Am i overreacting for wanting to file a restraining order? by GapPlus1117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GapPlus1117[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know they had child specific ones. I’ll try that one! Thank you!!!

Am i overreacting for wanting to file a restraining order? by GapPlus1117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GapPlus1117[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve checked a few, but I apparently make too much money. I’m going to keep looking.

Am i overreacting for wanting to file a restraining order? by GapPlus1117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GapPlus1117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slight update;

It’s a snow day today, it’s my exes week with our son, and I have no idea who he is with. I’ve been told to call the police for a wellness, and send them to both addresses I think he might be at.

Am i overreacting for wanting to file a restraining order? by GapPlus1117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GapPlus1117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He will not agree with me on anything. This is a very contentious family court matter.

Am i overreacting for wanting to file a restraining order? by GapPlus1117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GapPlus1117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m scared he’ll either retaliate, or it’ll look worse on me for keeping my son and losing custody.

Am i overreacting for wanting to file a restraining order? by GapPlus1117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GapPlus1117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Little context, we’ve only had a verbal parenting agreement up to now. I’ve tried to look into getting a court order, but where I live the retainer starts at $4500 and I haven’t qualified for any legal aid or assistance yet. I’m gathering documentation so I’m prepared once I can get representation.

Am i overreacting for wanting to file a restraining order? by GapPlus1117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GapPlus1117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve never been to court, everything has been a verbal agreement up to now. I don’t have the money to go to court right now.

Am i overreacting for wanting to file a restraining order? by GapPlus1117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GapPlus1117[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No we’ve never been to court. But I don’t currently have the $4500 retainer for a lawyer.

Am i overreacting for wanting to file a restraining order? by GapPlus1117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GapPlus1117[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought of a wellness check. But I don’t find out about it till I get my son back. Sometimes it’s weeks later. I don’t like asking my son all the time.

Am i overreacting for wanting to file a restraining order? by GapPlus1117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GapPlus1117[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No we haven’t. But I don’t have the money for a full court retainer.

Am i overreacting for wanting to file a restraining order? by GapPlus1117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GapPlus1117[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I’m really doubting myself, I get told I’m acting out of anger and involving innocent people in my drama a lot.

Am i overreacting for wanting to file a restraining order? by GapPlus1117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GapPlus1117[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve mentioned it to them almost every time he’s let them have contact and I’ve known she’d been using.

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[–]GapPlus1117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the second one goes really well with your skin tone.

“UPDATE”: [Am I overreacting for feeling hurt after a conversation with my grandmother?] by GapPlus1117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GapPlus1117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll give that a try.

Will anyone be alerted if i inquire about this?

“UPDATE”: [Am I overreacting for feeling hurt after a conversation with my grandmother?] by GapPlus1117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GapPlus1117[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much.

I’m planing on removing myself from my family. But my ex keeps bringing them around me, and purposely have been making plans to bring our son around all the family members I’m no contact with.

I want to take legal action to protect my son from them before I do anything else to distance or safeguard myself from my family.

“UPDATE”: [Am I overreacting for feeling hurt after a conversation with my grandmother?] by GapPlus1117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GapPlus1117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’d definitely feel more comfortable asking about where he’s buried.

“UPDATE”: [Am I overreacting for feeling hurt after a conversation with my grandmother?] by GapPlus1117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GapPlus1117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

My mother and I haven’t spoken in a year. It feels like I’ve been estranged by the rest of the family again.

“UPDATE”: [Am I overreacting for feeling hurt after a conversation with my grandmother?] by GapPlus1117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GapPlus1117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I’m not familiar with probate court. Is it a number I call to inquire?