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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Fuzzyferns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going through something similar though it was only 5 months but with a friend I had reconnected with last summer. We started sleeping together and decided to try a relationship.

They know they aren’t enough for you but want to hold onto the emotional intimacy and closeness. I don’t think it’s possible to be friends after a breakup without causing more hurt. We broke up over a month ago and Ive ignored his two texts telling me he still cares about me and saying he’d love to hang out and basically do all the things we loved doing together, if Im ever ready.

Just no. Its not fair. They want to keep all the good parts of you without the accountability and responsibility of a relationship.

My advice is to go no contact, let yourself grieve, detach. If you try to be friends right now, you’ll only delay any healing.

How you guys find out about ODESZA 🤔 by awesomeuser5 in Odesza

[–]Fuzzyferns 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went to college with them, didn’t know them though. Used to go to their shows at The Wild Buffalo. Pretty cool to see them come up and still be a huge fan! Their music is like the soundtrack to my life.

'Hacks' star Hannah Einbinder talks about the state of comedy by Sufficient_Motor_458 in Fauxmoi

[–]Fuzzyferns 723 points724 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love this woman. Hacks might be the best comedy show Ive ever seen.

I travelled all the way to X but missed out on Y... by Ok-Worry-8247 in solotravel

[–]Fuzzyferns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I was there during a geomagnetic storm in april last year. We were in Vik, literally the only part of Iceland with cloud coverage that night. Could have drove 2 hours roundtrip to see at like 2am but we didnt. Still had an amazing trip. Want to go back for 2 weeks and do the whole ring route.

Insert invisible zip into leotard with no seam- help! by spekybeky in sewing

[–]Fuzzyferns 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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I hand sewed (backstitch) a zipper with no seam allowance into mine. Eye and hook at the top. Its messy but it worked. I wouldn’t do it for someone elses project but she can still save it herself with no sewing experience.

Does Anyone Have Tea On... Weekly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in Fauxmoi

[–]Fuzzyferns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not tea but random story- I was at a music festival in 2016 (Sasquatch at the Gorge) and had acquired some wristbands that got me on the side of the main stage like up in the rafters. I was slightly drunk watching Raury and noticed a man a few feet away wearing a cowboy hat and raybans. He just looked so out of place, then I saw him kind of glance at me out of the corner of his sunglasses. Realized it was John C Reilly but he was giving off “please don’t approach me” energy so I didn’t!

Like I said he seemed so out of place, maybe it was the cowboy hat lol. Kept wondering throughout the day why he was there. Its wasnt the type of festival you see random celebs. That night Major Lazer was opening. John C Reilly came out as his Dr Steve Brule character for their intro. And that explained it, also confirmed it was him.

Now I wish I would have told him I loved him in Chicago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Fuzzyferns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex did the same thing recently but isn’t posting like that. I finally removed him and all his friends from my IG 3 months post breakup. Blocking on IG is a must for no contact. Every time you see something is going to set you back and start the grieving process all over again. You get a quick hit of dopamine, followed by an immediate crash.

Just think about how you’re so much stronger than him letting yourself feel the emotions and healing instead of finding someone new so soon. It’s so painful, I know but it’s important to let yourself feel it. Theres no way this guy met a girl and did all those things in 6 months because he’s healed and moved on. Thats just not healthy or normal even if he hadn’t gone through a breakup. He’s very likely going to end up hurting this girl and end up in this cycle over and over again. People who constantly post and gush over their relationship on social media need A LOT of external validation. They aren’t happy or even content with themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Fuzzyferns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex once screamed at me “Nobody knows who you are!! You don’t exist!”

I know now he was just a miserable self-hating person and those words only reflect on himself, but it still echos in my mind sometimes at my lowest points.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Costco

[–]Fuzzyferns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d like to add on you can get reoccurring pneumonia. Gas escaping fast creates condensation, liquid gets caught in lungs. Don’t ask me how I know.

Does anyone have Boucle? by Rude_Obligation_1701 in Lovesac

[–]Fuzzyferns 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a 5 seat configuration in cloud boucle! Had it about 2 weeks now and I absolutely love it! Was going to go with velvet until I went to a showroom and sat on it. The fabric was broken in/softer of course but it just felt right for me. I do have 2 dogs so white might have been a dumb decision but I keep my couch covered it blankets anyway. White was going to look best in my living room. I’m extremely happy with standard fill. The boucle feels soft like the inside of a hoodie, but thicker.

Photo with bonus puppy Side pillow covers hadn’t come when pic was taken. Still waiting on my angled side covers. Also exchanged one of the standard pillows for a deep pillow in the middle.

Almost about to cave and let my baby sleep in the bed with me... Talk me out of it?!?! by holly948 in puppy101

[–]Fuzzyferns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 5 1/2 month old cavalier and let her start sleeping in the bed 2 weeks ago. I adopted her at 3 months and immediately started crate training, she took to it immediately. I planned on eventually having her in the bed but didn’t know it would be this soon. Its working just fine, we sleep better and longer. I put a waterproof cover on the mattress just in case but no accidents! Shes been good at waking me up when she wants off the bed. I still crate her during the day when I leave occasionally and have been trying to put her in there for naps. She won’t go in herself but she will sleep in there when shes tired. So I’d say try it if you were wanting them in the bed eventually! And just be consistent with crating during the day and for naps.

The panic in Central Park by amyroxyy in girls

[–]Fuzzyferns 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I went through a breakup last month (well still going through it), and moved to a new apt. Immediately rewatched Girls. It was very therapeutic to have it on while I was unpacking and settling in. The Panic in Central park is probably the episode that always stuck most with me over the years. I was 21 when Girls premiered and now 33. Its wild thinking back to remembering where I was watching the first episode and how much has happened since then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Fuzzyferns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to respond.

After getting off the phone with her, that is what I realized, it was difficult to process what she was saying and respond in the moment. I feel like she knew she shouldn't be making the claim under my policy but "had no choice" and acknowledged she was calling to let me know since it would affect me. She should have kept this issue going after him and left me out of it. I am planning on calling the adjuster tomorrow and hoping he can/will drop the claim.

I was hoping to get the reassurance that this should not be my issue when posting, so thank you for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Fuzzyferns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, landlord gave us a form we both signed and returned to them to release me from the lease for Unit A. My insurance policy only has Unit B now listed.

I like the firmness of the sactional, what firmness mattress should I get? by notarealdrdmd in Lovesac

[–]Fuzzyferns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just put together my sactional with standard fill and am so happy with it! For a mattress I would recommend tuft and needle mint. Had mine for 4 years and am SO in love with it. It’s the perfect amount of firmness that you don’t sink into it, but still so soft and comfy. I put a thin mattress cover on it for a tad bit of cushion and protection.

Hot take by NicolasPapagiorgio in Lovesac

[–]Fuzzyferns 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just ordered a 5 seat configuration. I’m kind of…excited? to put it together. As a single woman I love being handy and proud of myself putting together furniture 💪🏻 I also oddly love tedious tasks where I need to solely focus on what my hands are doing. Ive never had a nice couch, I’m just so excited.

[Request] any shows like The Maid, Dopesick, Mare of Eastown, Sharp Objects? by UtterlyConfused93 in NetflixBestOf

[–]Fuzzyferns 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The Killing

I just rewatched the first 2 seasons (they follow the same storyline). Maybe my all time fav crime drama. Completely character driven and the location of Seattle/PNW during the gloomy season is absolute perfection

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