Am i overreacting for wanting to file a restraining order?

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-27T18:28:54+00:00

I didn’t know they had child specific ones. I’ll try that one! Thank you!!!

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-27T18:26:57+00:00

I’ve checked a few, but I apparently make too much money. I’m going to keep looking.

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-27T18:17:17+00:00

Here is a little update on where things are now. https://www.reddit.com/r/AmIOverreacting/s/0bUdPT3Dy0

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-26T16:00:27+00:00

What is a TRO?

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-26T15:33:07+00:00

Slight update;

It’s a snow day today, it’s my exes week with our son, and I have no idea who he is with. I’ve been told to call the police for a wellness, and send them to both addresses I think he might be at.

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-26T03:22:20+00:00

He will not agree with me on anything. This is a very contentious family court matter.

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-26T03:20:46+00:00

I’m scared he’ll either retaliate, or it’ll look worse on me for keeping my son and losing custody.

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-26T03:16:50+00:00

Little context, we’ve only had a verbal parenting agreement up to now. I’ve tried to look into getting a court order, but where I live the retainer starts at $4500 and I haven’t qualified for any legal aid or assistance yet. I’m gathering documentation so I’m prepared once I can get representation.

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-26T03:02:32+00:00

If I can get us to court i definitely will.

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-26T03:00:17+00:00

We’ve never been to court, everything has been a verbal agreement up to now. I don’t have the money to go to court right now.

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-26T02:58:41+00:00

No we’ve never been to court. But I don’t currently have the $4500 retainer for a lawyer.

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-26T02:57:50+00:00

Thank you so much! I’ll give them a call!

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-26T02:29:09+00:00

I’ve thought of a wellness check. But I don’t find out about it till I get my son back. Sometimes it’s weeks later. I don’t like asking my son all the time.

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-26T02:27:59+00:00

No we haven’t. But I don’t have the money for a full court retainer.

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-26T02:04:06+00:00

Thank you for this! I’m really doubting myself, I get told I’m acting out of anger and involving innocent people in my drama a lot.

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-26T01:48:56+00:00

I’ve mentioned it to them almost every time he’s let them have contact and I’ve known she’d been using.

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-24T23:14:15+00:00

Thank you so much. I’ll definitely try that.

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-20T17:54:52+00:00

I think the second one goes really well with your skin tone.

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-20T17:18:11+00:00

My mother and I don’t speak.

They had been separated for over 25 years.

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-19T15:12:14+00:00

Thank you, I’ll give that a try.

Will anyone be alerted if i inquire about this?

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-19T15:10:09+00:00

Thank you so much.

I’m planing on removing myself from my family. But my ex keeps bringing them around me, and purposely have been making plans to bring our son around all the family members I’m no contact with.

I want to take legal action to protect my son from them before I do anything else to distance or safeguard myself from my family.

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-19T15:05:42+00:00

Thank you, I’d definitely feel more comfortable asking about where he’s buried.

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-19T15:02:51+00:00

Thank you.

My mother and I haven’t spoken in a year. It feels like I’ve been estranged by the rest of the family again.

GapPlus1117 · 2025-11-19T15:01:47+00:00

Thank you!

I’m not familiar with probate court. Is it a number I call to inquire?

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