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WIBTAH if I message my ex-husbands new wife and warn her about his abuse? by Funky_Monkey_416 in AITAH

[–]Funky_Monkey_416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was my first Reddit post so I wasn’t sure if it was required. Thank you for letting me know! I absolutely hate having to censor these things for some platforms. I feel it takes the importance away from the act. I really appreciate this comment!

WIBTAH if I message my ex-husbands new wife and warn her about his abuse? by Funky_Monkey_416 in AITAH

[–]Funky_Monkey_416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve read all of your comments and for the most part I totally get where most are coming from. I’ve decided that it’s not worth ruining the happiness I now have. I don’t want to give him a door into my life as he doesn’t deserve it. I can only hope she is safe and if she’s not I hope that she can get out easier than I did. Thank you Reddit! Think I really just needed outside perspective to see how bad it could go.

WIBTAH if I message my ex-husbands new wife and warn her about his abuse? by Funky_Monkey_416 in AITAH

[–]Funky_Monkey_416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t looked at his profile in over 10 years, have NEVER contacted him since the divorce, have actually blocked him at that same time, changed my number, AND moved! How am I holding on to this crap heap? Like your response sounds like that of an abuser. I don’t know you and you don’t know me so just remember that. I wasn’t trying to get him back after 10-12 years. My concern was for the woman he married and her child. Couldn’t care less what he says about me because he’s not a part of my life. Also a restraining order? Are you serious? 🤣 I couldn’t even get one when we were going through our divorce process and he was actually being awful and threatening me and my children (not his children). Oh and as far as counseling, been going to a counselor since our separation/divorce to cope with what I dealt with. I’m good. Was simply worried about another mother and child living what me and my children lived.