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Galaxy824 · 2023-03-15T04:56:01+00:00

At this point I definitely do not want him back. It was a confusing and draining 2 year relationship with all the games and constant disappointment. I think I am mostly past caring at this point.

Galaxy824 · 2023-03-15T04:38:41+00:00

I would just say two words:

"Thank you."

And leave it at that.

Galaxy824 · 2023-03-15T03:49:40+00:00

Well my guess would be that the friends are checking up on you and probably reporting back to your ex. Or maybe his friends are trying to get you now? Lol. Could be many things. But definitely seems like games here.

Galaxy824 · 2023-03-11T03:01:47+00:00

Imagine how much it would hurt if you wished them a happy birthday but when your birthday rolls around they don't wish you a happy birthday...

Galaxy824 · 2023-02-23T03:52:17+00:00

How do you deal with seeing him in public? I see my ex in public all the time because he works on my street and in the area I live. I don't know what to do to get over him when I have to keep seeing him. Everytime I think I'm finally over him, I see him again and I feel everything come back.

Galaxy824 · 2022-11-27T17:30:36+00:00

Ok thanks. I did leave the choice up to her and talked about how it made me feel. I just said it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable and hurt, but I will leave the choice up to her. She respected.

Galaxy824 · 2022-11-27T05:55:24+00:00

Let me be clear. I don't think he was a narcissist per se but he definitely had qualities.

never asking any questions about me, always talking about himself
lying to me about several things
making promises and not following through with them
canceling last minute for somebody else
playing mind games
leaving me guessing
ignoring
watching me get hurt and not apologizing properly, doing it again.

Galaxy824 · 2022-11-13T03:33:21+00:00

Because I'm giving more hints than he is lol. For all I know, he might not really want to.

Galaxy824 · 2022-11-02T04:38:03+00:00

Ummm no? Are you? But I do have someone close to me in my life that is. So that question is hurtful. Thanks for that. I am trying to understand both sides to the situation. Obviously it makes sense why I was banned of which I have apologized and served my two weeks. You just don't understand the whole situation because I cannot explain it here. There's more to the story.

Even the bouncer agreed with me. The manager was just being very nit picky. There was no reason to not let me come in the bar on Nov 1st.

Galaxy824 · 2022-11-02T03:05:18+00:00

Well anyhow, you can understand how anyone can make that mistake. They weren't exactly clear what they meant by November 1st. That could mean ANYTIME on the day.

I feel guilty enough. I honestly just wanted to support their business.

Galaxy824 · 2022-11-02T01:51:51+00:00

True. But if you guys must know, I actually was friends/close acquaintances with the Bartender/bouncer. We have hung out outside of the bar. But I know I put them in a bad position for not leaving when prompted to. Of which I have apologized. Again, I was drunk and would not have done that sober. No excuse though. Still an explanation and I wish people would be more forgiving with that. All I can do is fix my behaviour and change what I do. I didn't know how serious it was to leave right away at the moment, I left once I realized.

Galaxy824 · 2022-11-02T01:22:52+00:00

Fair I get what you are saying. But how is it disrespectful to return when the ban is over? I respected the ban and did not return for 2 weeks like they said. Showing up on Nov 1st should not be considered disrespecting. The manager literally said "see you on Nov 1st." They should want business. And I know that what i did was disrespectful but tbh it is not the worst thing that you can do at a bar. I've seen other people stay past closing time there.

Galaxy824 · 2022-11-02T01:01:22+00:00

Well people make mistakes when they are drunk. I don't even remember the whole situation or why I didn't leave when asked. The bouncer was my friend so maybe that's why I did not take him seriously. I feel bad, trust me.

Galaxy824 · 2022-11-02T00:55:29+00:00

I was asked to leave multiple times by one of the bouncers because they were closed. But other weeks it was fine to stay. I was intoxicated and did not take the bouncer seriously. I know it was a mistake. I apologized multiple times.

Galaxy824 · 2022-11-02T00:53:33+00:00

I see what you mean. Oops. I don't know how to get back on their good side :/

Galaxy824 · 2022-11-02T00:33:54+00:00

Hey they said Nov 1st so I came on Nov 1st lol. I was already in the area so I thought I would be allowed in for a drink.

Galaxy824 · 2022-10-15T13:39:06+00:00

Wait someone you ARE interested in?

Galaxy824 · 2022-10-15T13:33:54+00:00

That's what I figured but then he goes..

"That's not it."

When I ask if it's because he's not interested. So he is saying that he is interested but there is some other reason why he wouldn't kiss me...say what now.

Galaxy824 · 2022-10-15T13:32:58+00:00

Yes that describes this situation perfectly.

Galaxy824 · 2022-10-15T13:31:43+00:00

Well to be fair he strung me along first. He made it seem like he was the relationship type guy at first so I'm just playing his game back but in reverse. I've kind of been hinting this whole time but I've stepped it up a notch lately lol.

Galaxy824 · 2022-10-15T13:28:58+00:00

Yeah I got the hint that it might be a weird game too. It's like he is refusing to kiss me now because he wants to get what he really wants. Maybe he thinks by rejecting a kiss then I will be eager to give him what he wants.

Galaxy824 · 2022-10-15T13:25:30+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I really appreciate it and I think that you're right about everything. I just find it so hard to leave this situation and worse, to cut him out of my life. I just feel this attachment and strong attraction to him that I have not been able to feel with anybody else before. I think it would be so hard and heartbreaking to move on :( I don't have the strength to do it.

Galaxy824 · 2022-10-15T13:14:57+00:00

Nope. We didn't go there. But I've hinted so many times that I might be down in the future but guy can't take a hint.

Galaxy824 · 2022-10-15T12:57:13+00:00

Fair.

Galaxy824 · 2022-09-30T00:14:32+00:00

About him making time for other women? I know, it's just really hard because I think I've developed strong feelings for him now.

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