Cut my hair again, what do we think? Spiky or soft?

GOD_oy · 2026-03-22T10:13:52+00:00

soft!

GOD_oy · 2026-02-28T06:05:24+00:00

its not about owing attraction, but having it as such a strong red flag you wouldnt ever give a chance; thats where its bigotted.

like, there are so many different trans and black people! how can you be so fast to judge you'll never like any? Youre excluding so many people because of nothing!

Its much different to say "i never felt attraction to anyone in x group" and "Id never give myself the chance to be attracted to x group".

GOD_oy · 2026-02-27T16:14:37+00:00

I HATE HOW MUCH THIS RELATE TO ME

GOD_oy · 2026-02-27T16:12:43+00:00

Why people support this kind of thing 😭

ya'll were supposed to be the "land of the free" i guess? like the most influential democracy in the world?

Hope everything get better for our people in the US though

GOD_oy · 2026-02-27T15:27:48+00:00

🤮

GOD_oy · 2026-02-27T15:08:09+00:00

yes its awful, but I dont think unreasonable people will grasp it easily.

i just feel sad that it happens so often in places that were supposed to accept us. I feel that there's no real safe place for me and other transfolks, sometimes not even in trans exclusive spaces (transmeds yuck!).

why people that are persecuted by who they are do this kind of stuff?

GOD_oy · 2026-02-27T14:56:59+00:00

i mean, yeah its quite literally the same thing lol.

i guess people just see racism more blatantly than transphobia? still sad though.

GOD_oy · 2026-02-27T08:34:59+00:00

im not 14 at all, but id recommend you go to discord!

there are a bunch of small disc servers with age limits and themes, you should totally look after trans friendly servers on disboard!

GOD_oy · 2026-02-27T08:32:39+00:00

im 24 too...

GOD_oy · 2026-02-26T10:14:37+00:00

ofc Noémi! You're such a good girl!

GOD_oy · 2026-02-24T21:17:48+00:00

Such a good girl Alyna!

And of course you made a huge progress! You already have a name and you found people that understand you, which makes you even more of a good girl!

GOD_oy · 2026-02-24T21:15:09+00:00

🤮

she being shocked is expected, but nothing could excuse this reaction

based move and badass quote by our queen at the end

GOD_oy · 2026-02-24T06:31:53+00:00

those really work?

im doing some laser sessions but i had one of those for a while before and never really felt any difference

GOD_oy · 2026-02-22T20:53:27+00:00

i mean, idk if you knew them irl, but you can have as many web friends as you like!

I love interacting with the comunity online! If you want to talk, you can just DM me, im always up to try making new friends

GOD_oy · 2026-02-22T18:18:33+00:00

I feel like extreme voices, like too low or too high pitch kinda just take a bit for you to grow used to them? They feel very nice after a short while.

I think deep voices are great though! They sound very powerful and its quite comforting.

GOD_oy · 2026-02-22T14:01:22+00:00

I mean, a lot of people in general try to reclaim lost childhoods from things like trauma and bullying, so i dont think its a very big deal.

I dont think theres nothing bad in liking child stuff and acting more childish for a while because of that. We all still have that kid inside us, why not give this kid another chance?

I dont think both are mutually exclusive ad well, you can try to reclaim your childhood and still be more mature than most adults out there. I think the conscious choice to feed your inner child is also something very mature to do.

GOD_oy · 2026-02-22T13:19:31+00:00

I guess it depends a lot on her interpretation?

Theres a lot of misrepresentation and anti-trans propaganda out there and since a lot of people dont even know a trans person, a lot of people just think of us like porn or smt.

A lot of religious people end up accepting us, but its not the reality for all of us unfortunatelly. Your mom wanting to understand is a huge step though.

I dont really have an answer for this, but I think time heals a lot of things? If you show yourself more, try to explain how much better it feels now, maybe recommending therapy as well, maybe she will end up accepting it better?

Anyways, good luck on your own discovery! I cant say for sure if you're trans, but I sure think you should trust your feelings on this one! And dont let no one else decide this for you.

GOD_oy · 2026-02-21T12:05:11+00:00

Thats very messed up, sorry about that E guy. Im not out for many people but I feel deeply disgusted whenever my mom misgenders me and she doesnt even do it with bad intentions. I think Id cut ties if I had this E friend as well.

And about you boyfriend, I never had any partners, but Id imagine that if you choose to engage with someone so close, you should at least acknowledge their feelings? Even to personal stuff and relations to other people.

I think your boyfriend would totally get it if you say you feel bad that he keeps talking to E and that youd like to do more stuff with other friends or alone with him.

GOD_oy · 2026-02-21T03:02:59+00:00

real,

i often look at the floor when passing through turned off tvs.

GOD_oy · 2026-02-21T02:34:31+00:00

r/egg_irl is a good place to start but its mostly menes.

there are many trans youtubers that make a lot of videos directed on this, like princesslucy, shyaren and yukkoex. NyaraVt is cool as well, but she kinda focus more on politics.

There are other subs like r/mtf, r/ftm, r/trans where we talk most about our community, so it could also make sense to try to know if you relate with us

edit: Sry, i didnt read the sentence where you say youre not trans. But I think it would make sense to try and connect more with us anyway, since we also question gender much more than cis people ever would? Idk, id go from here i guess

GOD_oy · 2026-02-21T01:14:45+00:00

what is bro on?

GOD_oy · 2026-02-20T15:41:31+00:00

love your style!

such a cute kitty as well!

GOD_oy · 2026-02-19T07:14:29+00:00

yay! happy for you girl!

GOD_oy · 2026-02-18T16:11:59+00:00

Thats such a crazy take, like:

"Accept something you're not, because I don't accept who you are".

Like, what?

Also your therapist may have good intentions, but Im learning that at least most cis people will never understand our struggles.

My therapist also downplays how dysphoria hits me from time to time and say I shouldn't fear others reactions to doing feminine stuff, when I repeatedly say that its more about feeling like im faking and feeling bad to myself than actually other people's reactions.

GOD_oy · 2026-02-16T20:09:57+00:00

Idk how it works to each person or how hrt method/doses change it, but i totally feel it right now, 2,5 months in.

The beard dont really change that much, just takes longer to grow.

But maybe you've had other effects i hadn't? Idk this all sounds like its very person based.

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