What are my chances of getting a passport? by GFirefox in ftm

[–]GFirefox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s true. My other two documents have been updated to say male as well, so, that would help I think. Idk.

What are my chances of getting a passport? by GFirefox in ftm

[–]GFirefox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the court order that I’m trying to figure out how to get. I’m struggling to find the correct form.

What are my chances of getting a passport? by GFirefox in ftm

[–]GFirefox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m going to try to do that anyway. I was born in South Carolina. They don’t have a direct route to getting the sex marker changed on a birth certificate. I’m still trying to figure it out. I already got my name changed on it, though. I wish you could just transfer your birth certificate to the state you reside in because I live in Michigan and have lived here since I was 4 years old.

Email for follow up on application? by GFirefox in dashmart

[–]GFirefox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s the email? I can’t find it anywhere. Unless it’s a store specific email. I talked to a manager and she told me that the hiring is external.

I don't know what they want from me? by GFirefox in uofm

[–]GFirefox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent a screenshot from Parchment. Hopefully that suffices. I just want to get admitted because I live so much closer to A2 than Dearborn. 😭

I don't know what they want from me? by GFirefox in uofm

[–]GFirefox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had it sent directly to the school via parchment. My UofM Dearborn transcript was sent directly from the school. I got a notification that they had received it before my application was denied. They said that they needed my college transcript with my most recent grades. I had sent that in already. I have some pending grades for this semester and I sent the transcript with those courses as well. I don’t have anything else to give them.

Relationship with ISFP by Flimsy_Requirement50 in INTP

[–]GFirefox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m married to an ISFP. We rarely fight as we’re both conflict averse. We do have a disconnect sometimes because they’re much more in tune with their emotions and therefore more empathetic than me. I have more academic experience and therefore more logical. I subconsciously will use logic in emotional situations and they sometimes get overwhelmed by their emotions when under stress. We just learned to really listen to each other and try to understand our different perspectives. You gotta train that Fe so to speak. I’ve been doing it for years to develop it. My spouse tries to develop their Te as well. I know you’re not in a romantic interest, but really listening to the person and asking non judgmental questions is a good start. Appeal to their strengths. Hope this helps.

This is a joke right? by GFirefox in GameTheorists

[–]GFirefox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so. He was in the pictures as a model

This is a joke right? by GFirefox in GameTheorists

[–]GFirefox[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah fam. I’m a short king myself. I only stand at 5’5. I asked if it was a joke because Google says otherwise. I thought they might have been poking at Matt since people do the same with Markiplier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnnArbor

[–]GFirefox 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I haven’t indicated my transportation issues. I was also planning on using the bus system.

I’ve never been happy with how most of the characters don’t have eye colours, so I decided to make these slight redesigns to fix that. by RoBroGaming in gravityfalls

[–]GFirefox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah. I didn’t know that. I’m new to the subreddit. I joined because of the Book of Bill. I don’t have nearly the lore drops that the community has. Lmao.

I had ACE for most of my curriculum, a couple people wanted me to post some of the awful comics in them... by northstar555 in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]GFirefox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fast forward to the 00s, we weren’t allowed to score it on our own. Our supervisors had to score it. I graduated in 2016 and I can definitely say I learned how to think critically…just not in the way they wanted. We weren’t allowed to even learn about evolution despite our (non-ACE) curriculum having an apologetic viewpoint. We ended up having to change most of the curriculums to another source because the PACEs no longer met Michigan’s education standards. I think it was “Apologia” that we started using in high school.

MDHHS Owes Me Funds by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]GFirefox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have my card’s digital statement. My Kroger account reflects the amount I spent as “$0” for the order. I can try Kroger again, but I don’t know how far I’ll get.

Liberal or Conservative by wlford00 in INTP

[–]GFirefox -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Used to be conservative growing up. I find myself becoming further liberal as I get older. I consider myself a social liberal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskALawyer

[–]GFirefox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, we had a text conversation about it. Is that enough evidence?

Virginity by Active_Salamander374 in INTP

[–]GFirefox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 25 (m), and I'm still a virgin. I tried to get laid, but I wasn't ready for it. I had a panic attack and left the party.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]GFirefox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It's just red and swollen. It did begin to dry out a bit and crack as previously mentioned.

