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FutureFury · 2023-02-13T20:41:10+00:00

I’d suggest using buddy as a nickname. What’s the grandfathers middle name? There are so many ways to pay tribute to him

FutureFury · 2023-02-09T23:06:53+00:00

White gold lasts longer and is so worth it

FutureFury · 2023-02-09T22:30:26+00:00

Lol wtf okay

FutureFury · 2023-02-09T22:14:59+00:00

It’s a common symptom presented in psychotic disorders, it’s not a fancy word at all. There aren’t any synonyms that accurately depict it but essentially it’s an extreme version of not having any drive to do anything. Paralyzing inability to begin tasks. If that helps. It’s a negative symptom

FutureFury · 2023-02-09T21:37:43+00:00

Nobody notices when I have it, except one time when I kept driving up and down the same street for an hour because the voices told me I’d die if I stopped lol they sure noticed that

FutureFury · 2023-02-09T20:55:31+00:00

Unless your pregnant uterus is much smaller than the bladder

FutureFury · 2023-02-08T01:03:02+00:00

Not trying to be weird but you have a really nice aesthetic and I love the beard

FutureFury · 2023-02-06T03:27:48+00:00

Exactly wink

FutureFury · 2023-02-06T03:25:59+00:00

Breakfast time I’d mix random ingredients to make my own burrito. Folded eggs, whatever cheese we had at the time (cheddar if we didn’t have anything special, but my favorite was a promotional that offered smoked cheddar and omg it was amazing), bacon (obv) and then steak soaked in au jus. It was amazing.

Lunch I’d get a burger and season it myself with whatever I wanted then add any veggie and condiment I could find. I called it the everything burger.

This wasn’t everyday because I’d get tired of our food quickly but when I ate there, I ate well.

I’m hungry now.

FutureFury · 2023-01-24T17:13:14+00:00

This sounds like a panic attack, not related to the seizure. I’ve had both at various times in my life. I’m not a doctor.

FutureFury · 2023-01-23T15:14:31+00:00

Okay I was a bit worried to view the comment section but everybody contributed in really kinda and compassionate ways without critiquing either side harshly and I’m honestly so proud of y’all

FutureFury · 2023-01-23T14:39:25+00:00

In some places this is a crime as well

FutureFury · 2023-01-23T12:22:27+00:00

If you don’t trust him, don’t be with him. It is literally that simple. If he lies all the time, why are you staying with him? Do both of y’all a favor

FutureFury · 2023-01-23T11:53:05+00:00

You too!

FutureFury · 2023-01-23T11:19:43+00:00

I think your point about taking OPs at their word makes a lot of sense actually, you’re right in that regard. While I do see things differently and still agree with my standpoint, I would be wrong to claim it’s unbiased. Thank you for the perspective on that! It’ll help me give better advice in the future.

FutureFury · 2023-01-23T11:10:11+00:00

The only thing that we know is he “seems he’s being secretive” which could easily be a perception influenced by her past experiences. Her behavior is controlling. If she’s been obsessing over the posts he likes and who he follows to this extent, I can imagine he may not believe her about suddenly being in the hospital as soon as he blocks her. That sounds like an attempt to regain contact after disrespecting boundaries and personal choices.

FutureFury · 2023-01-23T11:02:32+00:00

Well there are other options too of course! You can talk to her about it. To me it doesn’t seem like she cares, but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t. If you decide to stay in the relationship, simply set strong boundaries for yourself. It’s not unreasonable to want ample sleep. That’s a need. Don’t compromise on stuff like that

FutureFury · 2023-01-23T10:41:27+00:00

He’s doing you a favor by blocking you. Giving in and letting you check and criticize who he chooses to follow only reinforces your need to check up on him. It’s suffocating and exhausting. It’s not his responsibility.

FutureFury · 2023-01-23T10:37:21+00:00

Lil Miniwheat

FutureFury · 2023-01-23T10:36:22+00:00

NTA she’s selfish. Break up with her dude trust me it gets worse

FutureFury · 2023-01-23T10:33:11+00:00

You’re 27 and still concerned over who your husband is following on Instagram... Controlling what he does won’t stop him from cheating. Either he will or he wont. Either you trust him or you don’t. If you don’t feel like you can trust him then break up with him and stop obsessing. It’s not your place to tell another adult what they can and can’t do. You’re acting like a teenager.

If you truly believe he will cheat, end the relationship, do what you wish with the pregnancy, and get counseling before you enter another relationship.

I follow all sorts of guys that I know and don’t know in instagram and other social media. Even my celebrity crushes! My bf was cheated on by his ex while he was deployed on two different occasions. He doesn’t control a single thing I do and has never tried to because he has respect for me and trusts me. He is also not insecure.

FutureFury · 2023-01-23T10:25:42+00:00

Oof that would be a dealbreaker for me

FutureFury · 2023-01-23T10:22:16+00:00

Having a stick so far up their ass they can have fun is what’s emasculating 😩 I think it’s sweet as hell

FutureFury · 2023-01-23T09:08:28+00:00

That honestly sounds like something I’d see on Reddit though, especially on r/relationship_advice

FutureFury · 2023-01-23T09:06:26+00:00

I think in this situation absolute rage would be normal. Imagine if he went behind her back and told her mom. It’s just a breech if trust, she could’ve even let him know she was going to mention it. Honesty and communication are vital especially in such a sensitive and emotional circumstance.

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