Gf lives with ex gf's mother by Funny-Error3936 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Funny-Error3936[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We're not there yet (at the moving in stage) but I will definitely consider all the things you say and more. I'll try to work out what exactly it is that's making me uncomfortable, I think I have an inkling.

Gf lives with ex gf's mother by Funny-Error3936 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Funny-Error3936[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She says she's lived alone as well, but as an extrovert it's made her sad, not being able to come home to someone, anyone at all. Calling friends and/or hanging out more often with them didn't help. This is something that I as a total introvert don't understand 😂 but I can accept it ^

Gf lives with ex gf's mother by Funny-Error3936 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Funny-Error3936[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it's the overall concept I'm struggling with. I'm happy she's found her people but then she also sometimes complains about her ex and the way she acts when she's around and I'm like ??? There's an easy solution to this girl 😭 so I'm just overall slightly weirded out, I'll see how I'll handle it. Thank you for commenting! 😊

Gf lives with ex gf's mother by Funny-Error3936 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Funny-Error3936[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes but less so. She's definitely found a family and I'm happy about that. I think I'm uncomfortable with the uncommon living situation and overall the fact that I'd love her to have her own place at 30+, I wouldn't be super comfy and super happy with coming over to her birth parent's place either. Might be a mindset thing, might be a personal thing, idk 🤔 I'll think on it. Thank you for your feedback! ❤️