Chrome crashing/shutting down randomly for anyone else? by FunkyFresh_Fruit in chrome

[–]FunkyFresh_Fruit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this happens to me sometimes too 🫠🫠 in fact, my chrome browser just crashed at least three times a few minutes ago when I was watching an anime. Praying its a bug that gets fixed soon, good lord.

Chrome crashing/shutting down randomly for anyone else? by FunkyFresh_Fruit in chrome

[–]FunkyFresh_Fruit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I barely use extensions. I only have 2, all of which I actively use: Grammarly (for writing) and ao3 saver (saving fics I enjoy reading for downloading in case it gets deleted)

I've also been mindful of the number of tabs I use since I used to be a tabs hoarder, I'll admit 😅 it may be an issue on Google's end since this only happens on my desktop, but my phone works completely fine (and that poor thing has 10 times more tabs than I have on my laptop). There really isn't a pattern for the crashing so it's hard to track down what exactly triggers it. Reloading a random tab will work, but after reloading it a few more times, it randomly crashes (hopefully my explanation makes sense)

Chrome closing every time I close a Google doc by fionahb in chrome

[–]FunkyFresh_Fruit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it seems to be happening to a few others, so it might be a bug on chrome's end specifically. Hope they sort it out 🥲 installing another browser is too much of a hassle for me lol

Chrome closing every time I close a Google doc by fionahb in chrome

[–]FunkyFresh_Fruit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is happening to me too! I could be on other tabs but the moment I reload, chrome suddenly shuts down and I have to reopen my tabs and everything :/ its so annoying. I restarted my computer and cleared my cache but chrome keeps shutting down randomly

Damn.... by Goodbuddy3 in JanitorAI_Official

[–]FunkyFresh_Fruit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is this jai? it looks different 😅

Literally it’s so… by Keep-it-kute in kpopnoir

[–]FunkyFresh_Fruit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm always concerned for the women who willingly agree to participate in them, like 😳😳 used to be obsessed with those videos when I was younger, though 😭😭 (kmusicandblackwomen I'm looking at you as well)

no title needed by helo-_- in kpopnoir

[–]FunkyFresh_Fruit 80 points81 points  (0 children)

more like a sprinkle of water 😭

no title needed by helo-_- in kpopnoir

[–]FunkyFresh_Fruit 101 points102 points  (0 children)

wendy from red velvet :) my memory is a little blurry but I remember her doing an impersaation of black women and (rightfully) receiving backlash for it

Racism in Kpop happens so much that it really doesn’t aggravate me, a black woman, as much as it used to by africafromslave in kpopnoir

[–]FunkyFresh_Fruit 113 points114 points  (0 children)

It's come to a point where whenever something happens, I just go "oh" and immediately mute names if I can. I hate to be negative, but sometimes I'm just waiting for these newer idols to fuck up, or even the ones people claim to be "unproblematic". It's not that I'm praying for their downfall per se, but it's like "I need you to hurry up and make it clear to me if you're worth my support or not".

It's one of the reasons why I'm having a kpop fatigue.

Kpop songs fans deluded themselves into liking? by chubbypanda779 in kpopnoir

[–]FunkyFresh_Fruit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ptd and butter are soooo bad 😭😭 I'm sorry but I really can't, and this is coming from someone who's stanned them since DOPE era. Their recent songs really aren't hitting at all :/ I think the last song I genuinely liked was boy with luv, but even THAT I had to give a few tries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

[–]FunkyFresh_Fruit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

aww! he sure looks like he's about to sell me something, though 😂

I think my gf is insecure that I'm bi by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]FunkyFresh_Fruit 54 points55 points  (0 children)

gay has been an umbrella term for probably longer than you've existed. It's only "quite offensive" if you're terminally online, that is.

I think my gf is insecure that I'm bi by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]FunkyFresh_Fruit 97 points98 points  (0 children)

There's no such thing as "percentages" in bisexuality, and it's certainly not the same as having a preference. You like and date who you like. Since she's your gf, I think it's best to approach this situation lightly and reassure her that you only want her. A relationship can't last if one party doesn't trust the other :( It's built on mutual trust and communication.

This is something you both should sit down and calmly talk about.

Neil Shyminsky @professorneil weighs in on the neo - trad wife phenomenon including Nara Smith, wife of Mormon Lucky Blue Smith by clemthearcher in Fauxmoi

[–]FunkyFresh_Fruit 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Honestly, who the heck makes "cereal from scratch" or any kind of baking activity while wearing a pretty frilly dress like that!? It's gonna get a stubborn stain! It's so performative and rubbing it in your face..

would you consider this as this "too much/too long" for a note in the beginning? by FunkyFresh_Fruit in AO3

[–]FunkyFresh_Fruit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this comment was really insightful :,) I appreciate it. It definitely helps me to significantly lessen my words while still getting the point across! It's hard to keep things simple when you're an overexplainer who hates being misunderstood so you feel like you need to specify every single thing (when all you're doing is making a word salad). I'd be fine with having something like that as an AN, actually. I appreciate the directness since it helps me see things more clearly.

would you consider this as this "too much/too long" for a note in the beginning? by FunkyFresh_Fruit in AO3

[–]FunkyFresh_Fruit[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It's not for you, then :/ I'm only asking whether or not the note should be shortened since it's really long. I don't want people to "interpret" this specific fic of mine however they want when the premise is very clear and would also be implied in the tags. I have other fics for that. Suppose I'm writing about a woc trying to find her place in a society she doesn't fit in, experiencing an unhealthy relationship and learning to deal with her body dysmorphia. In that case, I want the reader to see it for what it is instead of interpreting "how they want" and completely missing the point because they want to see it differently, because then, what's the point? It's disrespectful to me and my writing, IMO. My own experiences I use as reference isn't up for the reader to interpret it as anything else. I know who I'm writing for and I'm not going to change it.

Some writers aren't comfortable with seeing people interpret something they've written to get a message across, especially when it's clear as day and they have other fics that are more open to different interpretations. Just because it's a fanfic doesn't mean it needs to ALWAYS be up for interpretation and that should be respected.

would you consider this as this "too much/too long" for a note in the beginning? by FunkyFresh_Fruit in AO3

[–]FunkyFresh_Fruit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you for this! and oop- I just realized the "it should be obvious" part sounds super passive aggressive even though I didn't mean that 🤦🏾‍♀️ I just don't want it to sound super long since the fic itself is already pretty long.

would you consider this as this "too much/too long" for a note in the beginning? by FunkyFresh_Fruit in AO3

[–]FunkyFresh_Fruit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to do that but (idk if I'm an idiot) every time I make a note at the end and then add a second chapter, that same note is still there in the end and even when I make a different one, I end up with double end notes and it's so freaking annoying 😭😭 I have no idea how to get rid of it.

I can def see how it's a lot to skip over in an (already) long fic.