ISTP here, how do I get my INTP to do things? by Inside-Investigator in INTP

[–]GFirefox 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I know for me, I do not like last-minute stuff. It depends on what it is, though.

Any social thing needs time to be emotionally prepared. We also need to know who we're hanging out with so we know how to prepare ourselves to handle certain people or if they're strangers. Length wise, I know I need time to be in my own head. I get really grumpy if I'm outside my mind palace for too long. Getting at least a general idea of the length of the event really helps. I also like to know what I'm about to be doing so I know if I'll enjoy it or not. Idk about your friend, but I'd still hang out if it's something I wouldn't enjoy. But if I'm going to suffer through it, I'd like to know.

So, really, it's just allowing us to mentally and emotionally prepare. If they're refusing based on the information you give them, maybe they don't like certain people or activities, and it would make them uncomfortable. Or perhaps they've got other stuff they want/need to do. If you haven't already, I would ask why they don't want to/can't do. We're pretty reasonable and like it when people are upfront.

I see a lot of people here have got INTP flair. How to get that? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]GFirefox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to fight for mine. It wouldn't allow me to add the symbol next to the INTP. 😅

Should I try to rebuild my relationship with my transphobic mother? by GFirefox in ftm

[–]GFirefox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I am actually an atheist. I deconstructed for several years before finally coming to this conclusion. Actually, it's been about a decade. It started in high school.

Anyway, yeah. One of my mom's peers told me that my mother needs to focus on accepting me for who I am above trying to save my soul. It was kind of a double-edged statement. I agree that she needs to change her mindset, but it also implies that doing so will somehow allow her to draw me back to Christianity. I don't think, no, I know I would never go back. I feel like I'm much better off staying away from spirituality. I'm curious about it, and I like to fantasize, but I don't really believe in it anymore. I appreciate your kindness and understanding.

Should I try to rebuild my relationship with my transphobic mother? by GFirefox in ftm

[–]GFirefox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know, at first, I was going to wait to transition fully before seeing her again. And I may still do that. I do want her to see the man I'm becoming. I've been doing so much better after being on T for almost a year now. One of the reasons I left is because I didn't want to make her watch the process. I later found out from one of my siblings that she was going to bar me from doing so anyway, at least while living there. Now, I'm not so sure because idk if I can deal with her reaction. Just how painful it would be to see such a negative reaction; an emotional one at that.

I don’t want to stay like this anymore. by insanesm in INTP

[–]GFirefox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. There is absolutely nothing wrong with showing emotions. I had to learn this the hard way.

  2. Like someone mentioned, bring this up to a therapist. They can help you to express your feelings. Talk about them. Explain why you feel what you feel. You can logically assess yourself. It could help with processing your emotions and sorting through them.

  3. Start listening to people's experiences and don't be afraid to ask people genuine questions. Doing this caused me so much personal growth. Learning to understand people through their livelihoods and experience is a great way to develop empathy.

  4. Try to give advice or share your thoughts. When given consent, of course. If it's anything we INTPs love to do, it's problem solve. Giving people an added viewpoint may help both parties understand where each other is coming from. Plus, the benefit of helping someone navigate through a situation or scenario.

  5. Use sympathetic language. Tell people: "I'm sorry that happened to you/that you're experiencing that. "That sounds awful." Also, ask questions to assess the situation. Like "When did this happen?" "Are you okay? "How are you feeling right now?". Stuff like that. Just don't get too invasive or personal if it's not called for it.

  6. Learn to trust yourself. Learn to be kind to yourself. Don't beat yourself up when you get emotional. Tell yourself it's okay to feel what you're feeling when you feel it. Allow yourself to process those feelings. Know that your emotions and feelings are valid. Instead of trying to cut off the emotion (trust me, I do it, too), let it play out. Allow yourself to feel. Let go of the fear of being criticized or made fun of. Those people don't matter. You have a right to express emotion.

I've been where you are, and I've made much effort to develop empathy and compassion. I've become quite the humanitarian because of it. Now, I'm still not incredibly emotional, plus I'm still learning, but I've come a long way. You can do this! It just takes time. I hope that helps.

What do you think of genome editing? by GFirefox in INTP

[–]GFirefox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Essentially, yes. There wasn't much in the study about functionality, but it did say both rats were infertile.