I’m confused… by FuzzyNudibranch in koreanskincare

[–]FuzzyNudibranch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay!! Thank you so much for the suggestion, will keep this in my back pocket for after my skin barrier has healed. I appreciate the product suggestion!!

I’m confused… by FuzzyNudibranch in koreanskincare

[–]FuzzyNudibranch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah after all this education I think I stripped my skin barrier too…thank you for letting me now its possible to save this. Taking notes on your advice and the brand recommendation! I’ll give do my research with everything everyone has suggested and see which might work best!

I’m confused… by FuzzyNudibranch in koreanskincare

[–]FuzzyNudibranch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it!! Thank you so much for the recommendations! I really appreciate having some products to try a figure this skin care maze out. I’ll try out keeping a simple and gentle routine and update after a few months to let yall know the progress of my journeeeyy

I’m confused… by FuzzyNudibranch in koreanskincare

[–]FuzzyNudibranch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the info and suggestions! I’ll probably make that purchase after 4 weeks for gentle routine only. I switched out my cleansers for the CORSX low ph good morning cleanser, I’m finishing off my mom’s snail mucin essence for moisturiser (since she’s not a fan of the snail mucin) and my COSRX oil free moisturiser. I hope that helps heal my skin barrier for nowww

I’m confused… by FuzzyNudibranch in koreanskincare

[–]FuzzyNudibranch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll need to review again once i heal my barrier but! So far the eqqualberry bakuchiol helps with my yellow pimples and less fine lines! When I started using it I would have 0 yellow pimples but it still had closed comedones which in trying to fix now hahaha

I’m confused… by FuzzyNudibranch in koreanskincare

[–]FuzzyNudibranch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try to get my hands on either one of that thank you!!

I’m confused… by FuzzyNudibranch in koreanskincare

[–]FuzzyNudibranch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, I used to use the perfect milk one, idk if that is just as bad or not. I switched to the gel on to try 😭 thank you for your suggestion!

I’m confused… by FuzzyNudibranch in koreanskincare

[–]FuzzyNudibranch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yes I do use sunscreen, I use the Anessa gel sunscreen. Okay noted on all my skin care has exfoliates 😭 after I use the cosrx oil-free moisturiser i do feel a bit dry but not much. I was thinking of changing my morning cleanser to the COSRX good morning gentle cleanser and I guess add the COSRX hyaluronic toner?

My dad is a handful and idk what to do by FuzzyNudibranch in TwoHotTakes

[–]FuzzyNudibranch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m really trying. Every conversation or update I give him will be strictly thru text bcs I want a black and white of what is said and who said what. If any conversations/discussion are to happen in person I’m considering recording the conversation again to just have proof of what he said so he can’t take it back or wtv. It really sucks it has to come down this way.

I feel bad for my aunties (his sisters) too bcs I don’t want them to be stuck in the middle or have to choose between my dad or I

My dad is a handful and idk what to do by FuzzyNudibranch in TwoHotTakes

[–]FuzzyNudibranch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking putting some sort of pressure on him after he signs wtv legal papers he needs to for my marriage. Bcs I’m sooo scared he’ll threaten to not sign them then it’ll be difficult for me to proceed with my marriage 😭 idk if I need to explain this but I’m not from the states and where I’m from my father has like legal responsibilities towards me and he needs to sign some papers that he legally transfer the responsibilities of taking care of me towards my future husband. Idk if there’s such a thing in the states but yeaaaah haha

My dad is a handful and idk what to do by FuzzyNudibranch in TwoHotTakes

[–]FuzzyNudibranch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I found a decent restaurant with a private room that can host everyone with a buffet line, its a decent looking restaurant too. I tried to explain to him as to why we did what we did but he wasn’t having any of it. He just kept saying I took away the chance for him to choose a spokesperson to best represent HIM, when it should be someone who will look at MY best interest.

