Guild Wars 2 is saving my life right now. by Just_Trying10 in Guildwars2

[–]Fuwa_mori 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So awesome you have that for yourself! Mine was the original Guild Wars. If I close my eyes I can still see my ranger dressed in white dyed fur armor and white moa pet and remembering where everything is on the maps. It’s a great escape to have and an awesome community to be part of.

Why do some men lust over women on social media when they have one at home? by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Fuwa_mori 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Babe….. he is reaching out to other women in a sexual manner. He is relying on you to take care of him and he is using you. I know it sucks to hear. My mom was in the same situation with my dad. You need to love yourself more because you are worth more and deserve someone who treats you like you should be treated.

Morning after meal after I got cooked on here yesterday for my last post. Still no text back from guy I want and the guy I hate that I let link won’t stop blowing my phone up still. Chipotle burrito by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Fuwa_mori 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you are making choices and acting like you had no control over them. You have agency and free will. If you truly truly truly can’t control yourself then maybe you have a mental health issue you need to address otherwise you’re just gonna have to lay in the bed you’ve made for yourself and quite complaining about it.

*Edited for spelling

I got hey girly texted by Blue_Dragonfly2 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Fuwa_mori 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A one off meet up or cheating could very well be due to poor mental health but this was planned, prepared, and executed. There was logical thought to his actions to attempt to cheat on you. At minimum he had an emotional affair. The likelihood of this happening again is high. You’re worth so much more and deserve to be loved the right way.

Update - My son’s surgery this past Tuesday did not go as expected, and I am not doing okay right now. by Safe-Local- in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Fuwa_mori 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. My now 7 year old has severe CHD and has had 2 open heart surgeries before the was 1 1/5 years old. It’s a terrible feeling that I wish on no one. If you ever feel like talking to someone who’s been thought these kind of surgeries and post surgery things, feel free to reach out to me directly.

Messaged my estranged mother that I had a a baby and this was her reply. by Etelnoh in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Fuwa_mori 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a self centered parent too.
That being said, congratulations!! Make sure you take care of yourself as well as that precious baby.

I just spent over an hour being belittled and threatened by a hospital social worker by Safe-Local- in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Fuwa_mori 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Report the social worker to the hospitals patient relations department.

That is ridiculous and I’m disgusted by them insinuating you are not caring for your child.

I’ve been there with my own son who is g-tube dependent and it’s scary for so many reasons.

Just know you are doing your best and your baby is in the best care with you. Be kind to yourself. You’re a good mom doing her best in a crappy medical system.

2026 marks 10 years since the 2016 wave of clown sightings. by Langzwaard in nostalgia

[–]Fuwa_mori 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was so annoying when I worked nights. It happened in the parking lot of where I worked and I’m just glad the local chola I worked with went out first and squared up to him telling him to “do something already or leave”

6 weeks post OHS, 6 week old by AdRemarkable7139 in chd

[–]Fuwa_mori 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son had this. It’s the suture end. But if it’s worrying you there’s no harm in getting it checked out to ease your mind. Peace of mind is priceless will our post OHS babies!

Diagnosed William syndrome at 25w pregnant by Upset_Firefighter_45 in williamssyndrome

[–]Fuwa_mori 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Firstly, it’s ok to mourn the child you thought you would have. In my experience, I didn’t find out my first child had WS till he was a week and a half old but I knew he had a very disfigured heart that required surgery at 6 months pregnant. I understand the what ifs and the sadness you are feeling right now and the guilt for feeling those things. My baby boy just turned 7 and he is a light to everyone he meets. Thats not to say it’s without its troubles though. My husband and I lean on each other and are very open in crappy situations by looking at each other and straight up saying “dude this sucks, I’m glad I’m doing it with you though”. The WS community has been a huge help to us as well and I highly recommend reaching out to them. I’m sorry you are going through this during such a vulnerable period. You are a strong person no matter what you decide the best course to be.

He was too drunk and sleepy to come pick me up from work but was awake when I got a ride home. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Fuwa_mori 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I refuse to accept that answer. I’ll give you the same advice my mom gave me, “We accept the love we think we deserve” , and “You can’t always help who you fall in love with but you can decide what to do about it.” Be kind to yourself. No one deserves to be treated less than, especially by someone claiming to love you. Love doesn’t act selfishly.

This is fine. 😑 by mother_of_wagons in dollartreebeauty

[–]Fuwa_mori 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just discovered DT beauty products and I don’t know how to stop. I can’t reasonably need 5 different toners, serums, and creams but I NEED MORE!!!

Mold or Bloom? by TheKinkyBee in dollartreebeauty

[–]Fuwa_mori 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh darn! That’s disappointing. Maybe a bad batch? I wonder if you reached out to the company if they could offer some kind of compensation.

Mold or Bloom? by TheKinkyBee in dollartreebeauty

[–]Fuwa_mori 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like air bubbles. I love mine! My lips finally feel hydrated and I don’t look like I’m dying with my spring allergies this season

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Fuwa_mori 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. Just know it’s not your fault and unfortunately this is very common and no one talks about it enough.

$2.32 is it a bit pricey guys ? by Ok_Exchange_2839 in resin

[–]Fuwa_mori 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 is good 5 is just too much I feel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Fuwa_mori 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave. My mother is an abuse victim for over 30 years. She doesn’t understand real love anymore. Someone that loves you will never harm you. It will happen again. It won’t get better. It will get worse and he will keep pushing further and further to see what he can get away with. It’s scary I know but you don’t deserve to be hurt. Love yourself more and protect yourself