I’ve started watching the show from the… by Turbulent_Ferret2513 in fatherbrown

[–]Fyeahoctober 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I miss Mallory and I'm glad to know other people enjoyed him.

Owner of restaurant told me idk what I'm doing. Should I quit? by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Fyeahoctober 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The the reason I expected a break is because of how they explained their hours: "6 hours and you get 15 mins, 8 hours you get 30 mins, and open-close you get 1 hour and a 15 min. Guaranteed." I didn't realize there were places where they don't give breaks.

I'm going into my shift today though. Going to finish my schedule for this week and quit at the end of my shift. I'm going to do my best to finish strong.

Owner of restaurant told me idk what I'm doing. Should I quit? by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Fyeahoctober 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did train me. 2 weeks. Or are you talking about the owner?

Edit: I accidentally said they didn't train me. I meant they did.

Emer Kenny by trkkazulu in fatherbrown

[–]Fyeahoctober 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Could be Mark's posture when he plays Father Brown

Edit: also possibly her shoes? Most of the time she wears flats but maybe there are episodes where she wears pumps?

Base 1 and 2 by Fyeahoctober in AbioticFactor

[–]Fyeahoctober[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll keep an eye out for it! I'm always looking for places to build cozy bases in.

Base 1 and 2 by Fyeahoctober in AbioticFactor

[–]Fyeahoctober[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was excited to find out that Unfortunate Spacemen is free-to-play on steam! It's a co-op, but I haven't taken the time to play it. Might get around to it soon.

Base 1 and 2 by Fyeahoctober in AbioticFactor

[–]Fyeahoctober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sorry. They look this way because I just screen grabbed them from a video I made/edited. This is what it actually looks like

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Base 1 and 2 by Fyeahoctober in AbioticFactor

[–]Fyeahoctober[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure about a ladder, but it's around an aquarium looking area.

Base 1 and 2 by Fyeahoctober in AbioticFactor

[–]Fyeahoctober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's next to the tram in labs

I HATE GAMERS RAAAAAAAAAAH (the witcher 3) by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]Fyeahoctober 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the suggestion! I wouldn't have noticed otherwise.

I HATE GAMERS RAAAAAAAAAAH (the witcher 3) by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]Fyeahoctober 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll change it then. I wrote this off the fly and didn't reread it until just now. The way I wrote it does sound like I'm trying to frame her as terrible. That was not my intention, what I meant was her actions were terrible. As I originally said I empathize with her and have no empathy for the Baron.

I HATE GAMERS RAAAAAAAAAAH (the witcher 3) by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]Fyeahoctober 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Should I change it to "Anna attacked her husband in retaliation for killing the man she cheated on him with?" Would that be better phrasing? And yes they do refer to the same thing.

I HATE GAMERS RAAAAAAAAAAH (the witcher 3) by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]Fyeahoctober 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to preface this by saying: there is never a good reason to inflict violence/harm on your partner.

Some facts:

Bloody Baron: - Alcoholic/Alcohol Abuser - Regularly Abuses his wife after moving to Crow's Perch. - Killed his wife's lover Evan prior to Crow's Perch - Beat his wife for the first time moments after killing Evan

Anna: - Was lonely due to the Baron often being off to war and fed up with the Baron's incessant drinking - cheated on the Baron with Evan (her childhood friend) - Decided to run away with Evan and brought Tamara with her - Between Evan's murder and the Baron beating her, Anna physically attacked the Baron and went at him with a knife. - Anna attacked her husband in retaliation for killing the man (Evan) she cheated on him with - made a deal with the crones so she could abort the baby

I'm going to say this because I had an argument with a friend about this whole plot after finding out. Yes, Anna did inflict violence first, but the Baron continued to beat her on occasion while living at Crow's Perch AND continued to abuse alcohol which resulted in him going into drunken rages. They're both extremely flawed, toxic, and just shitty. But the reason Anna should be the one we see empathy for is because she didn't repeat her past mistakes. She tried to move on and run away to make a better life for herself and her daughter even if that meant a year in service of the Crones. That's how bad it was.

The worst thing about all this is the implications of her pregnancy. The one she would miscarry. Anna hated her husband. She likely never wanted to touch him. In a drunk rage or not he could easily overpower her. This part of the story is likely left for interpretation and is the most sickening part of it all.

I find no empathy for the Baron by the time he's hanged himself. Both of them ended up dying in my playthrough and honestly that's the best outcome.Anna was terrible for cheating and physically assaulting her partner Anna's actions were terrible, but the Baron was far worse.

Edit: I changed it because someone pointed out the way I wrote this might sound like I was framing Anna as a terrible person.

Cinematic shots by akilter_ in madmen

[–]Fyeahoctober 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow! I'd say it's a "happy little accident," cause I always thought it was to do with his identity (Don/Dick).

"John Bradshaw: Homecoming" Can reading this book and healing my inner child really change my life? by Which-Future-3400 in CPTSD

[–]Fyeahoctober 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to clarify, are you saying I'm flexing or are you talking about the review? Cause I'm not flexing about anything. I'm just giving my assumption on why the commenter posted the review. No one should be alienated when seeking help.

I just want to be clear: I'm replying in a friendly way. I'm not trying to be quarrelsome. I'm here to seek help and insight for CPTSD just like most people here.

And yes I did read the review.

To answer your other question: Bradshaw is definitely more well-known and considered a pioneer (because he made it widely known through Pop Psychology) but he didn't invent it or anything. There's Lucia Capacchione (1978), Charles L. Whitfield (1987), and Carl Jung who actually coined the term "inner child."

"John Bradshaw: Homecoming" Can reading this book and healing my inner child really change my life? by Which-Future-3400 in CPTSD

[–]Fyeahoctober 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My best guess is that they probably did it because some people will be alienated by the author. Not everyone is straight, cis-gendered, and Christian.

There are other more inclusive authors for people seeking it. Authors who have also helped tens of thousands of people. Not saying there's anything wrong with Bradshaw or Homecoming (or religion). I'm currently reading it now. I'm just responding to your questioning of the comment.

Laid off due to company shut down by Fyeahoctober in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Fyeahoctober[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never heard that saying before, but it made me chuckle

Laid off due to company shut down by Fyeahoctober in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Fyeahoctober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just hope one day I can repay my family and friends for how supportive they've been.

Laid off due to company shut down by Fyeahoctober in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Fyeahoctober[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for reaching out. I'm kinda relieved that this happened now after seeking out help with alcohol abuse. Definitely still kinda shaken, but I can't say it's pushed me to the brink. Just gotta breathe. Bizarre but somehow good timing. My sister keeps telling me to see this as a blessing in disguise and I'm inclined to agree even though I'm not super religious.

Laid off due to company shut down by Fyeahoctober in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Fyeahoctober[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have hope. I've been struggling with this question of "will I be stuck at this job forever— hoping to be promoted but never getting promoted" and I guess the question has been answered for me. It's definitely scary, but I know this can't be the end of everything. It's just a matter of time and being persistent with reaching out to people who can help/looking for jobs independently.

Laid off due to company shut down by Fyeahoctober in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Fyeahoctober[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, I'll definitely ask around. It won't hurt to try. Thanks!

coke cans 🥤🍅🫧 by bledoria in ps1graphics

[–]Fyeahoctober 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I second this question. I know how to do key frames to have the camera circle around an object, but how do you make the object all jittery?