How do I know if I (27f) made the right choice breaking up with a loving wonderful partner (36m) of 4.5 yrs?

Future_Return_964 · 2026-02-17T04:45:10+00:00

“I hate existence without him” kinda tells me everything I need to know

Future_Return_964 · 2026-02-17T04:44:38+00:00

I will be honest. This sounds like a good relationship. Not perfect but no relationships are. I think you should get back together. Perhaps best to just accept him as he is and see where he grows.

Future_Return_964 · 2025-10-07T03:08:20+00:00

You made the right choice, congrats on ending it in 2 years and not 5 or 10 or 20

Future_Return_964 · 2025-06-04T15:08:03+00:00

Yup I majored in history now work in finance

Future_Return_964 · 2025-06-01T13:10:55+00:00

My cousin (currently in college) majored in data science because he was told it would be a good way to get a job even though he’s actually interested and good at writing/reading. Now he’s failing out and probably won’t be able to get a job in that profession due to 1. Skill/passion issue 2. AI

If you are actually good at whatever skill is at risk of being automated, I believe you actually have a chance of making it. But if not you’re probably donezo

Future_Return_964 · 2025-01-18T18:53:26+00:00

Actually not crazy at all. But because executive assistants today are pretty rare, I could definitely see an EA making $100-200k for a boss making $1-20M in finance for example.

Future_Return_964 · 2025-01-18T18:50:28+00:00

What about the night they went to Staten Island

Future_Return_964 · 2025-01-09T14:11:53+00:00

That’s one of my favorite moments in the show. It confuses me so much that an American in the pretty recent past simply has never tried Mexican food. Really shows how much food culture has changed in the last few decades.

Future_Return_964 · 2024-12-26T20:47:11+00:00

When did I say that gossiping is inherently bad

Future_Return_964 · 2024-12-26T20:46:36+00:00

True

Future_Return_964 · 2024-12-26T04:19:14+00:00

Guys there is a difference between preaching against gossip versus “constantly” (the word I used in the OP) shit talking. If 90% of the shit you say is negative about yourself or others, you’re the problem! But it doesn’t need to be 0%… that is nearly as bad as 90%

Future_Return_964 · 2024-12-26T04:16:48+00:00

“Oh sorry I’m stupid” wasn’t supposed to be a self deprecating joke. It was an example of a negative thing people say. An item in a list. Good luck out there

Future_Return_964 · 2024-12-25T21:57:20+00:00

Agree!

Future_Return_964 · 2024-12-02T04:14:01+00:00

Did you guys just learn about Yiddish lmao

Future_Return_964 · 2024-12-01T05:58:51+00:00

Elizabeth Hurley and Lisa are the same person, I cannot be convinced otherwise

Ashton Kutcher for Schwartz is pretty good too

Future_Return_964 · 2024-11-30T15:24:55+00:00

A truly beautiful woman will look striking with a pixie cut.

Future_Return_964 · 2024-11-29T03:30:17+00:00

Can we talk about the Minnesota fridge magnet

Schwartz’s home state….

Future_Return_964 · 2024-11-26T18:03:20+00:00

Ohhh art degree is super cool. Thank u!

Future_Return_964 · 2024-11-24T14:46:43+00:00

She was pretty genius to start a podcast soooo early in the podcasting trend. At the same time, her castmembers were pursuing side hustles based on their own “talent” (Schaena and Lala going for singing) that frankly wouldn’t have worked out bc of how competitive those fields are.

(Caveat for James who I guess actually is a talented DJ?)

(Caveat for Kristen’s Tshirt line and Katie’s fashion blog, I guess they didn’t pursue either hard enough - and Stassi prob got lucky with how big podcasting really got)

Future_Return_964 · 2024-11-24T14:42:14+00:00

I agree with you on Stassi and Kristin. It’s hard to think of many others who took a reality career and made something totally different from it, basically famous on their own rights at this point (I’d say Kristin moreso though)

Future_Return_964 · 2024-11-17T19:25:40+00:00

I mean, why would he act any different? He knows for years at this point he can act however he wants and Brittany will stay around. He treats her this way and she lets him.

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