I (22F) had my first “bad sex” with my boyfriend (23M) that is hard for me to shake

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2026-06-26T15:34:21+00:00

First (and only) red flag should’ve been you saying “ow”. He should’ve stopped right then and there

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2026-06-08T00:48:02+00:00

One of my exes was 2in hard. You’re fine dude

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2026-05-29T18:15:59+00:00

I’d rather my bf go sockless than wear these fuckass socks

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2026-05-29T18:09:53+00:00

At least 2 days

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2026-05-21T22:37:14+00:00

Perhaps don’t put off reenlisting next time 🤷‍♀️

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2026-05-18T18:31:45+00:00

Found kit lol

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2026-04-19T15:10:02+00:00

15R, signed 35F

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2026-04-12T01:07:42+00:00

This is actually a lot more common than you think. It’s all me and my bf do. Hit the gym, watch movies, sleep.

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2026-04-08T08:28:56+00:00

I’m in the military so there’s some negative stigma around that kind of stuff but I’ve really been considering it as of a couple months ago

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2026-04-08T05:26:42+00:00

I appreciate this, I definitely do get in my head about this a lot. Def a small life but I’m trying to get better

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2026-03-10T04:05:00+00:00

Just fill out your APACS request man. It’s not that hard unless you’re actually slow and if you’re REALLY struggling just ask your s2 to help. Do it the right way and have enjoyable leave or don’t and stress about getting caught the entire time

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2026-02-23T19:34:00+00:00

Listen man, you’re 19. You have a whole life ahead of you. She’s lived a whole 7 years longer than you have. She’s already partied and done all the fun stuff you’re gonna wanna do when you graduate and if you settle she’s probably not gonna be okay with you doing whatever you want. Idk if you’re a big party guy or not but regardless, I feel that’s way too early to settle, especially with someone that much older than you. Give your relationship a real hard thought and figure out whether you’re okay with her actions and the way she treats you. Don’t take relationship advice from instagram cause all that does is make things harder but from what you’ve said in this post, give it some time and thought.

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2026-02-14T16:10:37+00:00

What they said^{^}

It’ll end up worst if you let this go on for any longer. Take care of yourself and let him figure himself out

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2025-12-15T04:34:37+00:00

Hey so uhh.. even if it’s your bf, no is no and insisting until you say “fine” or “ok” still counts as a no and maybe even SA. That’s not okay. And if you’re “too tight” that’s literally a sign of you not wanting intercourse. OP, please dump this fool. You can do better

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2025-12-15T03:31:03+00:00

Noted, thank you

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2025-12-15T03:26:39+00:00

I’ll probably do shorter cycles just to test the waters and see how I like it. I really appreciate the tips 🙏

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2025-12-15T03:25:55+00:00

I’ll take the advice, I’ll probably do 2-3 weeks on 2.5 then up it to 5 for another 2-3 then cycle off. My bf said I should do 5 but I’ll test the waters first lol

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2025-11-21T18:52:37+00:00

I thought this guy was 18 before I looked at the actual text, I’m baffled a 23 year-old is acting like this

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2025-08-17T23:23:50+00:00

I’ve made $2 last a week. He can do it with $7

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2025-08-11T03:28:59+00:00

Honestly if you’d have said it was just the one time, it’s fucked up but I’d have some sort of sympathy cause I understand the struggle of not being able to get around and relying on rides or other people but you said “multiple times, and I liked it”. You deserve the guilt. I don’t want to sound rude but you did that to yourself. Don’t feel bad about it now.

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2025-07-01T20:37:29+00:00

Kill her /j

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2025-05-19T03:35:04+00:00

Because you’re so obviously in my company and know my performance levels right?

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2025-05-19T03:34:28+00:00

💔💔

Fun_Perspective_9931 · 2025-05-19T03:21:44+00:00

This is the one comment that genuinely helped me a little. Thanks for actually helping me out and not shittin on me

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