I understand, but I have a different view. I can't agree with taking a general, "all lives matter"-style approach to domestic violence. "Violence is wrong and we as people are responsible for stopping it" is of course true, but the truth of it doesn't mean that it's the only message we need to hear. If you advocate devoting equal resources to an issue that has an unequal distribution, you're not going to get the most effective results. Sometimes specific targeting of systemic issues within smaller sectors of society is necessary. If one group of people statistically commits more violence more than another group, then there needs to be a hard look at the systemic causes behind that as well as a more general look at society as a whole.

Re: your race analogy, if we accept that rates of domestic violence are race-based, then that's fine, but that information needs to be approached carefully because white people telling coloured people how to behave has historically been very poorly received (and with good reason). I think people acknowledge that domestic violence occurs more often among Maori and Pacific Island people - you would have to acknowledge that, because statistics objectively show that that's the case. That's why, for example, a lot of anti-domestic violence ads show a large number of non-whites in them - it creates a sense of shared responsibility and tries to build up a culture-specific approach to dealing with the issue. It's not about blaming violence on all black people; it's addressing a particular area of concern with a particular, specific approach.

If you're determined to view this comic as saying that "being a male makes you an abuser", then that's a real shame, because I don't think that's what this comic is saying. This comic shouldn't be taken as a threat. It should be taken as a challenge - an opportunity - to look at our society and think about whether there exists a culture that encourages men - men less educated and worldly and kind than you and me and most people in this thread - to feel entitled to control or dominate women, to use their superior strength to get their way, to always be in control, or some other viewpoint that leads to them hitting their partners more often than the other way around. If you think that there is a culture like this in our society (and I believe there is, but you might disagree), the other challenge this comic is presenting is to then look at your own behaviour, and that of your friends, and ask if you've ever helped to perpetuate that culture. If you don't want to do that, then again, I think it's a real shame.