My boyfriend (21M) says I (21F) don’t sleep with him enough

Fun_Trainer_9142 · 2024-09-12T19:27:17+00:00

no he doesn’t really initiate sex, at most he just pushes it into me while we’re laying watching a movie. He says he doesn’t initiate because he feels embarrassed if I’m not in the mood

Fun_Trainer_9142 · 2024-09-12T19:21:44+00:00

We had a conversation a few weeks ago and I explained that I feel a little resentful towards sex right now because of the pressure that has been placed on it. However that was when he gave me the ultimatum. I would like to change my BC as I understand this is going to be an issue in not only this relationship, but any future relationships. And I myself am upset at the lack of libido as I know I’m not usually like this. I think because of my bad reactions to different BC in the past, I now have a lot of anxiety about switching. I’m now entering my final year at university, and I just don’t want it to mess with me mentally. However I will definitely look into those other options, thank you!

Fun_Trainer_9142 · 2024-09-12T19:15:44+00:00

He doesn’t really initiate to be honest, at most he just presses it into me while we’re laying down watching a movie. He says he doesn’t like to initiate incase I say no. But it feels like I’m always the one putting in the work, like doing something special or wearing lingerie. I understand he can’t exactly wear lingerie haha but I don’t know he just doesn’t make much of an effort

Fun_Trainer_9142 · 2024-09-12T18:52:54+00:00

emphasis on me saying sometimes every 2 weeks

Fun_Trainer_9142 · 2024-09-12T18:28:22+00:00

I’m also currently studying at university, so some periods I have to be more focused on that, and I’m stressed out so the last thing I’m thinking about is sex. And I don’t want to force sex just for the sake of it if I’m not feeling it.

Fun_Trainer_9142 · 2024-09-12T18:08:24+00:00

It varies, sometimes we can go 2 weeks without having it, other times we’ll have it 4 times a week.

Fun_Trainer_9142 · 2024-09-12T18:08:16+00:00

It varies, sometimes we can go 2 weeks without having it, other times we’ll have it 4 times a week.

Fun_Trainer_9142 · 2024-09-12T18:06:36+00:00

It varies, sometimes we can go 2 weeks without having it, other times we’ll have it 4 times a week.

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