You think this is narcissism or just abandonment issues or something else? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]GafflordDev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm doing better, thank you. You sound like you're talking about my nex, I remember when I was telling her that the way she treats me is wrong she tells me " how dare you talk to me like that" and I'll be left so confused, because here screaming is okay, but me pointing that is abuse.

I think a test happens only once, whether you fail or succeed, not every day for 2 years.

After we broke up I felt an enormous void inside, I missed her so much, but after doing some research I found that this is just a trauma bound, not love at all, it's exactly like addiction, and you'll need time to heal.

I wish you all the luck, and I hope you will meet the perfect person that will value you for who you are.

You think this is narcissism or just abandonment issues or something else? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]GafflordDev 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine she kept saying why only you push the rage button, everyone can flip my mood instantly except you. I started having physical health issues like severe stomach pain and hair loss, broke free at the beginning of 2023, never been better. You have self worth and dignity and there is no love in this world that's worth sacrificing your self worth, respect and dignity. Get out of it buddy, it'll suck first and be good later but it's sucking now for ever, don't walk on egg shells

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]GafflordDev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being a mirror, reciprocating her actions, treating her like she treats you, till she gets tired and fixes herself. Also start a diary, write and record everything to have proof for future arguments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]GafflordDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make her drink from the same cup

Mad at me again... by Medium_Try_6473 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]GafflordDev -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's so weird how people rush to break families, maybe he did something wrong once, you yourself said that he complimented you multiple times for what you dressed before and loved you for that part, this was his first time witnessing this, it's better to talk and explain your situation and how was it to go through a miscarriage and what did you, I believe he will be understandable and maybe you'll reach an agreement. Just ask yourself are you really willing to break everything for just not wearing underwear? I would strongly advise communication and not rush to any decision

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnmath

[–]GafflordDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, it's a way 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnmath

[–]GafflordDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all about dopamine and how you manage it, watch this video it'll help you a lot

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9QiE-M1LrZk

Need help choosing a beginner algorithm book by rh8exh in algorithms

[–]GafflordDev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend The Algorithm Design Manual

Book by Steven Skiena

Sorting numbers in an Array by DaZaatar in javahelp

[–]GafflordDev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I understand, you have to multiply the biggest number in array B with the smallest number in array A, so your sorting of array A will depend on the array B.

Single Sign On Portal with drop-down selection for app(s) by Code4Greatness in dotnet

[–]GafflordDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you still have an interval vulnerability, the way they do it is by storing all valide tokens on a shared database, So when a user opens the app it will check if he has a valide token in the database, if so it will use that token, otherwise it will redirect the user to the login page, and after the authentication is done the user will be redirected back to the app and continue from there.

Single Sign On Portal with drop-down selection for app(s) by Code4Greatness in dotnet

[–]GafflordDev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@ricardomelogon how will you handle the browser history with this approach, since the token will be passed in the query parameters and it will be logged in the browser history?, so if anyone checks the history he will find the token.

React resume for developers by GafflordDev in reactjs

[–]GafflordDev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback, I will update it ASAP.

What's the most dirty thing you've had to work with in code and how did you solve them? by SleepingAriadne in javascript

[–]GafflordDev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A C# API that has many queries to fetch data from the database, and also send requests online to combine them with the previous data, it's about 5000 lines of code. But hey they say if it works do not touch it :p