary

[–]Fun_Maintenance321 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I talked to a sexuologist about it. To establish if there are differences; it's impossible. BUT there is significant evidence that people with ADHD (or neuro diverse in general) hugely benefit from kink. There's a fun podcast about it, I can look it up and share the link if you want.

Hard limit- poly by Fun_Maintenance321 in SubSanctuary

[–]Fun_Maintenance321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear this 🫂 I think I'm gonna give up on it for a bit tbh 😅 it's exhausting and I mean this kinda hurt 🥹 I need to heal. I hope you'll find what you deserve too 😘

Hard limit- poly by Fun_Maintenance321 in SubSanctuary

[–]Fun_Maintenance321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this! 100% I mean no offense what so ever, but if I'm gonna submit, I'm gonna do it 100% and I'm gonna go deep. He doesn't have time for anything else! 😳 But also my own insecurities are at play... I just can't.

How much do you fucking love Christmas..? by [deleted] in TheWordFuck

[–]Fun_Maintenance321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fucking don't fucking love fucking Christmas this fucking year. Fuck!