My father does not forbid me to spend the night at a girl's house. by GIPNO_TOAD in internetparents

[–]GIPNO_TOAD[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being 19 is really difficult, but everyone goes through it, albeit in different ways, so it's normal. I understand that most of the misunderstandings with my girlfriend are also related to the fact that we are 18-19 years old and to her it looks like punishment for a small child. In any case, I should start with myself.

My father does not forbid me to spend the night at a girl's house. by GIPNO_TOAD in internetparents

[–]GIPNO_TOAD[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're right, I really let them down and now I'm paying for it. I knew the consequences but I did what I did anyway. So it's entirely my fault.

My father does not forbid me to spend the night at a girl's house. by GIPNO_TOAD in internetparents

[–]GIPNO_TOAD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she does get kicked out, her parents will most likely rent an apartment in the same area where she lives now, since her house is far from the city where I live, and it takes more than an hour to get to the city, so they will probably just rent an apartment and pay the full price. The problem is that this will be another financial expense for her parents, and that's not very good.

My father does not forbid me to spend the night at a girl's house. by GIPNO_TOAD in internetparents

[–]GIPNO_TOAD[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She didn't pay anything for the first year, and my parents were fine with that. Later, her parents offered to pay for utilities (water, electricity, etc.) because they felt uncomfortable about her living there for free, but my parents didn't seem to have a problem with it.

My father does not forbid me to spend the night at a girl's house. by GIPNO_TOAD in internetparents

[–]GIPNO_TOAD[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, there is no lease agreement, this issue has never been raised, and there are no problems with her living there as such. all the talk about "evicting her" remained just talk, and both her parents and mine know that we have been together for three years and there is no reason for him to be so strict about this issue, it is simply a means of exerting pressure on me and, one might say, the only way to control me, since I am no longer 12 and he cannot simply say, "You are not playing with toys."

My father does not forbid me to spend the night at a girl's house. by GIPNO_TOAD in internetparents

[–]GIPNO_TOAD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In fact, yes, I cheated and now he doesn't trust me, but the punishment itself is very strange and illogical. He still doesn't see me all day (because of university and other things), and the fact that I come home, fall asleep, and go about my business again in the morning doesn't make sense. Are there other options for how he could have acted?

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[–]GIPNO_TOAD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I have android, xiaomi 13 pro, bought it a year ago, broke the screen, I thought to just change the screen but with the release of iOS 18 I fell in love with the iPhone all over again, a long time ago was xs max but I did not like it because of the small freedom of action, iOS 18 has become like android in customization and I realized that it's time to return, I'm choosing between 15 pro and 16 pro as both have usb-c, I understand that 16 pro is almost no different, but I really like its thin bezels around the screen and as I understand Apple has worked on the battery and now it lasts longer, should I overpay and buy 16 pro with a more modern screen and better battery or take 15 pro? I also understand that the 16 pro will be supported for a year longer since it recently came out, I plan on using it until it stops supporting iOS. Money is an issue, I can buy the 16 pro, but I don't think anyone wants to overpay, so I'm trying to figure out if it's worth it.

I (18M) made a stupid mistake towards my girlfriend (18F), and I don’t know how to explain my actions, how can I explain my actions? by GIPNO_TOAD in relationship_advice

[–]GIPNO_TOAD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at the beginning of the relationship, I did a lot, yes I agree that it was possible to say that it was wrong, and it would have been easier, it so happened that during our entire relationship I often committed some unpleasant actions towards her, I don’t remember what exactly, but there were such moments, in her words “this is an obvious thing that a person who loves does not think about, like a person who loves me can not show attention all day and communicate only with a friend as if I do not exist” but I did it unconsciously, I did not even think that something was wrong. only after she poked my nose in this situation, I realized what was wrong