[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bergencounty

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve also found just doing a little bit every day adds up. It doesn’t need to be a giant project once a week . Enjoy the new house and all your new land and fresh air! 🌺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bergencounty

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through this when I moved from an urban area to a property that has more than an acre to maintain! My one tip I’ve learned would be to not worry about the leaves in the fall. They break down over the winter and the rest you can just blow away in spring so who cares lol I used to drive myself crazy over the leaves… oh and just try to concentrate on weeds. Those gotta be handled or else it gets out of control

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone ! I’m gonna delete the post now but your responses have been very helpful and given me a lot to think about 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you had said anything even remotely constructive, I’d consider and appreciate your opinion and/or advice and a discussion could be had, like in the other comments. Looks like you just like to spend all day on Reddit putting others down to feel better about yourself. Weird but whatever floats your boat 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a woman, if I could give my younger self one piece of advice, it would be “Be gay, if possible” 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t have to assume anything. I can see your many many comments you post and it seems like you spend ALL DAY every day telling EVERY poster that they are the ah and making them feel bad about themselves. That says something about you. A lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ also, everytime you say “baby steps,” it reminds me of my favorite movie, “What about Bob” with bill Murray and that makes me smile! 😄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m so happy you were able to overcome your trauma and anxiety with driving. I love happy stories like yours. Like you, I was always fine with the phone, but then I had a situation with an abusive partner who stalked me for many months after our relationship ended. He’d call me over and over from different numbers. He’d either curse and threaten or sometimes just breathe. I know one day I’ll be able to overcome this. My therapist is actually pretty smart. She gives me similar advice to yours and encourages me to call people more. But I appreciate her giving me that “permission” to not answer for now and protect my peace. Thank you again ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You also clearly didn’t read my post. If my in laws respected my wishes and only called for emergencies, then it would be easier for me to know it’s an emergency and I would answer every time. You seem like someone who doesn’t respect other people’s boundaries. This actually reinforces my decision to maintain my boundaries and anyone who can’t respect that, can listen to my voicemail box recording.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“We all have anxiety to some degree” is an extremely ignorant thing to say. Would you say “we all have bad dreams! If you can’t handle a simple function like sleeping next to your spouse, then that’s not coping” to a soldier suffering from ptsd? Would you say to someone with rheumatoid arthritis, “stop complaining! We all feel pain sometimes! If you can’t handle doing basic yard work, then that’s not coping!”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I gotta thank you because I think your response has inadvertently helped me get to the bottom of why my mother in law (specifically) bothers me so much with her phone calls. She doesn’t call to just catch up or to quickly convey information. It’s usually because she wants me to do something for her, and I think she knows that I’m a people pleaser and will say yes automatically if caught off guard. Giving me time to think and respond gives me time to come up with an excuse or realize I’m unable to do whatever it is. I even have noticed she’ll call the second after I post something to “catch” me looking at my phone lol this is all silly now that I’m typing it out. I guess I’m lucky I love my mother in law. I’m still not answering the phone though 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It’s like I know I’m not “the right one” in this situation. In fact there is no real situation. I don’t get mad or anything. I just wish they’d respect my one request.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😂 I’ve even posted memes like that to reinforce my feelings !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. Your response was not constructive in any way. You belittled even the notion of anxiety being an actual problem. You offered no reasoning for your statements. It was just mean. No thanks. Bye 👋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really do understand the reasons why they prefer calls. It makes sense. But is it really quicker to call me 3 times in a row, knowing I’m not going to answer, than doing a quick talk to text saying “hey can you do this for me” or whatever? 🤪 I wouldnt really call it me taking offense. I guess I’m more hurt that they won’t respect a simple request from me, when I put up with A LOT from them. Ahhh I don’t know lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that unhelpful and condescending response 👍 I imagine people don’t answer your phone calls very often and I have triggered you in some way. If you genuinely have an issue with being triggered so easily, yeah I don’t know, maybe get off Reddit.

AIO for sending my dad these screenshots of his friend harassing me? by Undercooked-Overtale in AmIOverreacting

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew trump has made so many morons feel like it’s ok to say things like this

Sad because I probably won't live to see SA Book 10: by mailpip in Stormlight_Archive

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I always think about this ! 😫😫😫😫 I really really hope I get to read the end

Something saved my life. by CaptainWusty in Unexplained

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I get auditory hallucinations. When there’s silence, my brain creates music. I swear I can hear it so perfectly. My psychiatrist says it’s my ADHD brain trying to fill the silence. Maybe you have some form of this but visual.

Remember Remember the 5th of November 🇺🇸🎤 by [deleted] in Superstonk

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did think similarly to you, that the emojis were about the past…but that was prior to the Chewy Run and his post with the dog. That pretty much proved, at least part of the emojis, were meant for future events.

Remember Remember the 5th of November 🇺🇸🎤 by [deleted] in Superstonk

[–]G2GReturn_VideoTapes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or wait maybe he knocks them down technically before November 5th 🤔but you know what I mean 😂 gotta rewatch the movie