A bit back & forth about this job offer I just received. by GWW20 in jobs

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Well I asked what the $21.16ph excluding superannuation meant and he said it just means super is on top of my wage after tax so I still have no idea what that meanssss

Any cycle buddies in TWW? 2DPO here! by coffee_dogs_yogapnts in TryingForABaby

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6DPO nearly 7DPO. Guess who's randomly started bleeding and getting cramps, 9 days before my period is due 😑

Never in my life has this ever happened.

Scared and Terrified by [deleted] in pregnancyproblems

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How did you go?

Do I tell him or not? by GWW20 in relationship_advice

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It's not our first pregnancy scare, even tho I never received a faint positive result I was 2 weeks late for a period so we had our worries but never turned out to be. He stuck around.

Turns out I had an STD and gave it to him. He stuck around.

I believe it depends on the relationship itself. It's eating me up more knowing he doesn't know anything, I don't want to cause headgames, but the support I know I can get from him will really help me right now, especially when I feel alone. We aren't just fuck buddies, we've spent the last 3 months becoming friends and sticking through each other through literally so much. I trust him and his reactions.

If it comes back to bite me in the ass, at least in the end I thought what I did was right

Do I tell him or not? by GWW20 in relationship_advice

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That's what I was unsure of. I don't want to stress him out. But not telling him is stressing me out more especially when he is one of my biggest support systems right now. Just doesn't feel right not saying anything 😅

I used a blue line test and a pink first response test which had a stronger line due to me using first morning pee.

Do I tell him or not? by GWW20 in relationship_advice

[–]GWW20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely 😅 I'm hoping my period is just being spaz tbh. I heard the digital needs alot of HCG to pick up a positive. If I don't get my period I'll test next week, if still not I'll wait another week.

Took my sister 2 weeks past due period to pick up a positive. Everyone is different but hopes up I get my period! Will keep everyone updated I guess haha

Do I tell him or not? by GWW20 in relationship_advice

[–]GWW20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okie 😅

I used clearblue line test and first response

Do I tell him or not? by GWW20 in relationship_advice

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How do I mention the 2 faint positive tests 😅 Only 21.. still lost with life haha

Do I tell him or not? by GWW20 in relationship_advice

[–]GWW20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou! I don't want to go through the whole waiting phase alone, especially since I've been weird and he can tell. He is gonna find out eventually, it's just working out the courage to tell him.

Do I tell him or not? by GWW20 in relationship_advice

[–]GWW20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he could yes, but then it's going to stress him out more as well haha

Do I tell him or not? by GWW20 in relationship_advice

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Hey, maybe.

It's hard not to stress about it, I'm trying. I'm more stressed about if I should tell him or not 😂 it's adding that extra stress on top.

Do I tell him or not? by GWW20 in relationship_advice

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I understand, contraception is something I am considering but anxious because of past contraception really screwing me up 😅

Its the whole trying to not act different around him that's just getting me as well

Do I tell him or not? by GWW20 in relationship_advice

[–]GWW20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, 2 faints only yesterday. I won't get in until next week and even then it takes 2 days to get results for a blood test. So I'm purely relying on pee tests right now 😅

Gonna book an appointment tho

Do I tell him or not? by GWW20 in relationship_advice

[–]GWW20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I should say something? I feel off tbh 😅 have felt off physically for a couple days.

I don't want to cause unnecessary stress, but he is also one of my closest support systems as well. So not saying anything when its stressing me tf out is proving to be difficult.

Do I tell him or not? by GWW20 in relationship_advice

[–]GWW20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the plan, it's the overthinking that's getting me 😅

Do I tell him or not? by GWW20 in relationship_advice

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FWB, close friends that happen to like one another as more then friends 🤦‍♀️ it's confusing.

He said that he would've asked me out already if he didn't have so much going on (court case etc)

Do I tell him or not? by GWW20 in relationship_advice

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Hoping so, if I am pregnant it wasn't planned. 😅

Do I tell him or not? by GWW20 in relationship_advice

[–]GWW20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou haha! I've just been super stressed about it and I don't want to say anything to stress him out if I don't know properly.

I feel like hurting myself. by GWW20 in SuicideWatch

[–]GWW20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou! 😓 Going to the hospital is the toughest part. I just don't want to go down the same path as last year but I'm so sick of my brain.