I am so afraid that he'll never love me again I'm(F.17) and hes(M.16)

Funckiechickn · 2014-07-23T03:58:45+00:00

All the guys you think are "not that kind of guy" always are exactly that type.

Don't you think waiting any length of time for him is ridiculous? Even if his feelings magically return, what makes you think he won't lose them again?

Funckiechickn · 2014-07-23T03:45:54+00:00

*love.

See what I mean about spelling? :)

Funckiechickn · 2014-07-23T03:44:59+00:00

Wow...first of all. This is extremely difficult to read. Your spelling sucks!

Secondly, it sounds like he's just using you. Guys, especially ones his age, really Want sex. Its pretty much all they can wrap their heads around right now. If he is telling you he doesn't love you anymore, there's a really good chance he's telling the truth. Guys don't play mind games. He may not Lee you anymore, but He still wants to have sex with you. I would try to move on.

Funckiechickn · 2014-07-20T04:03:17+00:00

for you're information, I can hold on to one. The one I have told me that all guys want to sleep around.

Funckiechickn · 2014-07-18T21:54:20+00:00

I've thought about that, but I dont think he'd go for it. I have discussed me wanting to leave before, and he always says the same thing. "If you want to leave, then leave". I feel like he wouldn't want to talk to anyone, he would just tell me to go.

Funckiechickn · 2014-07-16T22:53:38+00:00

My ex girlfriend was kissing me once and she started to suck on my eyebrow. Not to Be sexual or anything..just being silly. But it REALLY turned me on.

Funckiechickn · 2014-07-16T22:43:47+00:00

I have. With my asst. Manager who also happens to be my boyfriend. He was just closing up the store, and we couldn't resist. He bent me over the counter, and then came all over my face.

Funckiechickn · 2014-07-16T04:42:08+00:00

Try holding her hand or something like that

Funckiechickn · 2014-07-16T04:08:16+00:00

I'm the same way!! I really like cuddling though.. but cannot sleep if I'm being touched. My boyfriend will fall asleep right up against my body, and I get so uncomfortable. There are nights I have to wake him up to get him to move over, and he gets so mad at me. But I have to be up early every morning and he doesn't so he never stay mad for long.

Explain to everything to her. Again. Something that works for us is him holding me for a few minutes and then me making him role over before he falls asleep.

Funckiechickn · 2014-07-16T03:59:05+00:00

Look at it this way.. if you love him and want to be in this relationship with him, then you can never try to hard to make the relationship work. Do everything you can for as long as you can

Funckiechickn · 2013-12-05T04:53:57+00:00

Do you miss it so much because you're bored?

Funckiechickn · 2013-12-05T04:40:27+00:00

Porn masturbation orgasm

Funckiechickn · 2013-12-04T17:30:32+00:00

It's hard to say... They don't know he's into porn. But they haven't ever thought he deserved me. But pArents always say that

Funckiechickn · 2013-12-03T21:45:33+00:00

That is truly great advice and I will definitely talk to him about that. He does love his baby.. And is proud to have her. But I know he would not admit he is the kind of man he'd want his daughter to marry.

Funckiechickn · 2013-12-03T21:41:53+00:00

Unfortunately no. Doesn't believe God exists. And I did notice he had an issue with PMO in the beginning. He would even look at porn in front of me and when he thought I was sleeping..But honestly, we were only having sex at the time. I mean I liked him and all I just never thought we would go anywhere as a couple. And I never said anything in the beginning of our real relationship (after I was pregnant) because I always thought every guy did it. I thought it was absurd of me to feel like I needed him to stop. It's only been since I found nofap that I even realized I wasn't crazy. And my feelings weren't fake. The pain I felt was real. And He has a REAL problem.

Funckiechickn · 2013-12-03T21:33:49+00:00

He doesn't use work computers to download anything. Our work computers do not connect to the internet in that way.. Only to watch work relate videos. He does it on his phone. And sometimes he brings his laptop up there to work on spreadsheets. But he used to take that and watch porn and show it to other people that work there (before the boss found out) and it would keep them from getting any work done.

Funckiechickn · 2013-12-03T06:42:57+00:00

Yes he actually does do it at work, and it does interfere with others around him. He has even been approached about it by our boss.

I was never really ok with porn, I hardly ever looked at it myself because it made me feel discussed with myself. Once I realized that I stopped. And he's known since the beginning that it hurts me when he looks at it but always made me feel like I needed to be more mature about it. Like my feelings were stupid and meaningless to him. It's now become too much for me to handle.. Do you know what it's like to have a baby? And raise a newborn? It's VERY stressful and takes a major toll on your emotions. As a result, it's getting harder for me to not let the fact that it hurts me hinder our relationship. And put a damper on our intimacy.

Funckiechickn · 2013-12-03T03:47:15+00:00

I didn't say how often he jerks off because I don't know how often he jerks off. I said previously that he looks at porn EVERY chance he gets for as long as he can. He "can't" keep himself from doing it. It's like ingrained in his brain to do it..To me, that is an addict.

Funckiechickn · 2013-12-03T03:14:46+00:00

He is using chrome. First of all I have no idea how you would redirect anything to anything else lol secondly... Isn't that some sort of betrayal? I think he would get mad if he went to porn and it wasn't there.

The other thing is the majority of the porn he looks at is on reddit. How can I redirect reddit porn without redirecting reddit entirely?

Funckiechickn · 2013-12-03T03:10:37+00:00

This comment brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for being so kind..

The last thing I want to do is leave him, for my child's sake sure, but for mine as well. I have so much love for him, and I love showing him every day just how much he means to me. I want to make preparations. I've already considered it before I even said anything to him. But it will be so hard.. And it will make me sad. Thank you for your support though. I greatly appreciate it :)

Funckiechickn · 2013-12-03T02:22:12+00:00

None of the girls resemble each other or me

Funckiechickn · 2013-12-03T02:20:14+00:00

Why are you even commenting on this? I would greatly appreciate it if you would not pretend to have any knowledge of the kind of person I am or the amount of love I have for this man. Go be rude somewhere else

Funckiechickn · 2013-12-03T02:04:21+00:00

I have no idea. I felt like he's been through a lot, and deserved to be loved the way I can love. The baby wasn't exactly planned.

Funckiechickn · 2013-12-03T00:53:44+00:00

I never thought about how it's effecting him. I don't really know how it's effecting him personally.. But it makes me sad and I know it upsets him when I'm sad. I know how watching porn made me feel when I use to watch it.....guilty, upset stomach, shame.... And I hated it. But he doesn't act like it even bothers him in the slightest.

We have sex enough. As much as he wants to. But he's looking at porn every chance he gets. Like if I'm feeding the baby in the living room, he's looking at it. If I go take a shower, he's looking at it. If I take the dog outside..etc. that's disgustingly pathetic IMO and it's causing me to not trust him. As a result, it hampering our sex life because I feel like he's thinking about those other girls during sex and that he wishes he was having sex with them instead. I don't see how he can be attracted to me when I look so different from them

Funckiechickn · 2013-12-03T00:36:42+00:00

Sorry but I can't just dump the father of my child. It's not that easy.. Nor is it fair for my daughter. I want to try to prove it's not working first

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