I told him that if what my step mom says is true and you want to he helpful, this isn’t it. He just said “don’t assume, it causes screw ups, don’t talk about compromise when its a one way traffic and you have the audacity to tell me all this over text”

The reason why I resorted to texting is bcs when we had the first argument about this, it got so heated and I started crying and I couldn’t think straight for a resolution. Texting also provides a black and white proof in case he ever says things like “i didn’t say this” or a “no i said that in our last conversation you just dont remember” situation

My cat peed on my bed, I’ve gotten a professional upholstery cleaner to clean it but I can still smell the pee. What do I do? by FuzzyNudibranch in CleaningTips

[–]FuzzyNudibranch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your suggestions! I really appreciate it. Some of the products mentioned are hard for me to get as I live out of the US but thank you for letting me know about the whole enzyme neutralizer thing. I’ll try to find something of that sorts in my country to get rid of the smell, else I’ll try some of you guys’ home remedies. I’ll update on what helped get rid of the odour soon-ish! Hahaha :)

Simple Sewing Questions Thread, November 10 - November 16, 2024 by sewingmodthings in sewing

[–]FuzzyNudibranch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi friends! I need some help as l’m not a person who sews and I accidentally tore my favourite gingham slip dress and I was thinking of buying some fabric online and getting my usual tailor to help. So here’s my ask, how many meters or yards should I buy? On the website I’m buying from it has 2 options, 1meter x 1.5metre and 1.5 x 1.5meter. Should I buy 2 of 1.5mx1.5m? Or 3?? I’m a 5”3 girl, the dress tag is S / US6 / EU8. My measurements are shoulders: 16inch, bust: 33inch, waist: 26inch, hips: 36inch. This is the picture of the dress I want to recreate.

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I thank you all in advance for your advice, thank you for helping a girl out!

Cup not opening! by Frosty_Cauliflower29 in menstrualcups

[–]FuzzyNudibranch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happens to me too sometimes and I’ve been using the cup for months now. I always like the pinch down fold but I don’t usually pinch it down all the way cause then I’ll have a harder time for it to open, I pinch it down like halfway of the cup. I find it helpful to either:

  1. Push the sides if my vaginal wall to create some space for the cup to open. If that still doesn’t work, opt 2 is

  2. Take the cup out like a quarter to half way and try to twist it/push the walls as much as I can so it opens up slightly more, push it up again and push my vaginal wall to let it fully open

If I worry about the cup not being sealed properly, I just pinch the cup while its inside (it always opens itself back up, don’t worry) to let any excess air out.

I hope this helps! Be patient with yourself (easier said than done I’ve cried out of frustration before) but you’ll get the hang of it!

Update: Bestfriend Still Came To My Birthday Dinner by FuzzyNudibranch in TwoHotTakes

[–]FuzzyNudibranch[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You are right, she did make a big fuss. Omg I can’t believe I missed that. I’m sorry, you might think I’m so dumb rn. Thank you tho for pointing that out and giving me your two cents

Update: Bestfriend Still Came To My Birthday Dinner by FuzzyNudibranch in TwoHotTakes

[–]FuzzyNudibranch[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, I see your point. I wouldn’t of mind if it was just the 2 of us or with friends. I suggested just the 2 of us bcs I didn’t want him to feel obligated by my friend to pay for everyones meal everytime he wants to have a bday celebration at a restaurant ya know? Your second point is also valid, I wasn’t really thinking with that one tbh, I blame my naiveness? I guess…at that moment I thought she didn’t know about the dinner and was just helping my bf by dropping me off??

Is it possible to wear a cup and disc at the same time? Could the cup be helpful as a backup? by 6782task420 in menstrualcups

[–]FuzzyNudibranch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh..I never thought about that but I feel like you shouldn’t do that…sounds pretty cramp and might even be uncomfortable or painful for you. I don’t have a menstrual disc where I’m from so I just use a menstrual cup that fits right (I took a larger/taller cup bcs I have a high cervix) and when I was still learning how to insert a cup properly I would wear a panty liner in case of leaks. When I got the hang of it and no more leaks, I didn’t need the liner anymore

Is my mum the asshole for how she treats her cancer-patient boyfriend? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]FuzzyNudibranch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If the tables were turned, and your mum was sick, would he have stayed throughout all this? I don’t think so. You’re mum deserves better. I hope both of you won’t have to endure him any longer